well, it is what it is...maybe if you deleted some of your more mature looking pics. sometimes posting too many pics can be a bad thing.

hahahahaha!!

each new relationship is new and full of amazing adventures...at least that's the way it's supposed to be, but for me it seems that they are nightmares that i wish i could escape from. i'd be lying if i told you that past screw-ups didn't make me a better person going into the next relationship.

i pay $7/hr...$10/hr is a bit much for someone that isn't certified and isn't really expected to do much other than making sure the kiddos don't kill themselves or burn your house down.

single and looking forward to changing my status.

ears? hmmm...that's interesting

here is my question of the day...

name one thing that just absolutely turns you on...

for guys...is it a nice rack, butt, tatts, eyes...you tell me.

for girls...is it abs, shoulders, a big...well you know.

describe a physical feature that drives you wild...personality, a sense of humor, good sex, great kisser, etc do not belong in this post.

as i go through profiles, some people really don't look like their stated age...i know life is rough on some people, but then i know some people think they look younger than they actually are.

so...the question is:

including yourself...how many people have you actually gone out with and later found out that they were fibbing about their age?

the rule is that you had to have gone out with them (with the exception being yourself and you don't have to tell us if you are fibbing)...if they admitted it online and you never met them...that doesn't count. i apologize in advance for those of you that are not good at math.

for me the answer is 4 people fibbed out of 10.

if you have a funny story that goes along with your experience, please share it!

I personally don't get why some people don't even bother to post a pic of themselves at all, but post a pic of their kid, dog, drawing of a flower, etc...after all...this is a dating site and i'm not here to see your kid, animals, or how talented you are at drawing...all that comes with time.

So...

When you are doing the 'mutual match' thingy...what automatically turns you off and on to the next match (assuming that you don't read anything about the user).

Is it pictures of kids, multiple people in the pic (and you have no idea who the user is), too fat (or too skinny), apparent lifestyle, etc, etc...we'd like to know!

hmmm...what is it you're looking for that everyone seems to fail at?

i don't think there is as many people on here as the site says there is...at least active people.

i've seen all news media outlets promote fear and hate, lies, and deception...they all report what they want to further their agenda...it's not just fox news...it's all of them. it just depends on which way you lean as to which media outlet pisses you off the most.

To be fair, the same can be said about every network.

at some point in time obama is going to have to accept responsibility for what happens during his presidency. blaming bush is one thing, but if he chooses to do something about it (or not)...he needs to own it and not point fingers. he's a big boy.

i'd have to say...

penciled on eyebrows...it doesn't matter how good looking they are or how great of a body they have...i just hate penciled on eyebrows

having said that i also hate chickees that cake on the makeup...the emo thing doesn't bother me too much, but it is the face that looks like it will fall off when they sweat that bothers me...

i'm pretty sure that was a trend started by myspace...just make sure nothing is in the toilet.

When you look at a profile for the first time...what are some things you have noticed concerning pics that you tell yourself, "i wouldn't have posted that!"

remember that you are looking at a profile for the first time...i wouldn't think that you would be madly in love with someone you have not met.

Assuming that you know nothing about a person other than what their profile states and shows...what three things make you move on to the next profile. be genuine and try to explain why.