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Topic: why is it that
DMACKD83 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 313	Wed 04/09/08 05:42 AM
im am having some great success in my business life but i cannot roll that over to my personal life...man i have gotta figure this out!! im not butt ugly im kinda funny and i do clean up nice. so anybody with some advice out there yhats constructive help a brother out!!!

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Wed 04/09/08 05:45 AM
Keep plugging along,it is like telemarketers they keep calling till they find a sucker.LOL

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 04/09/08 05:47 AM
Keep plugging along,it is like telemarketers they keep calling till they find a sucker.LOL wow, I wouldnt have put it that way, but he's right. We never see whats in front of us when we are looking... My advice is to stop looking, let things just happen. good luck

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Wed 04/09/08 05:48 AM
If you were a LOSER, the women would be all over you!

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Wed 04/09/08 05:49 AM
I read your profile. I am sorry for the loss of your wife. I think, at least on here, you may be too narrow in your age search. Maybe go a bit higher and lower on ages as you might be missing some good ones!! Other than that, you seem like a catch to me....

TristanBru Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 494	Wed 04/09/08 05:50 AM
If you were a LOSER, the women would be all over you! I agree, even more so if you had four kids and no car!!!

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Wed 04/09/08 05:52 AM
Its only because you keep turning me down...

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Wed 04/09/08 05:56 AM
Maybe try a couple body piercings and a few tatoos. See how that works. Worst case, you may have to braid your hair like a Rastafarian.

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 06:01 AM
im am having some great success in my business life but i cannot roll that over to my personal life...man i have gotta figure this out!! im not butt ugly im kinda funny and i do clean up nice. so anybody with some advice out there yhats constructive help a brother out!!! I'm no different. Here's how I figure it...i.e., my excuse, which you're welcome to use if you'd like. I deal with at least a dozen new people related to my work every single day. I've only met one man who was not related to my work in the last 4 months. (in the flesh anyway) What do you think I'm better at?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 04/09/08 06:01 AM
Because finding love is not at all a business transaction. The harder you push and the more effort you put forth... the less likely you are to be successful. Slow down, make it casual and relax. Love has no deadline.

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Wed 04/09/08 06:10 AM
You would think that because you are a successful HUNTER/GATHERER that the CAVE WOMEN would be lining up at your cave!

Madtanker03 Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 262	Wed 04/09/08 06:16 AM
If you were a LOSER, the women would be all over you! Amen to that, isnt it funny how that happens???

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Wed 04/09/08 06:16 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is.

DMACKD83 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 313	Wed 04/09/08 06:23 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is.

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Wed 04/09/08 06:26 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is. WOW! So does that mean all the men on this site appear weak and desperate because by joining the site we must be looking? WOLVES!

DMACKD83 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 313	Wed 04/09/08 06:28 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is. thats interesting... i had always thought of my self as a confident man and strong both physically and emotionaly. thank you for your opinion

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 06:28 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is. I think that's so true...with the exception of the confident wolf. This magnificent beast is on the endangered list.

DMACKD83 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 313	Wed 04/09/08 06:33 AM
im am having some great success in my business life but i cannot roll that over to my personal life...man i have gotta figure this out!! im not butt ugly im kinda funny and i do clean up nice. so anybody with some advice out there yhats constructive help a brother out!!! I'm no different. Here's how I figure it...i.e., my excuse, which you're welcome to use if you'd like. I deal with at least a dozen new people related to my work every single day. I've only met one man who was not related to my work in the last 4 months. (in the flesh anyway) What do you think I'm better at? im pretty unluckey in that regard there are not to many women to meet in my profession. i sell structural steel for a living not to many woman walking the high steel these days looks like we are in the same boat

DMACKD83 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 313	Wed 04/09/08 06:34 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is. I think that's so true...with the exception of the confident wolf. This magnificent beast is on the endangered list. well i am that confident wolf. im also aware of my enviroment and thats why im trying to be smart about this.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Wed 04/09/08 06:35 AM
I hope you find someone. My prayers are with you.