mine is I hope I can spell it right is a shitu

All I can really say is to me a nice guy is someone who respect's me, and treats me well. He doesn't necessarily have to look like a prince. I think he would act like a friend would, but with more courtesy and chivalry. Chivalry isn't dead. It's who you chose to be with that doesn't believe in Chivalry. It doesn't mean all men will treat you as trash. You only need a bit of respect. It can go a long way.

Thank you for your kind words yashawanth :)
It's true I am a genuine person and quiite open with my feelings when it is possible.
I work in healthcare and often am called on to care for people who are sick or dying. Kind of makes me compassionate and gives me the ability to share that compassion with people who need it :)
Anyway, I hope everyone has had a lovely day, the sun is getting low in the sky in Bristol and it's a working day tomorrow for a lot of people.
Hope everyone has a good week.
Jo xxx

I'd not have taken my first ever boyfriend back, so many times. It's not that I was a push-over, far from it. It was that my family would witness him begging me for another chance. So if they were in the same room, or same house, where we were, then they'd spur me on to give it another go. Yet at the same time, my gran would always tell me "If only he could see you now. Bet he'd regret it. You look good with that new hair". So, as you can imagine, I was always in a difficult position. Did I listen to my gut, even if it made my family think I was bitter by not taking him back? This is what I had to think about, every time we broke up. I kept telling myself I know who I am, so I shouldn't let anyone try to dictate me. And I know it. I know who I am. I'm someone who doesn't take no crap from anyone. If I do happen to ocasionally let a "bully" get to me, I normally ask myself "Why are you being like this? This isn't you. You normally rise above it. Be yourself and ignore it". I have a strong sense of self, but can't help thinking certain people would rather see me fail. I'd just tell em to grow up ;)

Sorry, I've blabbed on. I could have kept this brief.