For me the reason for not finding love is -and you're probably not going to like it- most men being Beta men. Not rooted & anchored in their masculine energy.
Most men are so concerned with never investing, caring for, committing, and provided for a woman that they make it impossible. They shoot themselves in the foot with that mindset to begin with, but women aren't interested in such men either. It's not what we want as most women do have more to offer.

I am a core feminine energy woman and with a core masculine energy man I can shift into that energy, which is heaven on Earth!
With a Beta man I can't do that. I'll still have to carry the masculine load which is exhausting to a woman, causes physical stress as it upsets her nervous system. It forces her to shift into masculine energy which we do have but it's not the idea that we live in that 24/7.

Don't believe me, want to argue about it? Then educate yourself first. And once you've done that, use your new knowledge while you read men's posts. What they say, how they say it etc.
Then you'll quickly see what I'm talking about. Most say they are good men and they want love, yet they aren't ready or willing to go the extra mile for a woman. Or if they (think) they do, they don't do it the right way but still the Beta-man way.

I'm 100% convinced this is the reason many women cannot find a partner.
Women are further along in the process (this is always the case, no judgement) and don't want a whingy, whiny, demanding, needy man by their side.
So many men demand everything yet offer nothing (much).
Men demand everything of a woman, her giving up everything (when moving house for him for instance), risking everything. She must be all in, while in the meantime he makes dammed sure he always got an 'out'.

Women might have gone for that 50 years ago, but not anymore. We want a man by our side, not some wimp who's afraid to go for love.

Psst it's Cathy, the red headed beauty,