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jist, you make a very valid point that the resources of the gov't could be used in better places, the problem I have is with that "the law has absolutely no special provisions for footage of a minor." While the leering at a defenseless child maybe the most offensive act, what makes it any worse than spying on a woman in a changing room? They are both invasions of privacy and decency and would not put one above the other.
I do not want to question you about the facts, but I noticed that you put your opening statement in quotes. Was that because they came from the Dept of Justice or a psychological study of somekind. Don't get me wrong, the acts of a pedophile need to be dealt with harshly, but there needs to be a logical system of punishment for the crime and that would be an entirely new thread. But if so many acts of pedophilia go unreported, how do they get the recidivism rates that they do? When sexual crimes are punished more severly than other offenses, how come the recidivism rates keep going up? Is the act of pedophilia genetic or is it nurtured? Sexual crimes are horrible for the victims, but the unsubstantiated accusations are even worse. Talk to any falsely accused school teacher who gave a bad grade to a student, and you will see the true power that a child holds in their hands. The law is a powerful tool that people seem to throw around willy nilly, and don't know the full extent of the damage that is caused by a false accusation. |
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It would be a pleasure to live in your country! Finally, where people will take responsibility for themslves instead of having somebody take care of them. This is life, sometimes tough and sometimes not, and we all learn from our mistakes. That to me is the only way to learn. when you are shocked when you put your finger in the light socket, you wont put it in there again. Same with life, when something has horrible reprocussions(?) we learn not to do them again.
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neener neener neener fanta lol when have you not known me to speak my mind???? sorry but on my 2 week break from here while fixing my computer...i'm not really worried about cyber feelings lol. I'm not going to be hateful...but i will speak my mind. take that fanta lol....muah ty daniel sub... yes it is the PARENTS job to raise their kids and teach them these things...but you know there are parents out there that don't care as long as the kid isn't bugging them. i raised my child with certain things and hope when he's on his own at 18 (17 now) that he will have been brought up to learn to be a man. but looking doesn't make someone a predetor for examples I have given. a 5 yr old (no matter what you teach them) wouldn't stand a chance if someone really wanted to do something which is why the parents should be aware of where their child is and what is going on. the sad thing is...there are parents that care more about themselves than their kids. but it's the parents (and any responsible adult) to look after them...not the cops bugging people because they looked too long at a child...ya know? I 100% agree that it is the parents responsibility to raise a child.The police have to many other things to responsible for, like, in the city I live in Los Angeles, making sure that other criminals are treated with the utmost respect while things like leering are punishable by something close to a death sentence. I wonder if a man is caught leering a child, will he have to register as a sexual felon for the rest of his life? What are the chnces that this one man will ever be productive in this society? This will only lead to more hysteria and the only place people will turn is to the gov't. Te gov't had been SO SUCCESSFUL at their other endeavors, what makes them think that this will be somewhat on par with a success story. The only thing I see this leading to is total failure, heartbreak for the falsely accused, and torment for a child that is pressured to testify on the behalf of an overzealous prosecutor enorder to ensure the next budget. |
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what about letting a kid grow up and knowing what a loony is on his/her own? I dont want the gov't telling me that they know best for me, and this law is stating that without OUR help in notifying you of predetors you wont know what one is. Whatever happened to dont take candy from strangers and when asked run like hell! That to me is the biggest problem, is that people cant think for themselves anymore and it all starts with "it's for the children." Kids are just as smart as an adult just as long as they are given a chance. When that growth is stunted by a manipulating parent, i.e. the gov't, things go bad and that child will never be able to think for themselves. I think that is the whole purpose of this law, to give the people an undying love for the gov't and its holier than thou intent.
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Matchmaking Game - part 68
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oh tony i forget i do have cable tv down here too http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xe1a1wHxTyo I LOVE MONTY PYTHON!!!! I'm not dead yet I'm getting better I love Monty Python too! I showed part of Holy Grail to my students to introduce them to the Middle Ages! c'mon chickie! thats is not medieval stuff! that was just plain funny! couldn't you go some Sir Gwain and The Green Knight? |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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good here doll how are you? getting ready to take a nosedive into my pillow On the plane, right? |
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'nuff said!
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i need some sleep...starting to see double! Well, you missed out on the walk, Matt! Hmph. I thought you were up for fun tonight, not sleep! who says we cant do both! Take a walk on the wild side? Well, I do need both as well, so sounds like a plan to me. I love letting the wild side out. I think I need to hop on a plane...I can sleep there! You'll be sleeping on the plane, I hope you mean! fo' sho'! no rest when people are around |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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you're old feel like it! I need to recharge my batteries! |
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good here doll how are you? getting ready to take a nosedive into my pillow |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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Evening all hey there sweetness. how ya doin' |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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i'm 26 Well, he's just insane then. I thought you were young. I'd be popping him. But then, I tend not to take that sort of thing from anyone. My doctor insulted me today! My bday was the other day and I told him that I told the kids that I turned 27 and some of them bought it, but only the ones who don't know that I have an 18yo daughter! He said "no, they just said that because they want a good grade!" I was like he didn't say that! I mean, come on. Maybe I don't look 27, but I don't look my age either, that's for sure. Anyway, I digress...like usual, sorry. you look great dina! i would say something sexually rude here but i dont want to offend |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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i need some sleep...starting to see double! Well, you missed out on the walk, Matt! Hmph. I thought you were up for fun tonight, not sleep! who says we cant do both! Take a walk on the wild side? Well, I do need both as well, so sounds like a plan to me. I love letting the wild side out. I think I need to hop on a plane...I can sleep there! |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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i need some sleep...starting to see double! Well, you missed out on the walk, Matt! Hmph. I thought you were up for fun tonight, not sleep! who says we cant do both! Take a walk on the wild side? |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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good and yours lisa trick question?? i came home and started drinking... the cats are here so i guess its not technically drinking alone Hopefully, no one accuses you of being in your 50s. What happened to that dude, btw? yeah i got upgraded from being guessed 20 yrs older to being called "grandma" if you had your picture up, he would have had to pick his jaw up off the floor he's seen my pic then he was just playing then? i am glad you guys can share that kind of banter actually initially he was serious in thinking i was 20 yrs older that sounds quite mean yeah didn't make me too happy... but now he has jokingly started calling me grandma But come on! That's just obnoxious! Oh, ha ha...that was one of the kids' vocab words today and I made them use it in a sentence for the kids because it defines them! |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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i need some sleep...starting to see double!
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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we can all just get along!
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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good and yours lisa trick question?? i came home and started drinking... the cats are here so i guess its not technically drinking alone Hopefully, no one accuses you of being in your 50s. What happened to that dude, btw? yeah i got upgraded from being guessed 20 yrs older to being called "grandma" if you had your picture up, he would have had to pick his jaw up off the floor he's seen my pic then he was just playing then? i am glad you guys can share that kind of banter actually initially he was serious in thinking i was 20 yrs older that sounds quite mean |
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Matchmaking Game - part 66
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good and yours lisa trick question?? i came home and started drinking... the cats are here so i guess its not technically drinking alone Hopefully, no one accuses you of being in your 50s. What happened to that dude, btw? yeah i got upgraded from being guessed 20 yrs older to being called "grandma" if you had your picture up, he would have had to pick his jaw up off the floor he's seen my pic then he was just playing then? i am glad you guys can share that kind of banter |
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Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 66
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good and yours lisa trick question?? i came home and started drinking... the cats are here so i guess its not technically drinking alone Hopefully, no one accuses you of being in your 50s. What happened to that dude, btw? yeah i got upgraded from being guessed 20 yrs older to being called "grandma" if you had your picture up, he would have had to pick his jaw up off the floor |
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