Just joined. Or should i say rejoined, heh.
This was the year I said to myself that a lot of things will have to change. My views of myself as a person, my opinion of myself as a man, and as a potential mate to someone, someday.
It feels good to finally figure out where I want to be headed in life, and it feels even more liberating to know that it doesnt have to be specific just yet, and that I'll figure it out as i go, crossing those bridges when I come to them, and taking them all in stride.
I'm fairly intelligent, I like to take my time with relationships, especially people, because I used to be worse. As in so introverted, I'd refuse to talk to anyone who my poor instincts decided weren't worth my time.
It turns out I was wrong more times than I was right.
And yet I feel as if late last year something happened and i broke that cycle.
I'm more open to possibilities, I feel braver, and I suppose thats the real reason why I'm here.
Like everyone else, I seek a good honest connection with someone.
Not saying it'll happen on this particular site for sure....but taking a chance on something is better than waiting around for nothing to happen.
I'm sort of the everyman that can chat up anybody, but I'm also selective. It could be that no on reads this or is interested in someone like me, but that I write this and it inspires someone to write me or some other paramour they have. Either way, thanks for looking.
I'm going to take my time.
I'm going to write more people.
and I'm gonna keep being the best me that I can.
And hopefully someone will see it, and feel compelled to write to me.
I'm remaining open and optimistic.
Hopefully I'll meet a lady who matches my optimism.
I'll be around.