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DA-AMN! I want to look like THAT… not as a blonde though…  yuck!
She’s even an archer! And I’d kill for those boots! 
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Is flirting cheating?
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I don't consider flirting cheating But I think it's wrong ! I consider it disrespect I would not do it ! 
 Exactly! VERY disrespectful.
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Is flirting cheating?
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My answer is yes. Flirting is Cheating's ugly cousin. It's a gateway. If someone was in a relationship, why is there a need to be a flirt? Correct me if I'm wrong, When someone is in a relationship (married, engaged or simply boyfriend and girlfriend) there should be mutual respect. I am no longer "out there", I am officially off the market. Yes, flirting is cheating, for both men and women.
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Random thought of the day
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I wonder why I get a tingling sensation in my private area.....  
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Random thought of the day
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The Random thought that has been in my head all damned day... Four walls to keep me company....lost in thoughts of you. Hollow silence in my breath.... It's time I changed and grew. Waves of loss and misery spill from my glass and cover me. While the distant sounds of teardrops falling... turns my head....and leaves me calling out... to these four walls. That should pretty much do it for me tonight guys. Gonna go work on a painting. Everyone have a good night and a better tommorrow. Peace That's so sad! I hope she knows how much you miss her! 
The painting you're working on now... mine?  Have an estimate on when it will be finished?
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Random thought of the day
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I'm going to skip at work tonight, then I'm going to sing Haddaway's What is Love until I lose my voice. 
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well i never 
I find that hard to believe... seems it's usually the ones saying tehy've never done such-and-such turn out to be the wild child. I bet you have and then some!
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Sure... just as soon as that little gas-leak problem is resolved. 
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Just realized you probably didn't get that cheesey joke...
your "cone" pic... my "cloned" comment. Sorry, I have a third grader's sense of humor... very corny.
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i care for 2 men but im not sure who i should keep seeing they r both really great guys.got any advise. 
You seem to be having a one-track mind today!
Although my two know about each other and are friends, I don't think THAT is going to be happening!
Not following you... it's just that you seem to be everywhere... at least everywhere I've gone, you've been there. Hmmm... cloned, maybe?
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i care for 2 men but im not sure who i should keep seeing they r both really great guys.got any advise.
You seem to be having a one-track mind today!
Although my two know about each other and are friends, I don't think THAT is going to be happening!
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i care for 2 men but im not sure who i should keep seeing they r both really great guys.got any advise. I'm in the same boat. I've been considering just taking myself out of the picture completely and allowing them both to move on to someone else. It's a wimpy way out of not having to choose who gets hurt, but it's the best I have been able to come up with. I'd rather be hurting myself than hurt either of them.  It s@cks, but what else can I do?
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1. You’ve already chosen this.
2. Why do you like Fantasy or Fiction? Adventure, thrills, chills and even though there is always some loss, good almost always wins. What is your favorite Medieval "Swords and Sorcery" type movie? Try to control your laughter… I am not much on fighting, but love magic and manipulation, so I have to list Ladyhawke and Labyrinth as my choices. What is your favorite Fantasy novel? The closest thing I think I’ve read that could be considered fantasy that is a favorite would be a sci-fi book called ‘Eon’ by Greg Bear. What is your favorite roleplaying computer game? I’ve never played a role-playing game. What is your month and day of birth? Needed to make a "fantasy horoscope reading" to add below your illustration. You were given this already. November 24th. What is your favorite holiday? Halloween because I get to dress up and pretend to be something else. If you where to live in the 15th century in Europe, what would you like to be and explain why? For example - Lord, Princess, Alchemist, Knight, Advisor, Jester, farmer, Bishop, Assassin, etc. etc. I don’t know. Something that would allow me to be alone for the most part with only an occasional visitor, and allows me to be creative (gardening, artist, writing, potion-making, animal training, etc). Where can a reader contact you? For example - Mingle2 screenname, or a yahoo account, etc. etc. ((You can send this email if you like)) Also only if you want to have anyone contact you. Mingle2 – Alternativa Yahoo – Alternativa_anima |
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the way these times are, you will run into shallow people for sure, but there are great people here, too many friends to count, and i've met one very special here that has my heart..... and where you are there are many as well, if you look, that are not hung up into this temporary society that is advertising superficial qualities in people....media generalizes!!! i think if you are just yourself......one, the "nice guy" image doesn't apply, because you are behaving in regular terms, how people are behaving to you, and if they behave badly to you, you have to decide how to act. you can change this, by putting their very behavior back in their court, and not lose face with anyone, by diverting the scenario back to their diotribe or rant, such as" wow, you're really having a time of it! if i can help you to get your day to be more positive, well, let me help", and they will respect you, and that includes handsome or pretty parties of both sexes, whether they are bottom-wipes or not, for you weren't nice or mean...just truthful. it will get you respect, and maybe a friend.... these guys you speak of...... being a tough guy to "get chicks" gets you no-where, and usually the wrong "chick" anyway. to get the attention of the right one, back-up your talk, listen, and be a man of action to back up your talk with quiet positive methods to get your respect that you so much seem to desire. "tough guys" i've seen a dime a dozen, and they'll leave the woman hanging everytime when the road gets rough...a STRONG GUY, how-ever, will be there to see whatever it is to the end, and respect will follow, and never does he have to act like a jerk. He's a man's man, and a gentle ladie's man as well. "tough guys" run from STRONG GUYS. unless they have a way to shoot them in the back......but if they do that,,, STRONG GUYS have friends...... so..........................be a strong guy. 
THAT’s my strong guy! Very well said and you lead by example.
I love you!
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ARE-YOU-LONELY?
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Been there, done that...cured it. Make sure you really want the feeling to go away before you try and get it to go away...once the feeling of being alone while still surrounded by people fades...it is extremely difficult if not impossible to ever achieve feeling alone again, nullifying most if not all people around you. Of course I want it to go away! I don’t want to push people away, but I also don’t want to feel this way. You didn’t say how you accomplished this. 
You don't push people away, you seclude yourself in a place that you are comfortable with and don't venture out much aside from work...effectively a recluse. Once the feeling of alone fades, it doesn't come back, regardless of attempts to put somebody in your life. Feelings are very tricky, you either have them or you don't there isn't really a way to go in the middle of them. I don't feel much anymore, physical or emotional...the physical bit is from my accident, the emotional bit is from lack of socializing. It isn't pleasant not being able to feel fear, anger, love, sadness, etc. again. Even less pleasant is not knowing how or if you ever will feel them again. Every time I read anything you write, I always get an overwhelming urge to hold you and stroke your hair while telling you it’s ok to cry.
I don’t know what happened to you, but you’re so lucky I’m in Virginia and you’re in Illinois. 
Then again, maybe that's how some serial killers lured their prey... sympathy and compassion... and maybe I'm the lucky one.
A lot of things happened, all at once. I've loved and lost and am forever traumatized by it, I feel I would have been better off never loving at all for the trouble that love was to begin with. Therefore, I've decided I will try my hardest not to fall in love again. Not to say it cannot or will not happen someday, but it definitely won't be happening soon. Someday, perhaps, I will break out of this solitude...and maybe, that same day, it will be with someone else...but I'll live either or. 
Of course you’ll live either or. Sh*$ happens and we adapt. I think that’s what I like about you… you don’t sugarcoat everything and you’re a realist. Even realists need to let all the cr@p that builds up out every now and then.  I do hope you find someone who can cry with you. Sheesh… that sounds morbid, but maybe you can understand what I mean by that.
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ARE-YOU-LONELY?
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been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone
Thanks, but I made this almost 2 months ago. I am soooooo way past where I was when I wrote this.
Die! Evil thread! Die!
damn,i need to start looking at the expiration date on these threads.... Damn Zombie-threads!
i know.now i'm afraid this thread will eat me when i go to sleep 
I've seen enough of your posts to seriously doubt that nightmares are what go on in your head when you sleep
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ARE-YOU-LONELY?
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been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone
Thanks, but I made this almost 2 months ago. I am soooooo way past where I was when I wrote this.
Die! Evil thread! Die!
damn,i need to start looking at the expiration date on these threads.... Damn Zombie-threads!
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ARE-YOU-LONELY?
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My song that would play if my phone ever rang is "Here I Go Again" by Whitesnake. It's old but fits perfectly. Not going to post it all but this part of the main verse says enough... Here I go again on my own walking down the only road I've ever known like a drifter I was born to walk alone. That damn loneliness wave crashes down upon me so hard sometimes I actually feel like I'm drowning. I usually just go hug my dog. He's a lab, they're water repellant! 
Great song!
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ARE-YOU-LONELY?
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You know a Comedian I saw once said, thier are two kinds of people. The ones that are single, "they are lonely and sad" One the other hand, "There are the married couples, "They are always fighting and unhappy". I think that the truth is....life and the particular state you are in is something that you have control of. Sometimes you have to take a small step backward and a deep breath I think on what you can do to enhance or change the circumstance that you are in. Good luck and be positive things will improve...After all be single and lonely do seem to go together and finding ways to improve this circumstance is kinda what this site is all about. Sharing what you feel and reflecting with others who are in the same situation. 
At the risk of sounding like a one-line parrot or causing you a bit of deja vu, I'm going to say what I just said to you in another thread: Beautifully said. I hope to run into you more often. It's nice to see friendly and level-headed posts here... sometimes it's rare.
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