Topic: would like to hear from all
widowerseeking's photo
Tue 01/16/07 04:54 PM
have been told I make people sound bad. I often refer to the zoo or the
jungle when referring to the animals on profiles, it is meant in a
joking manner. how does it sound to others, I want to know.

songbirrd's photo
Tue 01/16/07 05:00 PM
i think that it's funny lol but if you wonder why ppl may think you make
us sound bad is that you never really have anything positive to say and
you judge ppl before you know them.i say that because of what you said
on one of my first posts not abt the jungle thing.

Kevin3824's photo
Tue 01/16/07 05:06 PM
Well referring to the zoo or animals in relationship to poeple my not
be viewed as a positive statement. I personally would have to say the
term meat market when you are referring to a group of people I find more
offensive. I also have referred to the internet or particular places on
the web as the Jungle. I do this personally because of a song by Guns N
Roses titled Welcome to the Jungle which describes a wide range of
different types of people. Some are dangerous and some are timid. How
others percieve your or my comments like that is different for each
person that reads it. Each person has a different set of values and
standards they live by. Personally nothing you have written stands out
in my head as being offensive up to this point.

alilbitDIVA's photo
Tue 01/16/07 05:45 PM
It sounds exactly as I said it..

You are always telling people to watch out..

That's how I felt, just because people aren't always friendly to you
doesn't mean they aren't friendly to others..

leroy01's photo
Tue 01/16/07 05:46 PM
Sounds very fitting to me. No offence taken here

alilbitDIVA's photo
Tue 01/16/07 05:47 PM
And ask me in the future..instead of posting a thread.

widowerseeking's photo
Tue 01/16/07 06:11 PM
first it was not directed to you personally, secondly if I would have
wrote to you would you have answered, Last I would like to know how many
others feel the same way.

alilbitDIVA's photo
Tue 01/16/07 06:32 PM
Does it look like I am someone to backdown?

I talk straight, to the point..and don't have any reason not to.

kojack's photo
Tue 01/16/07 07:04 PM
Trust me widow, Diva speaks her mind and is straightforward 100 % of the
time

Sluggo's photo
Tue 01/16/07 07:04 PM
Since you asked (and he did ask) I see what Diva is saying.

At times I see people snapping at you, such as Song calling you an Old
Man in a "non' joking manner... I've just brushed this off as a
generational gap issue. As Diva said, this should have stayed in email
instead of posting it...

alilbitDIVA's photo
Tue 01/16/07 07:17 PM
I LOVE YOU GUYS!

To Widows credit though..I did ask him in a thread why he was so
negative, I could have done that in an e-mail...

widowerseeking's photo
Tue 01/16/07 08:27 PM
was never intended to be offensive, was meant to add a little humor, I
see not all thought it was funny, so will be more careful in the future.

purplecat's photo
Tue 01/16/07 08:31 PM
The jungle ..the nut house ,, sounds more fun than {dryly}
the forum..........bla , the inhabitants ? the visitors..hmm what is the
politically correct termminoligy ..oh wait ..who cares!!! its all in
fun!!

kojack's photo
Tue 01/16/07 08:32 PM
^^^ I like how you dyed your hair looks great :P:P

kojack's photo
Tue 01/16/07 08:33 PM
OMG and those eyes woo hoo look out here I come

songbirrd's photo
Tue 01/16/07 08:38 PM
Sluggo I called him that because he was on my case.I was upset that all
I got was hate but now I'm sorry I said it K?

redmange420's photo
Tue 01/16/07 08:41 PM
Widower, some folks will get butt-hurt no matter what ya put, so just
scrape em off. Be you. Don't change just to make someone else happy, cuz
then you won't be yourself. Ya know?? All we have in this world is our
personality(or personalities!!), and if you lose that, you lose
yourself.

Sluggo's photo
Tue 01/16/07 08:59 PM
Can we all have a Group hug?

Diva, Purple come over here ;-) ...lol