obxwavenut


obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Wed 09/24/08 12:20 AM Topic: dam i messed up
I will let argumentive man slide since he has a surf board.........but next time he gets outta line!!! JELLO Jello!!!! Bring it on!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Wed 09/24/08 12:11 AM Topic: dam i messed up
Men shouldnt argue with women...........we have sharp claws!!! I know but I like living on the edge!!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Wed 09/24/08 12:07 AM Topic: dam i messed up
I didn't think he did but I know him a bit better I guess and the kind of person he is.. so I knew he wasn't being mean or making light of it.. He was really asking if we thought he was awful for what he did... That was the original question and the answer to that is simple, no. When he kind of made light of it was a little later down the thread. But is he awful, no not at all. Not to mention you post these things and get made when people give you their opion, which their opion is what your asking for. Doesn't mean we have to agree. In the end it's only an opion. Although we basically agree, 1st that he is not an awful person, 2nd that it is not common, an everyday thing, 3rd we are human we do make mistakes.

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 11:53 PM Topic: dam i messed up
I think it was more than a reference b/c if it were I should be dating the rest of the busy preoccupied people in the world.. And NO I don't think it's common at all, but I do think it's understandable if it does happen... I in no way think he's a horrible human being and I'm not mortified by it.. I was simply saying that I've done it as well... Everyone gets caught up in something or other and forgets... Maybe I missed where he said he left her sitting somewhere waiting b/c I so did not take it that way... I always touch base before I set off to go somewhere to meet someone and if I don't talk to them I don't leave until I do... I don't think he's horrible, I don't think your horrible, and yes it was jus a reference, maybe not worded the best way, but yes jus a reference. Do I think it's understandable sure things happen, no dought. But it's not a common thing, nor is it to be made light of as he did in the beginning of all of this.

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 11:38 PM Topic: dam i messed up
So then why attack me? If it's human to forget and I understand why he forgot.. Then why is it he and I should date?? Only a referrence to fact that you think alike. And it's not an attack but jus an opion. I myself have never forgot a date. I am extremely busy. I owne to companies always on the go. But I manage to keep things in line. All I'm saying is that it not as common as you make out to be thats all. Or do you think it's something pretty common by todays standards.

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 11:30 PM Topic: dam i messed up
thank you for the unwarranted advice, if we wanted to date rather than be friends we would... I don't think we asked for your opinion on WHO we should date though.... The point is this how do you think the other person feels when their left standing alone waiting. How would you feel if someone stood you up because they forgot all about you!! i dont remember ether of them saying that it was ok or a good thing that it happened... they just said that they were in a buzy time in thier lives, and got mixed up in it.. im thinkin they felt horrible for doing it and made up for it... point is... we are HUMAN... and humans make mistakes... jmo I completely agree, we all make mistakes, that is no dought. But it is not something that happens on a wide scale. Yes people do tend to get caught up in the jobs, life, whatever. But a first date, hard to beleive. The first date says everything about how much you are into that person. I know few if any that forgets about that first date. Mainly because it is so new. And Not to say they didn't feel bad for forgeting they had a date but I jus don't think it's one of those things that happens that often. well... it HAS happened to me.. granted, only ONCE... and it wasnt a matter of forgeting that i had a date.. it was a matter of forgeting what day of the week i was in.. my job isnt a monday thru fri 9-5 kind of job.. my days get mixed around.. and i get called in alot! i get lost in what day it is now.. and this happens to alot of people.. and it happens to me alot! i was kinda glad that it happened.. kinda relieved some of the pressure off of both of us.. and he realized how hectic my job/kids/life are! I completely get that. My schedule is all over, always wondering which day is what. But the thing is this, in the beginning he made it out to sound as if it was an everyday occurrance and it's not. You ,yourself said it only has happen to you only once. And I get that, once or twise sure an everyday thing I don't think so. I glad their getting a second go at it. Don't forget this time. You may not be so lucky.

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 11:16 PM Topic: dam i messed up
thank you for the unwarranted advice, if we wanted to date rather than be friends we would... I don't think we asked for your opinion on WHO we should date though.... The point is this how do you think the other person feels when their left standing alone waiting. How would you feel if someone stood you up because they forgot all about you!! i dont remember ether of them saying that it was ok or a good thing that it happened... they just said that they were in a buzy time in thier lives, and got mixed up in it.. im thinkin they felt horrible for doing it and made up for it... point is... we are HUMAN... and humans make mistakes... jmo I completely agree, we all make mistakes, that is no dought. But it is not something that happens on a wide scale. Yes people do tend to get caught up in the jobs, life, whatever. But a first date, hard to beleive. The first date says everything about how much you are into that person. I know few if any that forgets about that first date. Mainly because it is so new. And Not to say they didn't feel bad for forgeting they had a date but I jus don't think it's one of those things that happens that often.

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 11:01 PM Topic: dam i messed up
thank you for the unwarranted advice, if we wanted to date rather than be friends we would... I don't think we asked for your opinion on WHO we should date though.... The point is this how do you think the other person feels when their left standing alone waiting. How would you feel if someone stood you up because they forgot all about you!!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 10:56 PM Topic: dam i messed up
I think that people shouldn't be SO critical... If you're talking to someone for a while and then forget about them, then YES you have a point.. If you talk to them a time or two and forget, I don't think it's horrible or unforgiving... And YES, I've done it... I don't think it's DISTURBING that I linked those things together in forgetting... I NEVER said "I think of dates like I do paying my bills or picking up my dry cleaning".. I said "I get caught up in my work and forget things... Some people just get very busy and regardless of how busy see my first paragraph.. Unless someone has NOTHING else to do but wait to go on a date, I'd say it's normal to get busy and forget... Not ALL people normal but it can happen... Maybe you two should get together, then you can both forget you have a date with each other!! The perfect date!! Maybe you two should get together, then you both can forget you have a date with one other!! The perfect date!!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 10:49 PM Topic: dam i messed up
I think that people shouldn't be SO critical... If you're talking to someone for a while and then forget about them, then YES you have a point.. If you talk to them a time or two and forget, I don't think it's horrible or unforgiving... And YES, I've done it... I don't think it's DISTURBING that I linked those things together in forgetting... I NEVER said "I think of dates like I do paying my bills or picking up my dry cleaning".. I said "I get caught up in my work and forget things... Some people just get very busy and regardless of how busy see my first paragraph.. Unless someone has NOTHING else to do but wait to go on a date, I'd say it's normal to get busy and forget... Not ALL people normal but it can happen... Maybe you two should get together, then you can both forget you have a date with each other!! The perfect date!!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 09:54 PM Topic: if u could....
Do I need a reason? ditto

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 09:18 PM Topic: dam i messed up
You FORGOT about another human being! How important could she possibly be to you if you FORGOT about her completely? Be nice V!!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 08:50 PM Topic: so...
Awsome eyes!!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 06:35 PM Topic: Only people with 3 L's in their name can post here!
Middle name Arnold, Last Cowell I get to post here 2!!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 06:00 PM Topic: hi
Hellllllllllllo!!

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 09:30 AM Topic: Number of the day...
484 This is better than going to see my psyciotrist. Hook on numbers.

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 09:14 AM Topic: well this sucks
It sucks, and it is hard, but rest asure there is a light at the end. Better to find out know before marriage.

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 09:07 AM Topic: The Taste of Hate and love
A smooth red wine (love) A strong shot of whiskey (hate) ditto

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Tue 09/23/08 08:12 AM Topic: Morning Roll Call!!!!
Morning everyone, sippin coffee

obxwavenut Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 310	Mon 09/22/08 08:58 PM Topic: Looking for the hotties........
Howdy

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