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Wed 08/18/10 10:16 AM

Ignoring the signs that the person is not right for us. Sometimes we just stay in relationships because it's better than being alone. Then later on if the relationships end, we always kick ourselves for not following our gut in the first place.

I think acknowledging that someone may not be right for us is something that most of us sense pretty early on; but, do we follow that instinct? Most likely not.


a truly wise woman indeed!

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Wed 08/18/10 10:09 AM

What made me smile today was getting a job interview for tomorrow.


i wish you the best on that one! tomorrow, you will have a lot of reason to celebrate! cheers!!!

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Wed 08/18/10 10:08 AM
i jog in the morning and bought flowers for my little garden.. I love how it looks now!

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Wed 08/18/10 10:06 AM


I dont think its one definable thing. I just think you know it when you feel it. flowerforyou


I think you do know when you feel it:wink: and if you can feel it over and over again...laugh


hahahahaha! you are really into how many things a guy can make you cum ha? it's a measure.. i agree with that

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Wed 08/18/10 10:03 AM

I dont think its one definable thing. I just think you know it when you feel it. flowerforyou

yea, i completely agree with your girl but there must be qualifiers... quantifiers... you know what i mean?

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Wed 08/18/10 09:56 AM
what makes a GREAT love partner?

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Wed 08/18/10 08:30 AM
its my choice now.. before i was in a relationship, when it ended i chose to remain single

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Wed 08/18/10 06:31 AM
michael buble -- sway and you dont know me
historia de un amor

love it!

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Wed 08/18/10 06:27 AM

flowerforyou I know you are really excited and happy and it may sound like we are just raining on your parade. We are all very happy that you are happy, but there is some good advice here. Please listen.

Is there some reason why you are getting married? Could you just live with each other for a while? If he's coming to you to get married...why not just be together and not get married? Or better yet....don't live together either. If he's serious enough to marry you, then he could move closer to you and you can just date normally for a year. Or two. Please think about it. flowerforyou

This is a very good advice. I think you should think about this one. thank you girl for giving a piece of your mind to a fellow who seems to be shaken a little bit.

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Wed 08/18/10 06:25 AM
the question is not clear...
Filipina american relationship in terms of what?

1. culture
2. language
3. distance
4. love
5. sexual expectations
6. race difference
7. religious orientation
8. relationship expectations in general


qualify and quantify your question and you will get a more concrete answer

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Wed 08/18/10 06:22 AM

I don't know if it really works but I have been communicating with a white guy for more than 3 years now (everyday) and now we are planning to get a pair of wedding rings cause he is coming!!!!! And its my job to plan for everything, whew, exhausting tongue2


can I advise to slow it down,, from experience

internet relations can be QUITE different than what happens when people actually start physically interacting in each others cultures, worlds, families,,,etc,,,



AGREED!! Never plan a 'wedding' before you meet someone in person. I don't care how long you've been communicating, until you actually can be IN PERSON with them, they are still an 'image' in your mind. Once you experience their mannerisms, behavorial patterns, the way they interact with others that you can SEE/HEAR .. you do not have an accurate understanding of 'them'.

I agree with these ladies, met the guy first because the physical presnece is important before planning somthing long term. and may i ask, will you get married in the Philippines? Girl, you should know how hard it is to get out of that marriage before you even think of getting into one ( i take it from experience). The idea of romance and true love is all so GREAT but you have to stay grounded too! reality bites you know, but thats the way it should be. I am wishing you all the best but i am also hoping what your gut feeling is telling you. I know it is whispering something, you just don't want to hear it...

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Wed 08/18/10 06:15 AM
Marsielles and Aix-en-provence, France

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Wed 08/18/10 06:13 AM
i read everything you've wriiten and thank you for that.

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Mon 04/05/10 02:32 PM
AAWWWWWW...... that is just beautiful..

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Mon 03/01/10 07:50 AM
kiss from a rose--seal

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Mon 03/01/10 07:46 AM
My final Phd defense in June! can't ait to have those initials after my name and after so many years!

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Mon 03/01/10 07:44 AM
not for me..

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Fri 01/30/09 10:05 AM
hhhmmm thats interesting... i would say both are important .. the challenge is how to balance it...

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Fri 01/30/09 10:02 AM
unresolved issues, caffeine, money matters, caffeine, work left undone, caffeine

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Thu 11/20/08 05:17 AM
i met one nice man in here and then after a few weeks, he was gone with no apparent reason... i hate that

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