I disagree respectively red6mist.

To be a follower of Christ, one does not need to be celibate. That's a good way to be of course, but mainly it's the community of persecuting Christians who believe you have to already live in perfection to live in God's grace. This is simply just not true.

We are broken, and Jesus is actually the only true Christian that was and ever will be. By the way, Check out "2 Corinthians 3:4-6".

We as humans live to condemn ourselves and others. But God sacrificed His son so we can stop living like that. Unfortunately it's the fallibility of humanity that stops God from working in our lives. Because honestly, the spirit moves no matter what we're doing.

I hope this helps you to see from a different perspective. He will not love me any less, or use me any less, no matter what I do. It's all already been done ;).