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Topic: how to get over a cheater
MIKE_D1970's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:10 PM
Tell me how to get over a wife who cheats on you. Can i trust any women again. I know i had something to do with her doing this but i cant not blame mysef for this. any input on this is appreiciateted

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Sat 11/17/07 03:14 PM
yes ..you can trust some women again ..just not that one ...smokin

munch151's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:16 PM
Leave her. Or cheat yourself. Why be with someone that you can't 'be with' exclusively? If she's cheating then obviously something isn't right. That's no reason to beat yourself up though, unless you've been beating up on her or some nonsense like that. Either way it's probably over. And as far as other women... why judge other women based on your wife's mistakes? That's not fair is it?

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:16 PM
Time heals all wounds...
When you are ready- you will trust again and adventually forgive too.

Twitch's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:17 PM
Mike sorry that happened to you; I know how you feel my ex did the same to me.:cry:
Tombraider's right -- not all women are like that:smile:

HillFolk's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:20 PM
Forgive her that way you will be able to forgive yourself. Many women have given me the advice of just to get the hell away from the them. Save yourself some trauma.

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Sat 11/17/07 03:22 PM
once a cheater..always a cheater...get away now...or its a no win battle

MIKE_D1970's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:23 PM
what?

lily38's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:23 PM
Happened to me too. One of his "mistresses" was my longtime childhood friend. That was rough, and it took time to deal with the anger, resentment and pain. Takes time to build back up ones self-confidence, also. However, it does happen; we pull ourselves up and realize we will rise above it and we do. You gotta get away from her and forge your own path. Trust will be something you view quite differently from here out.

no photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:24 PM
Easy Peasy...just pick up junk from this site...100% arse

MIKE_D1970's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:25 PM
i have 2 boys with her and its hard not to deal with her

lily38's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:25 PM
.....hmmmmmm.....huh

MIKE_D1970's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:26 PM
seeee

lily38's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:27 PM
Sorry....last post was for stylish.

I have two daughters, also. It is hell breaking up the family unit, but it is more hell to live without honesty, love, fidelity and trust.

Puffins1958's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:27 PM
Mike...

It won't be easy, but I think once someone cheats, it cannot be forgotten. I wasn't happy in my relationship and I left it. If she wasn't happen she could have done the same thing, instead she betrayed your trust in her.....not ever good.

MIKE_D1970's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:27 PM
I LOVE YOU HAHA

MIKE_D1970's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:28 PM
LILY38

lily38's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:28 PM
I deal with my ex frequently. It gets easier, believe me. One day you will wonder why you sacrificed so much of yourself for the likes of her....

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Sat 11/17/07 03:29 PM
I don't trust any men. As far as I am concerned, they are all rats!

lily38's photo
Sat 11/17/07 03:30 PM
Well, that is unfair and not true. People are people, the good, the bad and the fugly.

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