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Sun 09/20/09 03:42 PM

I have to bring this up..... I read this thread.... I read it again...


Ok...ready?


Somewhere in here you said every guy you have dated has said you were the best girlfriend....AFTER they had broken up with you...and they don't know why they let you go....

You also said...every guy has cheated on you...(except one?).



Ok....here's come the tough bit.....



What's the common denominator in all those relationships?




YOU.


You are the 'problem' you are having with men not wanting to be monogomous.

Are you clingy? Over attentive? Completely compliant? Emotionally dependent?

A really neat way of someone getting the hint, that 'I am just not that into you anymore'....is to have sex with someone else..sometimes it's the ONLY thing the dependent one will hear/see/accept...that it is over.

Think about it.

This keeps happening to YOU.


Hmmmm......So do something different to what you always do....to get a different result to what you are always getting.


I wasn't gonna say it. :angel:

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Sun 09/20/09 03:33 PM
rofl rofl rofl

People have survived for thousands and thousands of years without "networking" (by which, I am assuming you're talking about the internet). Also, It's ALWAYS about what you know, not who you know. Just like anything else in life, LEARN from the mistakes you make, so you (hopefully) don't make the same mistakes over and over again. Some folks never learn that.

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Sun 09/20/09 02:37 PM
...or maybe they prefer conversations in real life as opposed to on a message board. After all this site is supposed to be about generating relationships is it not?


Not by definition, no.

Main Entry: min·gle
Pronunciation: \ˈmiŋ-gəl\
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): min·gled; min·gling \-g(ə-)liŋ\
Etymology: Middle English menglen, frequentative of mengen to mix, from Old English mengan; akin to Middle High German mengen to mix, Greek massein to knead
Date: 15th century

transitive verb
1 : to bring or mix together or with something else usually without fundamental loss of identity : intermix
2 archaic : to prepare by mixing : concoct

intransitive verb
1 : to become mingled
2 a : to come into contact : associate b : to move about (as in a group) <mingled with the guests>



I don't see anything in this definition about "generating relationships".


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Sun 09/20/09 02:31 PM
I don't get bored at work. I'm too busy actually working.

What a concept, huh?

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Sun 09/20/09 02:22 PM
Edited by Mr_Music on Sun 09/20/09 02:28 PM
But then, if he stopped calling (or she stopped answering the phone, whichever is more feasible), then she would b!tch because she wasn't being kept in the loop.

Naturally, it would still be all his fault....
whoa

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Sun 09/20/09 08:09 AM

I wonder why the assumption is he's using the kids to show he's a good father? Why is it we don't assume he IS a good father and has nothing to prove at all?


Because that would go against "tradition".

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Sun 09/20/09 07:29 AM
Chickensh!t.

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Sun 09/20/09 07:01 AM
Aww, I thought this thread was gonna be about coffee. slaphead

Coffee is my friend. Rare is the time when it's low in my cupboard. I don't do that trendy crap like "coffee houses".

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Sun 09/20/09 06:32 AM
Edited by Mr_Music on Sun 09/20/09 06:40 AM
I would not accept this custody/visitation arrangement because it would deprive me of weekends with my children. Every other weekend would be more reasonable.


Now, wait just a damn minute! If you were in this woman's position, you would have your kids for 4-1/2 days every week, as well as half of the holidays. The father would have his children 2-1/2 days every other week, and also half of the holidays. You would already be having the kids for an extra two full days every single week, and 4-1/2 days extra every other week -- days that their father would NOT have them -- and you'd still demand that you believe you're entitled to more time??

Again, it boils down to "damned if he does, and damned if he doesn't". He'd get b!tched at for not taking his kids, but he still gets b!tched at because he'd allegedly be having them for "too much of the time". Make a decision already!

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Sun 09/20/09 05:40 AM
Damned if he does, and damned if he doesn't. The boy can't win for losing.

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Sun 09/20/09 05:17 AM
He's 24, you're 20. To be perfectly honest and blunt, neither one of you have grown up yet....probably him arguably more than you at this point.

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Sun 09/20/09 04:36 AM
5. Jim Ed Brown & Helen Cornelius - "Lying In Love With You"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMYr63Qt7nA

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Sun 09/20/09 04:31 AM


Most women have a hidden agenda nope I don't but it can be said that most men have hidden agenda like how fast they can get your butt in their bed laugh laugh laugh true!!!!


True, but there's nothing hidden about that.


I just LOVE the assumptive nature of most women. whoa

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Sat 09/19/09 07:06 AM
3. Johnny Russell - "Rednecks, White Socks, And Blue Ribbon Beer"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpiYgFi42PM

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Sat 09/19/09 07:01 AM
Edited by Mr_Music on Sat 09/19/09 07:01 AM
2. The Andrews Sisters - "Rum And Coca-Cola"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWY4_GyLufI

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Sat 09/19/09 07:00 AM
1. Kim Mitchell - "Go For Soda"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QylncpJy5Rc

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Sat 09/19/09 06:59 AM
10. John Anderson - "I Fell In The Water (That You Walked On)"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IF9b0Si7hqs

Songs about beverages.

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Sat 09/19/09 06:53 AM
9. Eddie Money - "Gimme Some Water"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rU-KVObNEd4

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Sat 09/19/09 06:48 AM
7. Bad Company - "Holy Water"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6J4TdJdpPDM

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Sat 09/19/09 06:43 AM


Hmmm....let's see....my cat, my best friend I've had for the past 20 years, or the woman I've known for 20 minutes?

There's no contest.

.....but she's drunk, flat on her back, legs in the air, rubbing herself, and going "Purrrrr, purrrrr, purrrrr"!!!


Purr-haps (laugh ), but at least I can guarantee the cat will still be around later on.