Good, there you go. Just don't hit me on my beliefs cause I know the fact that many "unbelievers" are on this site. Glad you did not hit my race cos if you do, I think that would be the worst. We are all here for same purpose, let's treat each other with decency and morals..Im not saying you dont, just stating.

Wish you the best. I know I still have to eat plenty of rice before reaching your stage and maturity. So, all the best.

Thanks! thats what I've been waiting for, that you get totally f*cked up. I just signed up today yeah, and did I make a mess? clean it for me.

I am no robot nor dumb stupid lady. I know what words to digest and what words need to be discharged. I am not taught what to do or what to believe cause I have wisdom to know what is right and wrong.

Knock your head that being in love is not an adequate foundation for building a succesful relationship.

Since I believe on that research, now it became my personal point of view.

Who told you that I dont I dont want an answer that doesnt line up with my beliefs? I am not posting a question to insinuate and start and argumentations. I just want to hear opinions and all that ******** ideas.

Its not even a survey or whatever. I believe on it and it doesnt mean I posted the question to make everyone believe like how I believe on it. Can you crack your head and open your mind? Im not inviting any stupidity in my question, if you want to express your ideas about it..fine. Dont hit me personally as youve known me already phew.

And who says I like to marry you? do not please yourself.

lol @ woman are very intriguing and
complicated

Phew, your hitting my personal perspective. Take your idea with you and I would like to have my own. Anyway, this is a forum/discussion, it may or may not influence the mindset of someone..but afterall, its up to him/her.

I don't have goals back. I'm just going on with the flow and culture, going to school and be a silly daughter. I remember in our Kindergarten graduation, my wish back then (I don't know who chose if it is my Mama or my teacher) is to become a nurse. Like I really said in the mic at the stage "When I grew up, I want to be a nurse". But unfortunately I hated that job right now, I'm glad I did not chose that hell path of nursing. I cant even breath seeing blood and dead people..

It really exist when a person lives a life without a purpose and direction, thats me before. Would you like to ask my goal now? lol

REPOST

Is the divorce rate so high
because of the existence of
premarital sex?

As we know, the divorce rate is
extremely high in today's
society. My grandfather tells me
that when he was young the
divorce rate was low and he also tells me that during such times, people saved their virginity for marriage. However, today is so different, we live in a world where people consider premarital sex to be cool, some people say
"premarital sex it's like testing a
car" man, how immature those
people! so are they going to
have sex with a thousand people until they find a person who is good in bed? yes, i know, some of my fellow men would love that, but aren't women different? i think it's obvious that couples who have
premarital sex have a high
possibility of divorce and the
reason is obvious! if they had
premarital sex that means that
they can't control themselves,
they are easily tempted. Also, if
they had premarital sex, that
means that they don't see
nothing wrong with sex OUTSIDE of the marriage, so when they get married they are likely to cheat because they don't know how to control their desires and furthermore, they don't see anything wrong with sex outside of the marriage. On the other
hand, people who saved their
virginity for marriage are people who know how to control their desires and they know pretty well that sex outside of the marriage is absolutlty wrong and
as result they are very unlikely
to cheat.
I found this information on the
internet when a man is married as a virgin, his divorce rate is 63 percent lower than a non-virgin. For women, it's 76 percent lower. Edward O. Laumann, et
al., The Social Organization of
Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the
United States (Chicago:
University of Chicago Press,
1994), 503.

So, what do you think?

It does not mean that the study is true to all. It may or may not affect to you or to anyone. And it does not generalize that people who have sex before marriage will definitely get a divorce. We are talking about the rates. Lets say this country have higher divorce rates than other countries that isnt so liberated..take a look at the rate.

Well said.

Talking about correlation, does that meant too that if you cheated or you are infidel with your past relationship before marriage, then you are more likely to do that even after marriage..hmmm.

Just a guess too:P

*battling eyes*

You really think I am itching for a fight and I am not even posting any verses in this post. I was just asking what is bla bla. I am not insinuating on something or disagreeing. I am not even condemning those that commit above mentioned current sexual trends.

Be openminded. If the question hits you then not my problem anymore lol. If you do this and that, then let it be that is your life. But I am not condemning or saying mean words to those that are doing such trend now.

Well, you already said it. The trend now is very different like of how it used to be way back ages ago. You know that anyway. One night stand, same sex marriages, sex here and there, ****ing buddies, friends with benefits, multiple sex partners and those that still exist. Im asking in a general sense tho.

And I think this current sexual trend is spreading and spreading over the planet.

There is a need to differentiate lust from love. For me, sex is more than an intercourse. By its very nature, sex is a bonding experience. Its is the union of male and female in the most intimate way. It is not simply the joining of two bodies but of body, soul and spirit.

If intercourse is viewed only as a way to relieve sexual tension or to experience a moment of sexual pleasure, it ceases to reach itr designed purpose. And it eventually become mundane act of silfishness.

However, if intercourse is viewed as an act of love that expresses deepest possble way of commitment to each other, it leads to mutual sexual fulfilmnt.

Well, if the couple does not come from any religious affiliations or they dont hold any beliefs..then there would be a lesser occurence of problem..

Opppps, are you numb on things that is happening around you? Or your just awaken after a long time of sleeping thats why you dont know the trend and news now? Okay pardon me for being sarcastic, it happens to be my type of humor..:)

How would you describe the current cultural perspective on sex?

Wonderful: )