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Sun 03/08/09 09:12 AM


having a 40 yeaar old speaking to you is fine
but when they adress you with a "hey baby, i want ____ you and put my __ in your ___"
thats pushing it.
not only am i 20 years younger,
no woman should be adressed that waay.
especially when they are young enough t be your daughter or your daughters friend.


The problem is that creeps comer in ALL ages.

I almost went to prison because of an 11 year old girl chasing after me during a party I was at and insisting I 'Knock Boots' with her. When I asked her mother what was going on and told her her daughter was creeping my (at the time) 32 year old self out badly and asked her what the heck was going on, I got to have a long conversation with the local PD.

Needless to say mom flipped out on me, called the police, got in a fight with three of the women who not only witnessed me trying to get away from the girl but likewise told me to tell her mom which I did. After I had a long talk with child social services, the police, and her father I was let off the hook. Turns out the uncle got her sexually active. Turns out the uncle was also hitting on mom as well.

So if you want to talk a about creepy it comes in all flavors. Not all of us "older" guys have such an utter lack of disrespect to describe what we would like to do to you sexually. Some of us really are looking for a real relationship for our reasons and others just like to talk to someone unpolluted by the BS a lot of women our age seem to be tainted with. If a guy comes on to you telling you what he would like to stick where on you tell him you are totally into dominating men and have something you would like to stick in him and where and insist it is gas powered and longer than a horse's leg. Assure him you will painfully break him in. If that don't get them to back off fast you have a real FREAK on your hands.

Some of us "Older" guys actually do have a heart. Try a little less treading on all of us like that. It is unfair to us real men out there. Believe me. More often than not if a guy my age flashes money and even remote interest in a 18 year old girl they usually try to lay claim on him immediately. Like I said, I can't count the number of times I see MUCH younger arm trophies under the arms of really creepy rich guys.



your absolutely right,
you all shouldnt be judged and im sure there are lots of decent guys.
its just how your approached i suppose.
but once you are spoken to that waay,
your natural instinct is to avoid another situation like it.

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Sun 03/08/09 08:50 AM

im taking notes......18 yrs and life is figured out!!!!


cant wait to hear her story when shes 25....then 30......40 etc


i'll keep you posted.

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Sun 03/08/09 08:48 AM
i didn't say a relationship would be possible,
but thinking of experience and comfort levels.
one must consider how you approach someone younger.
and just because the government believes a 12 year old is ready for a relationship, it doesnt meaan that everyone of them is informed and ready to be with a 50 yeaar old.
therefore, men should know that there is a boundary and there should be respect for comfort and just think of how you would feel if that were your daughter.

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Sun 03/08/09 08:39 AM
exactly,
anyone would be put off by that.

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Sun 03/08/09 08:37 AM
having a 40 yeaar old speaking to you is fine
but when they adress you with a "hey baby, i want ____ you and put my __ in your ___"
thats pushing it.
not only am i 20 years younger,
no woman should be adressed that waay.
especially when they are young enough t be your daughter or your daughters friend.

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Sun 03/08/09 08:30 AM
thaank you :)

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Sun 03/08/09 08:29 AM
Change for you

The Midway State

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Sun 03/08/09 08:26 AM
and everyone else was upset with my generizations :p

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Sun 03/08/09 08:23 AM
LOL, no.
your just one of those miserable one's that must conflict with everything i saay.

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Sun 03/08/09 08:21 AM

I think your really pretty and young. I hate you !!! Ha kidding your poem ......what happened to you ?




my mom dropped me :l
aha, im kdding.

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Sun 03/08/09 08:20 AM
haha, thanks.
i don't want to pretend to be some really over-friendly person.
i made my intentions cleaar, did i not?
and mentioned i'm a nice person :)
ah well, so be it if i put people off.
the only people i find worth speaking to are the ones who wont find me stand offish, but honest.

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Sun 03/08/09 08:15 AM
heey,
neew to this and not really sure what i'm looking for BUT
friendships are more than welcome and i reply to all messages,
don't let my profile throw you off.
i'm just not here for sex or really old guys who can cleaarly tell im 18.

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Sun 03/08/09 07:58 AM
i plaay acoustic :)
and piaano.

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Sun 03/08/09 07:57 AM
WHAAT ?!!! are you kidding me?
your the only person i've ever heaard saay that !
so if i look 30,
how old do you think you look? (nothing rude intended)
cause thaat would meaan we would look to be around the same age, no?

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Sun 03/08/09 07:53 AM
thanks, so know i look 13?

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Sun 03/08/09 07:53 AM
suppose I am a bit bitter huh?
k, thaanks.
I never realized i looked that young :s

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Sun 03/08/09 07:44 AM
do i seem intimidating?
cause people really dont talk to me : l

anything wrong with my profile??

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Sun 03/08/09 07:31 AM
i realize that,
good luck.

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Sun 03/08/09 07:23 AM
not at all :)

i'm stating the truuth and looking someone that agrees.

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Sun 03/08/09 07:21 AM
Edited by xnicolettex on Sun 03/08/09 07:24 AM