Yeah, thats wat Ive been told too. Im just worried about sending money and not getting ne thing back. Did that once n got ripped off, so Im just weiry about it. I did so much research on it n not having ne luck. Thats why I posted here. You think you can email me what you found by ne chance?

Man where IS everyone tonight? This is creepy

You know, I think Im gonna have my guy drive by there and see if he can tell if someone moved in there or not. Ill tell him also, if he hasnt yet, to try the lndlrd one last time. What do u think?

So you think that lndlrd is scammin us? I really am hoping thats not the case. I mean, that would be really messed up you know? Im thinking even if he had to deal with funrl arrgs, they wouldve been done by now, but I honestly dont know wat to think.

Does anyone know of any LEGIT work at home jobs out there? Ones that dont require money to start cause I think those are scams, ones that actually DO pay you?

Wow, quiet night

Well we havent had a chance to meet back with him since he hasnt called us, so we didnt violate anything on our end, but the other night, that thought DID cross my mind for a moment, cause I was trying to figure out what was going on, asking why havent we heard anything, but then I was like no, dont think that way, cause why would someone lie about their family being in an accident like that, jinxing themselves, so I stopped. I asked my guy the next day about it and what he thought, but he said why would he do that? Hes the one who met with the lndlrd and had all the interaction with him, but now that youre the 2nd person who thought that besides me, Im starting to wonder again. All my b/f has is a cell phone, so hopefully he can get his call logs if nec. Any receipts would help too Im sure. If he doesnt have any, BIG, HUGE red flag, but hes not stupid. Hed get em. My b/f said the lndlrd probably didnt take his number with him when he went, which is understandable considering what supposively happened. I wouldnt be thinking of bringing a future tenants number with me either cause of the situation. He wouldnt let us move in w/o the last $100 either, even since we had it the next day and he had noone else able to take our money fri. What if youre right tho?

I appreciate your concern, but how can it be abandonment if we were never in it and he hasnt been back to finish business with us? We're still waiting to hear from him on when we can pay the rest of the money so we can get the keys. I thank you again for looking out for me. Hope to hear back frm ya.

Good suggestion JustAGuy. We wouldnt wanna 'pester' him by ne means, if thats what hes dealing with, God forbit, but we cant think of ne thing else it COULD be, so thanks. Youre the best.

Well, possibly, but its more 'open', not so specific, do u know wat I mean? Its more of a broad term if u will, instead of being specific by saying bp. Do you know what I mean?

Wow Friendleewon, that sounds like me. I dont THINK I have the ups n downs either (although I didnt think I was a rapid cycler either but my guy says I am and another friend says it depends on a few different things- who Im talking to and what mood Im in), so Im not sure. When I go see my psy, Im gonna ask her about that, if I could have that instead, Impulsive Explosive Disorder. I do have a real bad temper at times, not sure about the violent part (I dont hit anything or anyone), but the explosive part would be me. I too, was on Depakote ER. At 1st, I had too high a dose so my psy lowered it, then it felt like I was taking a vitamin, so I stopped, but Ill see what she says when I see her soon. Id rather not take any meds if I can help it.

My guy did call him to try n reach him, but no luck. I was afraid of what seems to be the obvious, if that did happen. Ill ask my guy to try him again tho, but I know he knows to try again. Hopefully we'll hear from him soon. Thanks for replying.

Why do u think that? What symptoms does she show? N why cant we just have anger issues w/o being label bp?

I have another question for ya. Heres the situation 1st:

Me n my guy were supposed to move into this apt last week. He made arrgs for either thurs/fri with the lndlrd to give the final $100 so we can get the keys. The lndlrd called my b/f up thurs to say he'll have to meet up that day or itll have to wait till mon, cause his daughter had an accident n she lives out of town n he had to go see her. we werent able to meet thurs cause we didnt have the $100 till fri, so the lndlrd left. Come monday, no word frm him. Well, its now sat and we still havent heard a word. We're thinking the worst happened to his daughter since he hasnt been back yet but obviously dunno.

My question is: what do u think possibly couldve happened?

Its a shame we cant find out when it all 'started' or at least have a closer idea of when it began, cause that might help us find out the CAUSE of it so we learn HOW it happened, you know? We can then hopefully 'fix' or straighten out the things or learn where it came from and maybe start from there and 'redo' what was done wrong, if that makes any sense. I dont have anyone else other than my brother who said he was diagnosed with it in the family that anyone knows about, so where he got it from is a mystery. I know neither of my parents had it, but the funny thing is, he said he was born with it, so its funny that you mention that. Hes the 1st one to say that and youre the 2nd...interesting.

If it turns out that I am bp, Im sure Im bpII cause my counselor said I was a mild case and I possess more of the depressive symptoms, which would be bpII. Hopefully Im not though.

Well said. Couldntve said it better myself!

That I know nothing about

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U know if the Whitesox are hiring?? Ill be AJ's assistant


No idea. I Do know that the Tigers are looking for a few pitchers....lol

Heck, we could use a couple of pitchers too, esp with what happened with Contreras


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Thanks again, ur the best!


Always happy to help....even if you ARE a White Sox fan...lmao

There u go again, pickin on us poor Whitesox fans. Told ya we dont get no respect. Just call us rodney dangerfield wanabeez lol

I know I gave u a mouthful , but thanks for answering all my questions.

U know if the Whitesox are hiring?? Ill be AJ's assistant

As far as the parenting question, I think, if I could, Id do a Raymond (Evrybody Lvs) and bring Marie over to watch em . Let grandma get a headache for a while

Thanks again, ur the best!

Apparently Im bp, but I may have been misdiagnosed. Im not in denial or ne thing, I just think Ive got anger issues or am just depressed. I was diagnosed on Val Day this year, but I go to see my new psy soon, so if she also diagnoses me with it, then ok. I was on meds (Depakote ER), but stopped cause it went from being too high of a dose to feeling like taking a vitamin, but Ill do what my psy says, just dont wanna feel 'out of it', I wanna still have myself intact. We'll see. My brother has it apparently, but dunno where he got it from since noone else in the family that we know of has it.