WOOOOOW! It amazes me how some feel that every species is supposed to fit into a certain box and walk a line that man lay out for them. Once again, no law maker, no religion, no person has no right to impose their views on a subculture and have never even walked a mile in their shoes.

Again... True Homosexuality is a varience of nature just like left handed, albinos, midgets ect. Back in the day they used to stone left handed people because they said it was unnatural, Albinos in some cultures are still looked upon as devient. I won't even go into midget because I would hope that we could see a pattern here.

When are people going to evolve an realise that homosexuality has been around since the beginning of time and isn't going to change because it is innate. Yes, SOME are not homosexuals but practice the behaivor and place a Gay label on it.

So for the most part since we make up a large percentage of society, why wouldn't we have all the rights as others. Better yet, why not just go back to the slavery days and say it's OK because it's the law?

I would like to thank all the people here that are opened hearted as well as minded to know that Homosexuality is noting more than a varience of naure.

I'm sadden by the ones who reside in a prejudice point of view and feel that people like myself are not entitled or worthy of marriage (in a church) and are not capibale of loving the same gender.

extremely uninformed or should I say misinfiormed and very say.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnxYQOyLvlY

Respectfully...I wished it were that simply...I'm way past the maturety level of diffrenciating Making Love From Making Lust.

Please try not to catergorize due to your lack of knowledge or/and experience. And No it isn't a choice for all...some... but not all.

Thank you much!

Yes... it has been!

Hello all,

I would like to wiegh in for a bit it I may,

Me personally...Whenever I have made LOVE to a woman and she has equally made LOVE to me, it was the most uforic spiritual uniting of the souls that I have ever encountered!

I've NEVER been sexually, emotionally nor spiritually connected or attracted to a man as I have with CERTAIN women. It's the way I'm wired and was born as some are born attracted to the opposite gender or some born attracted to both gender or some born connected to neither gender (asexual).

I would ask those of you to consider people who are born intersexed or hormaphrodites. If a biological variation can occur in physical nature, then surely a neurological variation can be ...and is possible, therefore innately gay can be and is possible.

I would also reccomend that the people who use God and science as their spokeperson for morality to check out the documentary; "For The Bible Tells Me So".(You could probably find it on HULU internet TV or You tube or buy the DVD). There-in lays your proof. This doc is written by a heteroexual so there is no "Gay Agenda" attachment to be attributed.There is scientific proof, there is several accredited assoc. proof...including Am.Psychological Asso. and there is scriptual proof.

Thank you for reading and have a great evening!

Light and love.

My perspective would be that being in-love would consisits of the highten pheromone feeling that has a tendency to disolve after awhile.


Loving someone consists of the AGAPE type of love (unconditional)love that will never dissapate after the honeymoon, fairytale, walking on cloud feeling is gone.

Good and necessary question!

Same here!

What IU mean by sense perception? I can see their facial expressions, hear the tones of their voice, how they react to questions and situations and so forth and if they take car of themselves in appearance...just like if they were standing in front of me. The only thing you cant do(and I don't mean this in a funny way)is know what they smell like.

As for fixing up just to video with them, it's just as if you would do when you go on a date, however, as you get comfortable with one another, the fixing up seems less and less important. My personal preference is to see someone in their nature state anyway....just the way God made them.

I have actually tried the skype and video messenger and it was a bit fun and wierd at the same time! It gave me a better feel of the person...sense perception is very important to me.

sorry for the repeat posts...my computer is act wacky!

How do everyone feel about skyping or video messenger? I mean if for some reason you cant meet right away, do you think those means are a good idea to get to know them?

It's unfortunate more people can't seem to see that God/creator has no issue with loving anyone, but man does and proceeds to project his/her own dictatorships on others like the pharicee's. We are all in the same boat, to go through life the best we can with what we got. I never understood why people can't just live and let live.

Yes, this is one reason for some, however not all. There are various reasons why people adopt the homosexual name. Some think it's the "in" thing to do, some enjoy the excitment, some are confused, some cannot even stand within a close range of the opposite gender without being replused,some enjoy the emotional and/or sexual connection because of familiarity, some have suffered trama by the opposite or sometime same gender and it stems from a result thereof, some are wired neurologically, biologically or both from birth. It's like you said...you would have to ask that person specificly.

Unfortunately most people have been taught to generalize homosexuality and believe it's just a choice or preference. Yes, there are some who choose it for their own personal reasons but they are not homosexuals, they are just behaiving in a homosexual manner.

Homosexual tendencies can also become fluid over the course of a life time. True homosexuals have no choice just as true heterosexuals have no choice.

I hope this can shed some light on the subject a bit. As for the original question...I believe the percentage is much higher than what statistics show's. If we didn't have the negative stigmatism that society and religion attach to same gender attraction, I assure you there would be more people steppin up! Commin out of the closet would be more like commin out of the auditorium!

But I never "became" I already was and so was many others. We are just variations just like some were born left handed or green eyes or albinos ect.

I also want to thank everyone for being opened minded about different orientations. Namaste!

Ahhh but there is proof my dear...I'm one of them

Not intending to make a thread drift but food for thought: The word "Homosexual" didn't come into existance til the 40's. The translater use the closest word to decribe sodimites which were the one's exploiting the temple male prostitutes (Johns). Homosexuality has gotten a bad wrap because of it

Sorry but this statement couldn't be farther from the truth!