we are attracted to what is familiar to us,..
if we struggled to feel accepted growing up,..especially by the opposite sex,..than that is what we become use to,.. what feels normal -- no matter how abusive,.. being accepted by the opposite sex just may be the most ackward thing to accept --like ' what`s wrong with this person ' if he / she can just accept me without me having to do anything |
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spending time with them,...
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that`s great !!!,..I it !! |
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thankyou,.. Teddy Bear for sharing your incredible struggle with pain & hope ,..it`s what makes us human,..
I can`t imagine,.. |
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that poem is Fricken awesome,..
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WOW ! that is alot of information,..
I`ve been hearing this for sometime now,..the 'whole thing' is an elusion,.a well thought out chess game,..a means to an end,..of one world goverment,.. how does the 'illuminati ' fit into the equation,.. |
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What do I do?
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think very carefully,...
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the seed
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beautiful |
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do you have any idea how much I needed to hear that this mornin,.
thankyou |
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it was,......... " destiny "
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Matchsticks in the fire...
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matchsticks in the fire,.
everything is kindof like that now,..our food,..our cars,..our romance,..if it ain`t ~HOT~ & FAST ,.it`s out,.. |
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What am I doing wrong.
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notta,..
anchors away,... |
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why do you think that is that you can solve others` problems,.but not your own,.. That's not uncommon. I studied psychology for seven years and developed a reputation for being able to help people with problems. Everyone I know thinks of me as their counselor. And I'm usually OK with that. It gets a little frustrating, at times, though, because there are those I NEVER hear from until/unless they need my help. But I'm completely stymied when it comes to dealing with my own issues. I don't have a lot of problems, but the few I do have are real stumpers and there is no one I can go to for help. I`ll agree,..your answers are already inside you,..buried under layers,..that at the right time,..will reveal themselves,.. |
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I have no clue Maybe because there isn't a "purpose" for everyone or anyone, except, as Lex said, to live the life you aspire to. I don't believe that there's this great scheme or grand book somewhere with your life written in it, it's something you do and choose for yourself. God gives us intelligence and free will, and I think that's about as much control as he has, the rest is up to us. here,.here,.. |
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I put 'purpose'in quotations because the word is debatable. 'calling', 'reason for being here' yadda yadda can all apply if need be, but you get my point. i Think my purpose was to advise people. For some strange reason i find that for my age (20) i the mind of a 29 year old. it is so scary. when i speak to people they cant believe that i'm so young, yet here i am giving the best advise, sounding like i've had the most experience in the world. and im usually accurate in my warnings and on point with my advice. its so uncanny. then again i dont want to sound like im in love with myself, because it has its burdens: no one can solve my problems for me because they're more complex than the ones i solve for others... isnt it a lonely world we're in? why do you think that is that you can solve others` problems,.but not your own,.. |
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hummmmmmmm,..good question,.
LOVE is action,..because without action it is fruitless,.. |
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sometimes it`s fun to take the aggressive approach and instead of waiting for someone to knock on your door,.get out there and start knocking on theirs,..
the forums are a great way to converse & meet people,.. have fun cause that`s what it`s all about,.. |
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or is it,..keep asking,.cause you would not have the question,.if God had not given you the answer already,....
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hey all i'm curious about this whole scenario i've been in my entire life and maybe someone can answer a question i've had for a long time. what is it about descent god fearing men that causes them to wind up in dead end relationships? i just don't get it i do things any descent man would do but always end up being cheated on. or if not cheated on then just broken up with. well if someone has an idea what iti am doing wrong please let me know. keep asking,.. cause God would not have given you the question if you did not already have the answer,... |
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what`s that saying,..doing the same thing and expecting different results,..
gotta look at your patterns,. what type of woman are you attracted to,..what things do your ex`s have in common,,.. |
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