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Thu 01/15/09 07:57 PM


on online dating?

to me it depends on the site but i would have to say ,sites with forums you can see someone for who they are and its such a roll of the die with the ones your not to sure about....




I believe online dating has become so very mainstream now. I think it can be okay, but you have to be careful. Who knows the real truth with anyone on here. They could be anybody it’s too easy to lie on the internet. One needs to be aware of that and have pretty much blind trust, with that I think it can work and its okay.


I rambled... gr...
***poof***
I agree with you. i have always hoped and believed that people for the most part, have good intentions. Unfortunately that is not always true.

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Thu 01/15/09 07:55 PM

QUESTION:

If I were to block a person, that still won't stop them from verbally attacking me in a forum, will it?


I hope you do not feel that I have verbally attacked you , as that was not my intention. If so I apologize.

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Thu 01/15/09 07:49 PM
Edited by catd47u on Thu 01/15/09 07:52 PM


bigsmile Just because a person has a lot of friends,does that mean they're a nice person?bigsmile



ohhhhhhhh no

most d*ckheads seem to have an entourage
unfortunately this seems to be true. The weed whackers well separate the true from the false lol. I think a definition of a rue friend is required here.

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Thu 01/15/09 07:44 PM
i like the "block" feature. lol Most messaging services have it as well. Saves from having to deal with the "undesirables" lol

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Thu 01/15/09 07:35 PM

I've noticed that there are a lot of men (not all)on here that are looking for a sexual relationship first and foremost, no matter what they say they're looking for in their profile.

If that was all I was looking for, I would have said so in my profile.

JMO
Not to discount what you have said as it is true. (and that is coming from a guy)But there are some of us men who are not looking for a fling,myself included. It is sad that some men think with their reproductive anatomy. At least there is a crowd of us who do not.

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Thu 01/15/09 07:29 PM
Yes! weed whackers rock! I want to meet the person who created such an evil maniacal machine. lol

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Thu 01/15/09 07:27 PM
Cheer up. Life is what you make of it. choose to make the best of what you have, not what you don"t have. Just being alive is a great thing. My opinion is that there is always a bright side to everything ..The cup is not half empty, it is half full.

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Thu 01/15/09 07:21 PM

not having such a great experience right now :cry:
why not?

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Thu 01/15/09 07:18 PM
This is my first time on one of these sites. i find it to be interesting. You get to talk to people even if indirectly, and that I think gives you an idea of personalities and such. Still there is a fear factor involved I think. Does one honestly know who or what they are dealing with until they meet in person? That's one of my fears anyway.It may be irrelevant, then again maybe not.

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Thu 01/15/09 07:13 PM
My ego talks to itself. So its a jumbled mess, I cant tell what it is trying to say to itself lol Some would call this a "mental disorder". huh

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Thu 01/15/09 06:55 PM


My "Baby"



685 hp at rear tires....no juice!!! Set up for 3-stage nitrous, no bottle in the trunk yet tho.

any ricers wanna go at it?


Sweeeet one cat Yeah lets take on the ricers



Nice ride! Is there anyone here that is into truck pulls? I have a buddy that has 2 F-super duties that he has built up to pull with. He has spent crazy amounts of money on them, but they always take a trophy.

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Thu 01/15/09 06:37 PM
Our story started 6 years ago. We got married (against the advice from both of our families) and 9 months later our first daughter came. During the pregnancy she was violent,combative and down right mean. I attributed this to hormonal changes. After the birth things didn't get any better. But I refused to give up. one year later (almost to day day, our daughters are 11 months and 28 days apart), our second daughter was born. Same scenario as the first time. Now I am sure you all are thinking why have a second child when the relationship is already on the rocks? Well our second was, shall we say an oops. None the less I love them both dearly and to no end. We went through moves and more rough times, all the while struggling to keep together. I have my faults and she had hers. No one is innocent in the demise of a relationship, save for some extreme situations. She was diagnosed with anorexia and BP. and in March of 07 we split up. It was a bad split too. Each of us making our own accusations some true some not. On one occasion i went to get my daughters for the weekend and we started to argue. Thankfully I had a witness with me. as she ended up accusing me of hitting her. I was arrested and went to court. I didn't see my daughters for months and I was almost destroyed by this. Finally the charges were dismissed and visitation was set. She was granted full custody.Things went ok for a while with the visits. Although she tried to do everything she could to interrupt that. calling child protective services and the police and so on. Each and every accusation she has made has been unfounded. She then filed a petition to move out of this county , I decided to fight this as I felt I would not get my visitations as set by the court. She won and moved much to my dismay. I have fought and fought and fought only to lose lose lose. Now with any domestic violence case a restraining order is put in place. Well after one of the weekend visits with my daughters, myself and my mother went to return my daughters and again i was arrested. this time IN FRONT OF MY DAUGHTERS! I was absolutely furious. The police would not tell me anything as to why i was being arrested! I spent a night in what has to be the most disgusting surrounding i have ever laid witness to. I didn't sleep eat or talk. I went in front of the judge the next morning. I was told that on a certain day i was to have supposedly verbally harrasing her, and get this, while I was driving a school bus! I don't even have a CDL endorsement for school bus. And on that day i was at work and with my boss the entire day. Once again back to court. And once again I was kept from my daughters.The day after thanksgiving of 08 I received a phone call from the police. I was to to come and pick up my daughters at the station. Now my daughters are only 4 and 5 years old. So I haul tail to the next county to get them (with witnesses). A side note here guys and gals .. anytime in a sour relationship that involves children, always always take a witness with you. I can not stress this enough. So anyway..apparently she called the local police department and told them that she couldn't handle them anymore and to come get them. My girls were found in a room with scissors and half of their hair cut off, alone! Since that day I was awarded temporary custody and she has tried to fight and the fight continues. the charge against me for violating a restraining order was dismissed. Now I am continuing my fight to keep my daughters with me I will prevail as i will not give up ..ever.

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Thu 01/15/09 05:20 PM
Edited by catd47u on Thu 01/15/09 05:25 PM
I have a 99 F-350 diesel with a banks package on it. 4" exhaust from the turbo back ,no muffler. K&N air cleaner and a 70HP chip, 3.73 gears,auto trans.

Its not a speed demon 0-60mph in 9.5 secs which isn't to bad for 3 tons of 4x4 i figure. I want to upgrade to higher cc injectors and either build the current trans or replace it with a 6 speed manual. After i do that I can have the chip reprogrammed for more HP up to 120hp more. I find it interesting how the chips work, they increase fuel rates and alter timing and shut off rev limiters. All of that aside.. right now my truck is a pulling s.o.b. I have a 25' flat deck trailer which I have repeatedly grossed out at 26,000 to 30,000lbs with and it NEVER skips a beat. Out pulls the neighbors 03 dodge with the cummins. Any way I like american muscle

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Thu 01/15/09 04:57 PM

i once had a crazy woman play a wife character...her acting was horrible so she tried to find work someplace elselaugh
The writers for the characters in life went on strike so they dont do or say anything

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Thu 01/15/09 04:46 PM

I "screwed" up in the office with my ex...oh, wait! Different Forum!
huh

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Thu 01/15/09 04:42 PM
Edited by catd47u on Thu 01/15/09 04:43 PM
I was demolishing an old barn, and off the one side of this barn was a small shed .. Lets just say that the shed didn't fair so well. The owner of afore mentioned barn and shed came running up to me while i was still destroying things .. He said " the shed was to stay" My response.. "oh expletive expletive expletive". One PO'd boss and an insurance claim later, life was grand again ...

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Thu 01/15/09 04:35 PM
i have no alter ego ...my current ego killed the other. rather gruesomely to I must say.huh

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Thu 01/15/09 04:32 PM
As a man or a woman, do you find that the opposite sex has trouble admitting to personal faults? Do you have trouble yourself admitting to faults?

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Thu 01/15/09 04:02 PM
It took me 4 tries to get my truck to start this morning. I park it where the wind stays off it, but it was no help last night. I have had diesel trucks for the last 10 or so years.. This is the first time in those years I have had this much trouble.

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Thu 01/15/09 12:37 PM
Yeah I am lonely .. But i have my daughters to enjoy time with. It has been 2 years since my seperation, and during those 2 years i have found many things to do to improve on my myself and my life. To have someone to spend time with other than my daughters would be great. Someday..