My friend has a dilemma (which I would not have in her shoes) but she is asking everyone their opinion.

She was talking on the phone with her man friend and her mom told her that she and he were just infatuated with each other, implying they were immature acting. When she said this, the man on the phone busted out laughing and told her that "there is nothing infatuating about you" and continued laughing hysterically so bad she had to hang up.

My friend does not think this is an insult because she says you can love someone without being infatuated with them. I disagree, I think we are infatuated with at least something about the person in order to fall in love with them.

So my questions here are: Is what he said an insult? And do you believe that people can be in love without having some sort of infatuation with them?

Thanks for your help ahead of time

That's nothing compared to what a friend of mine and I do to McDonald's employees. They see us come in, and first he asks for the braile menu, and I ask for the one with the pretty pictures. It's all down hill from there. It's a small town. We have to get our kicks somewhere, and they're paid to stay in one place and be good little victims.