Nice touch of humor....Reality says that being obese is bad for your health that's a given. But denying yourself that ice cream cone and living in fear of gaining a pound adds up to the loss of much happiness. Denial may be good for the body but it plays havoc with your happiness meter. The key is balance, don't glut but don't deny yourself either. Project the beauty of the mermaid through poise and confidence no matter your weight and live life happily like the whale~ Just a thought....

Hot chick? I'm confused in search of a date or dinner?

This thread has so come in handy for people. And I have spoken with several that post here regularly. I guess it is my turn to make use of it. I have not been diagnosed with any kind of depressive malady but know that I am presently suffering from depression and am on the verge of being suicidal. My life is a total disaster. I moved over a 1000 miles to be with someone only to be dumped the day after I got here, and dumped is probably the wrong term in short I was played. This was my bad and stupidity for trusting someone. To add injury to injury I have a broken foot, can't work even if I had employment here yet, need a place to stay, and just found out that I need surgury on my broken foot. I have no insurance of course that ended when my employment did. I have no family that I can call on or friends that are in any shape to help me. And I am about at the end of my rope. thanks for letting me vent~

Des

((((((kelly)))))))) what's up my friend?????? long time no see~

I am not one of the sexy 6 But I can appreciate this sentiment...where would we be without our friends....who would we talk too...cry on....gritch at....rely on....and love....without our girlfriends~

What type of person do you attract?
Your Result: You attract geeks!

Your stunning intellect and love of sci-fi and video games allures the geeks like nothing else. Maybe it is the sparkle in your eye that makes them want to text you, who knows. Geeks make good partners, but tend to be arguementative. If you are a TRUE geek magnet, you will know if that was spelled correctly, and actually care. If it is a bad-boy/bad-girl you are seeking, you are barking up the wrong tree, unless they are just 'bad' behind a PS2 console.


I think this test is off track lol It says nothing about losers, liars, and misrepresentation. I want my quarter back

Hugs and smooches to all my friends I have missed you all~

My favorite clown

In dreams all things are possible.....life should be so simple~

I confess that I am back to try again~

I slide silky skin between satin sheets and slip into the sweetness of slumber. In the protective cocoon of dreams I see you in my minds eye. You are faceless and shapeless but your qualities shine brighter than orian's starry belt. I can taste your kiss on my lips all warmth and honey and feel the strength of your shoulders beneath my fingers as your arms shelter me. Your eyes search for me alone as your soul calls to mine in the darkness. Two halfs both lost and alone but searching for the place and the time that we will meld. Your honor and honesty know no bounds nor even a breath of betrayal fills your body. You are light in darkness in a world gone black and bleak of hope and heart. I feel joy just to gaze upon you and laughter rushes to bubble from my kiss swollen mouth in sheer delight. We walk, your hand in mine, our hearts so in tune that they beat with the same pulse beneath the skin. An echo and a continuance combined. Our story has endured since time began and will continue until the last star has fallen from the sky. And while we often walk seperate paths we remain together as the whole. Two hearts, two halfs, one whole. By night I dream of such a love and by days light I yearn for such a love. Somewhere across the span of time I shall find such a love for I shall never fail to keep an open heart and search for the sound of a soul that echo's mine own~

Whoo whoooooooooo goooooooooooooooo Teddy~ Just be the wonderful lady you are and all will be fine. And those aren't nerves it's just anticipation.

Public Forum, Public opinions. Everyone is entitled to their own thoughts. Yes we put personal business out here. It was done with a reason, which I went to the trouble to explain had anyone taken the time to read, not that I feel I owe anyone any explanations. But for some reason "we" seem to be a major point of aggravation for some people. And I find it highly ironic to see the major detractors are regular posters of their own personal issues, or have been in the past. I have been here a long time and have an even longer memory. And for some it may be the voice of experience speaking when they say it can lead to trouble/issues putting your personal business out. For me If I couldn't stand the heat I would stay out of the kitchen. I chose to post, I had a reason for handling it the way I did (in the main to avoid hurting people's feelings), and I don't/didn't have time to write the 178 people at last count on my friends list privately. For the ones that wished us well, we both thank you from the bottom of our hearts. For everyone else thanks for your comments this proves again that we have free speech and should be grateful for it.

Let me clear up some misconceptions here. The original post about our relationship wasn't for attention on either of our parts. It was done in consideration of MY feelings. Both Duck and I have many friends here, and I have long made it plain how I feel about flirting once you have decided to commit to interest in just one person. And frankly I was having issues with some of the comments thrown his way after we committed to this. So it was a tactful way of letting our friends know our decision. Many of Duck's friends are people I like and respect, and I didn't want to develop any hard feelings towards these people. Because being the loving, caring, people that earned my respect in the first place I knew the flirting comments would stop once it was known we were an item, and they have from the people that matter to us both. Issue solved it served it's purpose.

11 hours plus~

Happy Birthday crazy~




You aren't another year older ....you are just another year closer to being aged to perfection~

You can never run so fast that fear can't catch you,
You can never hide so well that pain can't seek you out
You can build walls but your heart you can't protect
Love knows all, sees all, and eventually finds us all~

I don't think there is only one chance. Love is limitless, it isn't something that ever runs out. While it's true that People often limit themselfs by believing that there is only One true love. You can love a million different people though a million different ways, as we are all unique and have things that make us special. You just have to be open to the possibilities.

While this is sadly true in a lot of cases, I can only say again that that isn't the type person you would want anyway. One that was so shallow they didn't take the time to learn what was inside? If you like someone for the way they look only, you don't like THE PERSON just the shell.

It's a matter of personal taste. There is someone out there for everyone no matter your body shape. Besides true beauty is on the inside not the out, and anyone that doesn't know that isn't someone you want to be with~