I think that's because you are that rare bird that can have a conversation without having to be right or thinking what's in it for me and no agenda. An admirable quality

I’m real but picky

I used to think tha age didn't matter, until I had a relationship with 5 year younger men than me.
We had lots of fun, and he used to bring freshness and that young vibe... however there was important things that come with age that young people is hard to understand.
Force them to try to understand, doesn't work either. So age is not just a number.
But it's also true that maturity comes with certain wisdom implicitly

Guess you're right
I'm in rural South Central Texas, got a few cattle and enjoy the outdoors and trips to New Mexico mountains for hiking and exploring. There, that's something about me !

its a funny situation
If a woman dates a young man she is called a cougar .. sleek... smart...sexy
if I man dates a young woman he is called a dirty pig . a dirty friggin pig...a pervert
I prefer women of my age group, give or take a few years.

So far I've mostly found that I get asked to contact in other ways and never really get asked anything meaningful. Frustrating

Hopefully we all find what we're looking for but we'll see how it goes. I guess if we just get some interesting conversation out of it that is something worthwhile. Feel free to chat with me anytime, I don't have the most interesting life but it's different than most I would say !

Welcome, hope you do well here. It hasn't panned out for me yet but I'm still trying !

Good luck Wen, I'm thinking I may have to change some stuff up as well

Generational differences are real and significant. Times change quickly. The world you grew up in is very different from the world the generation before you did. Doesn't seem like it should but it does. I don't think i could last an hour going on a date with a girl in her twenties. We'd have very little common ground to connect on. Not her fault, not my fault. Pop culture is the culprit for the most part. The way people speak, the music they like, the movies they like, the way they dress, it's really hard to relate to people much younger than or older than yourself. Times change really fast, generation gaps are tough to overcome.

She said all three previous husbands died ...
When asked how ... she replied " two died eating poisoned mushrooms " what about the third?

He died of a broken neck , cause he refused to eat those mushrooms!!!

A woman is at home when she hears someone knocking at her door.
She goes to the door, opens it and sees a man standing there.
He asks the lady, “Do you have a Vagina?”
She slams the door in disgust.
The next morning she hears a knock at the door, it's the same man and he asks the same question to the woman, “Do you have a Vagina?”
She slams the door again.
Later that night when her husband gets home she tells him what has happened for the last two days.
The husband tells his wife in a loving and concerned voice, “Honey, I am taking an off tomorrow so as to be home, just in case this guy shows up again.”
The next morning they hear a knock at the door and both ran for the door.
The husband whisperes to the wife, “Honey, im going to hide behind the door and listen and if it is the same guy I want you to answer yes to the
question because I want to a see where he’s going with this.”
She nods yes to her husband and opens the door.
Sure enough the same fellow is standing there, he asks, “Do you have a Vagina?”
“Yes I do.” says the lady.
The man replies, “Good, would you mind telling your husband to leave my wife’s alone and start using yours"

At a wine merchant, the regular taster died and the director started looking for a new one to hire.
A drunkard, with a ragged, dirty look came in to apply for the position.
The director of the winery wondered how to send him away.

He gave him a glass to drink.
The drunk tried it and said:
"It's a Muscat, three years old, grown on a north slope, matured in steel containers. Low grade but acceptable”.

"That's correct”, said the boss.

Another glass:

"It's a cabernet, eight years old, a south-western slope, oak barrels, matured at 8 degrees. Requires three more years for finest results”.
"Correct”.

A third glass:

''It's a pinot blanc champagne, high grade and exclusive”, calmly said the drunk.
The director was astonished.

He winked at his secretary, secretly suggesting something. She left the room and came back in with a glass of urine.

The alcoholic tried it.

"It's a blonde, 26 years old, three months pregnant and - if I don't get the job - I'll name the father”.

@Wen...ok lng yan...bago ka pa naman...enjoy mo forums..mas okay dito...message mo ako kung sakali