It's a big world.

Anyway. ... No real harm in meeting someone in a public place. If real names are given at the start ...(they won't be hard to find. ) If not...(should you choose to accept) their home address will.

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Hey, if people don't believe I'm 21 it's not my problem.

I reserve my opinions of a single mom until after her kids are grown.

But when deciding if I'd date a single mom, I weigh the same factors I'd weigh if she wasn't a mom. Such as does she have ambitions of her own? Is she intelligent? Can she have an adult conversation? Is she rude? Impatient? A Giver or a taker?

I weigh these qualities because if she has them, it will be passed on to her kids, if she doesn't she isn't going to magically get them because she had a kid.

Kids do present their own set of challenges, but if the women is worth it they can be overcome.

However, some single moms think that because they are a mom they are automatically worth it...imo that's not the case. They need to have as many if not more attractive qualities then their childless counterparts.

You clearly never watch TV or movies. But seriously, that is an amazingly naive and wrong assumption. My mother's abysmal performance as a single parent is the reason I will never be able to have a relationship with a single mother, and I know several of them today from work and school who are miserable and doing a terrible job with their kids, which makes it unlikely I'll ever see anything profound enough to change my mind. But I know this negative view is also not true of every single mother, either, so I'm not being naive that far in the other direction. What I can say about it is, though, that I'm not wild about the idea of having to compete with her child(ren) for her attention and affection, and if one of the kids ever said to me something like, "You're not my father!", that would seriously just crush my soul. The fact that I'd be in a position of trying to provide for them that father figure role that nobody ever did for me growing up, and them throwing it back in my face, seriously, that would kill me. So the whole thing just feels like a hornet's nest I'd never be comfortable in. Thanks a lot, Mom.

I know how difficult it is, having to listen to her cry herself to sleep every night because we were facing homelessness and all her health problems were out of control, and no knight in shining armor ever showed up to rescue her or us. And now after seeing our family be torn apart, I just can't see why anyone ever would want to.

Women may be able to fake an orgasm. But men can fake a whole relationship.

If men evolved from apes and monkeys, why do we still have them?

Hello Everyone,

I notice that we all are saying " we want a real relationship" if so, what are really doing to make that happen? I tried everything and so far, nothing.. maybe I can get some pointers... I know I do want to have something real and I know women here are looking for the same..

So, why is it this is not happening?

beat em with a baseball bat. carry a sock with a rock in it. lol

I'm not very good at typing either, my secretary replies to most while I dictate :/

I get at least 1000 messages per day, I do try to reply to all but sometimes it takes a while.

I don't think that is a problem ... and if they don't respond
their not into you ...and move on ... and most know about how all women and men can be scammers ... but I have approached a few men ...
and with no mail back figure they where not right for me ... don't take it to personal ... good luck ...

How many times did you message them? If they don't answer the first message, they probably aren't interested. If you keep messaging them that would prompt them to block you. If they don't answer the first message, just move on and don't take it personally.

I compromise.
When I wax my chest, I leave the left side furry.

The only time I get excited , is when I am "approached". But they all turn out to be scammers... I normally block and report. Problem is , I am doing that for all who "approach" me first... And I feel like I am missing out on some wonderful ladies....Not....

I know you did
Strange man...

Hi

ill talk to you

I think it's to be expected. Any male who has been online like this for any length of time, has been repeatedly treated to "communications" claiming to be from attractive females who live very far away, and want to "chat."

I usually get one or two here, every time I log in.

It's not any particular country that matters. Lately, most of them are pretending to be from Washington DC.