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The missing element
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I've only met a few people on line and went on a date in real life. One was missing a personality. One was missing everything but a sex drive. And one was just right.
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I'm thinking about wanting to be selfish just to make myself happy and wishing that wasn't so selfish. It isn't selfish unless it hurts someone else. It's a good thing to do things to make yourself happy. 
Whenever I really want to do something just for me, it feels selfish Ruth. Not sure why that is but there you have it. |
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I'm thinking about wanting to be selfish just to make myself happy and wishing that wasn't so selfish.
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I thought about doing something just for myself, just because I wanted to and just because it would make ME happy.
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Hmmm confession time, ok I'm in.
Just saying the word vulnerable makes me feel it. Music (all kinds) soothes my soul. And the Christmas movie "Annabelle's Wish" makes me cry everytime. And I always tell my girls they are "pretty as a present". |
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Topic:
Soul Mates
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I believe soul mates come into our lives for different reasons and different seasons to teach us about ourselves. I don't think it's a romantic thing at all. It's spirtual.
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Apparently not Myka.
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Awww geez, you guys are gonna make me apologize aren't ya? 
Nope! You were completely right based on the English language. 
Ok but Frank is right. I had forgotten English was his second language and based on most of his posts, overestimated his proficiency. I'm sorry Frank if I came on too strong. I meant everything I said but now realize you may not have intended the OP as I took it. Actually 3d.but I forgot Russian, I was fluid at age 13. You could have just accepted. 
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Awww geez, you guys are gonna make me apologize aren't ya?
Nope! You were completely right based on the English language.
Ok but Frank is right. I had forgotten English was his second language and based on most of his posts, overestimated his proficiency. I'm sorry Frank if I came on too strong. I meant everything I said but now realize you may not have intended the OP as I took it. |
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Awww geez, you guys are gonna make me apologize aren't ya?
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I will never settle for a man who uses undocumented, random statistics to compensate for the use of judgemental demeaning language stated as a preference. Since we're just stating our preferences here. 
what undocumented random statistics? demeaning language?
Is mingle2 is a hate site now or women just hate me here now on? I noticed several refuses to even reply now. 
Frank, you want the truth or would you like me to blow smoke up your ***? I was a majoring in math for 3 years (then I stopped I couldn't pay the college, not because I didn't like it) , so I'm going with numbers most of the time. So I use percentage and fractions a lot and when I got something so say I say it. Yesterday- for an example- I made a profile somewhere else, and I got like 10 women interested within a few hours. Out of the 10, only one was a single woman who never married and had no kids. So I could have said 99%, but I was aiming to describe a bigger pool of people so I gave an extra 4% for giving that extra edge, so I don't come off sounding like someone who stereotypes. Even then, I am attacked, and just because the word I used "settle", and just because I tried to be honest and say that single-never married women with no children is my preference. So smoke then? Ok, you fudged the numbers. Data is data, statistics are measurable. There is no extra credit for edge. Stating that you must settle for divorced women is not stating a preference. The word settle means many things but it most commonly attributed to accepting less than expected. As in "divorced women" are somehow less. As a divorced woman and one with children at that (I know Lex, we have no future but we will always have Paris), I found your use of the word and it's connotation offensive. I stated that. I didn't attack you. I believe I clearly articulated my opinion. |
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I will never settle for a man who uses undocumented, random statistics to compensate for the use of judgemental demeaning language stated as a preference. Since we're just stating our preferences here.
That's unfair 52.3% of all people do that. I'm sorry but you are incorrect. The proper percentage is 74.31592. But we all make mistakes.
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I will never settle for a man who uses undocumented, random statistics to compensate for the use of judgemental demeaning language stated as a preference. Since we're just stating our preferences here.
what undocumented random statistics? demeaning language?
Is mingle2 is a hate site now or women just hate me here now on? I noticed several refuses to even reply now.
Frank, you want the truth or would you like me to blow smoke up your ***? |
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I will never settle for a man who uses undocumented, random statistics to compensate for the use of judgemental demeaning language stated as a preference. Since we're just stating our preferences here.
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I'd be offended if I gave a rat's azz. Oh boy. I'm making enemies now.
It's been my experience that there are those who can't differentiate between "I'm not interested in people who ________" and "People who ___________ are all bad and should be sacrificed to Molech." The ambiguity of alternative interpretations.... Maybe it's not only me now who gets crucified, after that. lol.. I've been getting it for ages -- you should see some of the e-mails I get -- if you don't want to live the way THEY think you should live, you're a worthless piece of pyrite or something -- meanwhile, they can't spell any words that have more than 5 letters, and I'M the moron because I don't want to live THEIR lives....! Whatever....preferences just MIGHT be there for a reason, folks -- you don't have to agree with those reasons, and you certainly don't have to change your thinking to suit those reasons -- just don't try to impose your choice of lifestyle on those of us who are quite comfortable making our own decisions on THAT one....! 
My dearest Lex, you know I have the utmost respect for you and your right to opinion and preference. But you and Frank are mixing apples and oranges here. You clearly state you are not interested in dating women with children. You don't preface it by saying "divorced" women as if they are somehow damaged, nor do you say you will not "settle" for a divorce woman w/children as if they are somehow beneath you. You state your preference. The topic of this post is settling for divorced women with children. So to that I say....please refer to Newarks' emoticon (on loan with his permission) |
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I'd prefer not to settle for a man who thinks being with me is settling. *looking for the giving you the finger emoticon* Here honey............... 
Thank you Jeff.
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I realize sometimes people post contraversial topics just to get a raise and I rarely take the bait. Please note I said rarely. haha, was gonna send you the finger emoti-dude... but figured you could handle yourself. I will try dollface.
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I realize sometimes people post contraversial topics just to get a raise and I rarely take the bait. Please note I said rarely.
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I'd prefer not to settle for a man who thinks being with me is settling. *looking for the giving you the finger emoticon*
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