I love her.....

You are going to encounter 2 types of "romantic" types of guys.

1. Those that use "romantic" gestures as a means to manipulate your perception that they are "romantic" which ultimately leads to you getting pumped n dumped. They pay you with romance, you pay them with what they want. A social contract. Short term transaction based relationship.
If guy acts like the guy in the movie, then it demands you act like the woman in the movie and offer him something in return. That's always sex, ego stroking, or emotional validation. There is always an exchange.

2. Those whose natural communication, personality, lifestyle, and interests are compatible with you that will ultimately fulfill what's needed to induce a "romantic" emotional reaction from you that you may not even realize as such except possibly in hindsight, and generally takes longer to recognize and understand as such.


Movies are scripted.
You understand the actor in the movie is pretending to be romantic in order to get you to buy a ticket?
You understand that it's purely emotional manipulation that you yourself generally fill in due to your own stereotypes and social conditioning?


"Romantic" is dependent upon your willingness to learn to communicate, your inherent compatibility in communication.

The more quickly you want it, expect it, demand it...like on the first date "sweeping" you away, the more likely you are never going to find anything other than the McDonald's fast food, movie scripted version that requires you to reciprocate.

Many didn't up load a real photo could you tell me why?