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Sun 12/13/09 06:34 AM
Good Morning, from cold and snowy southern Wisconsin..Cheersdrinker

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Sun 12/13/09 06:31 AM
Good Morning All,I have coffee on ,and bagles/and cream cheese..Cheers!!drinker

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Sun 12/13/09 06:28 AM
Good Morning and Welcome.
There is no Dr. on call here, but great friends that will listen..
Advice is always an option...Good Luck!

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Sun 12/13/09 03:37 AM

Yes? No? Do you beleive that what you don't know won't burn you?
Is asking questions and hearing the truth, even if it's not exactly
what you wanted to hear or expected the way to build trust?


For me yes...The point is I'd rather know,I don't have to agree, but willing to try and understand.It's means a start of openness... to build trust...But then again it based on topic,and does it go against my personal eithics , values and morals?

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Sun 12/13/09 03:31 AM
Hello all newbies!!! Welcome!!flowerforyou

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Sun 12/13/09 02:49 AM


dont have a list but at lest I will be abel to use that lump of coal that I will most likely get laugh

Shshshh at least you get a lump of coal heck I want even get the dust off the coal.whoa slaphead :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


Haha.i'm just greatful I can remember, why the lump of coal was used to threaten kids to be good all year...lolthink

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Sun 12/13/09 02:42 AM
I don't really wish for anything.I know we all use the saying,but with common sence anything is always possiable,with our own work put into it....I do wish all you a Merry Christmas tho.I don't wish to be politically correct..flowerforyou sorry

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Sun 12/13/09 02:31 AM


It depends upon the definition of 'come back' and 'let go'. I loved my first husband with all my heart and was completely devoted to him,,but when the trust left(after his infidelity) I couldnt remain in an intimate relationship with him. We wont get back together, most likely(its been fifteen years) but he is still the love of my life.


Totally true, and this has happened to me. Now one thing though, if you love them, and you know absolutely you didn't cheat on them, and they didn't cheat on you, and they are feeling stressed out from any problems in the relationship, I would say reluctantly, let the butterfly fly free, if they want to go, and if you both remained true during the separation, you can let them back, otherwise you were probably better off not together.


Happen to me too...When a relationship is so onesided it's better to let go.Sometimes it better to let the other regroup.I'm sure we all at one time had someone tell you, your the love of my life,you know they mean it, but then again empty words with no action to back it.

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Sun 12/13/09 02:13 AM
6 years ago this month,My son was coming back with some friends from a school game,20 miles away...3 car loads of kids.When a drunk driver came head on tward them.The first car tried geting out of the way,but went on shoulder,and rolled car, the other 2 cars behind was able to stop.All 5 kids in first car were killed.
The drunk driver went in ditch and was fine. but was passed out.My son called me asap and I went to the scene.And if you ever see anything like that, you'll never forget it.
For weeks I had kids at my home tring to cope with what happen, sitting on living room floor.tring to understand.Please don't drink and drive...call a friend to pick you up..is it really worth it.

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Sat 12/12/09 03:53 PM
I just let them use it...what

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Sat 12/12/09 03:49 PM
J/Kflowerforyou

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Sat 12/12/09 03:48 PM
Hello and welcome... lol going to slap that monkey:wink:

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Sat 12/12/09 03:47 PM
waving Is this for real?lost in space

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Sat 12/12/09 03:44 PM
Hello and Welcome

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Sat 12/12/09 03:41 PM
Hello and Welcome..I'm out too,lol

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Sat 12/12/09 11:49 AM

I'm not talking Bible here but...
Do you think each person was put on Earth for a distinct purpose?
Have you wondered what your "Purpose is" or do you think you know what your purpose is?

How do we know?


I know my purpose,A trait that started from my Great grand parent,and on down the line.We give what we can, to help others, to share our ears to listen,To use our voice with conviction, and trust others will listen, one good deed, is contagious, and passed on.Quite simple.... the power of love to love one another.

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Sat 12/12/09 11:08 AM
(((((((Hugs to you Ted!!)))))) Thank you for sharing,and keeping kids stary eyed, and smiles on their faces.Those kids are our future of the world.:heart:

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Sat 12/12/09 08:24 AM

It can't be my posts because I'm getting mail on other sites where I never post in the forums. I think it's funny. Sort of weird, but funny.


Ahh well lucky you then....Please give the gal your seeing as well a fair chance also....Good Luck

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Sat 12/12/09 08:21 AM



These are good answers and give me much to think on.

I may have screwed it up anyhow....when he mentioned meeting it was a few minutes after midnight and he said "tonight". My head automatically assumed THAT night (as in last night) and I wondered why the hell someone would ask me to go out that late and my head immediately went to a booty call..laugh. I just bailed out of the conversation. This morning I'm thinking he probably meant TONIGHT. OOPS! I'll just wait and see what exactly he did mean. If he doesn't email again....no great time lost.

Oh the joys of overthinking this online stuff! :tongue:


Well, your reaction would have been mine... However, I probably would have clarified which 'tonight' he meant. And if it was as in right then, I would have scared him off directly! laugh


Yep, It didn't hit me until this morning...laugh It'll be interesting to see if I get another email.


You might want to just e/mail him yourself, instead of wondering .At least explain your bolting.I would say he's wondering as well.Good Luckflowerforyou

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Sat 12/12/09 08:13 AM
Maybe just based on your replys, and posts..who knows??