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Tue 01/08/13 11:04 AM


Wrong; you would still have to trust them to be having safe sex with these people.


If YOU practice safe sex all the time, what they do doesn't matter.


Hello??? U r talking so deep here..

I'm not talking about the SEX.. I am talking about the LOVE nd TRUST including the respect...

Anyhow, without the trust difficult to give the Love and the SEX..ok?

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Tue 01/08/13 11:04 AM


Wrong; you would still have to trust them to be having safe sex with these people.


If YOU practice safe sex all the time, what they do doesn't matter.


Hello??? U r talking so deep here..

I'm not talking about the SEX.. I am talking about the LOVE nd TRUST including the respect...

Anyhow, without the trust difficult to give the Love and the SEX..ok?

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Tue 01/08/13 11:01 AM


Kind of like an open relationship?

Waste of time, if we're being honest here. If you cannot trust those you care about it is time to move on and find people you can trust, anything else is just you deceiving yourself.


My point is, how does it effect you if your partner is seeing someone else? How does that change what the two of you have together? If you never ask, they'll never lie and the trust is never broken.


I don't think so I can just be blind. I love him truly.. And I want relationship that has a reason not just like playing..

The effect? Its hurting me! Coz I love him purely and faithfully. And I believe if u love someone u wouldn't find someone. So for me his words that he love me is just a word!

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Tue 01/08/13 11:01 AM


Kind of like an open relationship?

Waste of time, if we're being honest here. If you cannot trust those you care about it is time to move on and find people you can trust, anything else is just you deceiving yourself.


My point is, how does it effect you if your partner is seeing someone else? How does that change what the two of you have together? If you never ask, they'll never lie and the trust is never broken.


I don't think so I can just be blind. I love him truly.. And I want relationship that has a reason not just like playing..

The effect? Its hurting me! Coz I love him purely and faithfully. And I believe if u love someone u wouldn't find someone. So for me his words that he love me is just a word!

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Tue 01/08/13 10:55 AM
Yeah u r right.. I'm trying to move on..

But the question is..,?

HOw to trust Again? Is there any man in this world that u can trust to?

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Tue 01/08/13 10:51 AM
Hello??? U r talking so deep here..

I'm not talking about the SEX.. I am talking about the LOVE nd TRUST including the respect...

Anyhow, without the trust difficult to give the Love and the SEX..ok?

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Tue 01/08/13 10:47 AM
Edited by IOLA on Tue 01/08/13 11:08 AM
Hi! I tried to trust him again the time that I accept and forgive him. Obviously I didn't think the past always.. Its just I forgive then i caught him again.. And the explanation, he is just finishing it! What a !!! Its too much!!!

This reply is for TOxicpoizon :)

Sorry I just joined here . I didn't know how to reply to the particular person.. :(

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Tue 01/08/13 10:41 AM
Yeah u r right! Specially I've given him a chance several times!


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Tue 01/08/13 10:39 AM
That's exactly what I'm thinking now..

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Tue 01/08/13 10:38 AM
I don't think so I can just be blind. I love him truly.. And I want relationship that has a reason not just like playing..

The effect? Its hurting me! Coz I love him purely and faithfully. And I believe if u love someone u wouldn't find someone. So for me his words that he love me is just a word!

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Tue 01/08/13 07:30 AM
I have a relationship for 3 yrs during those years I always caught my partner having a text mate,chat mate, and even found out that he is meeting her. During those years I always forgive and accept him till we reached to the point that we fought physically. I love him very much that's why I always forgive him even he always hurt me. But he never saw that. He didn't appreciate. He took me for granted! He is over confident because he knows how much I love him. He is trying to get me back but the problem is, I loss the trust!

How to trust again?

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