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slowtogetit's photo
Fri 04/06/07 09:22 AM
hi all, massey don't worry i don't knoww any normal men either.......lol
except me.....lol

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 03:24 PM
happy birthday to all 3 ladies. hope it's the best day of the year for
you's.

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 08:06 AM
hi mo, i'm here for a bit..........lol

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Thu 04/05/07 08:00 AM
so to me that makes it just inexcusable. not to mention the pain that
one would be going through. it's not even a option for me. if she wants
my trust i also want hers.

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 07:57 AM
hi bubbles, welcome to jsh. i'm sure you will meet a lot of nice people
here.

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Thu 04/05/07 07:55 AM
i did think about it sage. when i took my vows. and i said i would be by
her for better or worse and vice versa. not that when things got bad
would i go out looking for another woman to comfort me.

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 07:39 AM
well sage i have to disagree with you on that.if only one talks and the
other just blows it off there is no relationship to begin with. time to
leave when that happens. isn't one of the purposes of having a partner
to be there in your bad times also?

having a affair is a sign of weakness and insecurity with yourself and
your partner. i give you all the credit in the world to overcome what
you did, but not many people can do the same.

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 07:29 AM
but you would at least consider it(at least by your answer).
that is one of the most destructive things in a relationship, if not
thee most. there is just no thinking on that one for me.......it's no.
the trust is gone and with that so is the relationship or any part of
trying to rebuild it.

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Thu 04/05/07 07:08 AM
well jean you are a better person than i. i would never forgive it,
inexcusable under any circumstances. i feel thats when all communication
has broken down on one or both sides. one or the other should ask for a
divorce before that happens.

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 06:57 AM
i wasn't talking about spice in terms of sex. just the 2 of you's taking
walks, doing whatever the both of you like to do.

we all have commitments in life, job, kids, etc. so when we are not
working why do we always have to be serious? why can't we be those kids
at the playground on the swings, or out rollerblading?

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 06:52 AM
welcome painfull to jsh. get to know the people and enjoy your stay.

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 06:49 AM
But for some people, soon as the "newness" wears off, or any problems
crop up, they turn "chicken" and get the "cluck" out of there -- but
fast!

sorry jean,
i had to do that(lol) as far as that statement right there. it is up to
the individuals to keep the spice going in the relationship.

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 04/05/07 06:29 AM
well jean i can only speak for myself. when i go out with someone or
even if there involved in any part of what i am doing
i always ask there opinion. i make it a point right from the beginning
to let them know that this is not a me thing, it's a we thing. it's
50/50 and nothing more.

slowtogetit's photo
Tue 04/03/07 03:14 PM
that's it crazy, just looking into the others eyes and knowing how they
think and feel.

slowtogetit's photo
Tue 04/03/07 03:13 PM
no not at all izzy. i just talk with a lot of people so i can just guess
what there responses will be................lol

slowtogetit's photo
Tue 04/03/07 03:02 PM
bigg i have that knack................LMAO

slowtogetit's photo
Tue 04/03/07 02:58 PM
i will be nice and not even go there...........lol

slowtogetit's photo
Tue 04/03/07 02:53 PM
good one gal, now will you stop making me think..

slowtogetit's photo
Tue 04/03/07 11:44 AM
well they are doing a good job of it............lol

slowtogetit's photo
Tue 04/03/07 11:34 AM
mo you ask those funny questions also.........lol how are ya girl?

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