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Sun 06/15/08 11:59 PM

is getting ready to have more babies in two more weeks drinker drinker drinker
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Hey maybe one will be blonde....laugh

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Sun 06/15/08 11:59 PM

is getting ready to have more babies in two more weeks drinker drinker drinker
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Awwww...have fun with all those whining puppies.....and sleepless nights.....laugh

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Sun 06/15/08 11:56 PM
Love a good thunderstorm???? It is right now here...and the sky is so lite up....it is way cool...just wish i had someone to watch it with....sad sad

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Sun 06/15/08 11:52 PM

Hello, not new here. Had to disappear for a little while, but back for a bit. Made some changes not only to my profile, but also to me...let me know what you think...

Hello to you..and welcome backflowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 11:48 PM







some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys

Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffeedrinker
ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ?

actually yeah it does....maybe he made her feel useless and made her self esteem go way down so therfore she didnt feel worthy enough to have someone like you in her life....maybe she wasnt ready for that.....
ya but why go back to someone that you know is gonna abuse you again and dont like your kids ?

Maybe she thought she really loved him and could change him....which we all know you cant......maybe it was easier for her to go back than to try to start something new....self esteam issue again......but then again would you have really wanted a woman like that???? Things happen for a reson
yep , good point .. dammm youre a good blondelaugh laugh i like you already drinker :drinker drinker laugh

Yeah not as stupid as that other one huh??? see its women like her that gives all us other blondes bad names.....grumble

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Sun 06/15/08 11:47 PM




some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys

Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffeedrinker
ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ?


That goes both ways.Nice guys stay with real crappy wemon to.Sometimes I wish I could be a real Bi##h.Than I would have better luck.laugh laugh laugh

This is true toooo

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Sun 06/15/08 11:43 PM





some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys

Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffeedrinker
ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ?

actually yeah it does....maybe he made her feel useless and made her self esteem go way down so therfore she didnt feel worthy enough to have someone like you in her life....maybe she wasnt ready for that.....
ya but why go back to someone that you know is gonna abuse you again and dont like your kids ?

Maybe she thought she really loved him and could change him....which we all know you cant......maybe it was easier for her to go back than to try to start something new....self esteam issue again......but then again would you have really wanted a woman like that???? Things happen for a reson

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Sun 06/15/08 11:39 PM



some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys

Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffeedrinker
But what im saying is ive met women who has told me that nice guys turn them off

were these wmoen who wanted a relationship or were still out having there "fun" so to speak???

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Sun 06/15/08 11:38 PM



some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys

Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffeedrinker
ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ?

actually yeah it does....maybe he made her feel useless and made her self esteem go way down so therfore she didnt feel worthy enough to have someone like you in her life....maybe she wasnt ready for that.....

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Sun 06/15/08 11:33 PM
Thanks....very thoughtfulflowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 11:29 PM

some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys

Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffeedrinker

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Sun 06/15/08 11:27 PM

just be yourself and be honest...
dont worry about where ur gonna finish...

enjoy the ride..
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Yeah me tooooo

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Sun 06/15/08 11:23 PM




would you rather be a typical man and finish first, or be a nice guy and finish last, but finish happy???
huh huh huh huh say that again laugh laugh laugh laugh

Who's a blonde now?????laugh laugh laugh laugh bigsmile bigsmile
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh im just joking around laugh laugh laugh

laugh laugh I know but i had to get my dig in....flowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 11:19 PM


would you rather be a typical man and finish first, or be a nice guy and finish last, but finish happy???
huh huh huh huh say that again laugh laugh laugh laugh

Who's a blonde now?????laugh laugh laugh laugh bigsmile bigsmile

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Sun 06/15/08 11:02 PM
Does the one you love..love you back?????

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Sun 06/15/08 11:00 PM








or boyfriend does that make them off limits?

stupid question


not really


You need to clear this up, you talking about datting or a relationship?


You notice how she never answered your question, Shadow?
you gotta forgive her , she's a blonde laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


ohwell this place takes all kindslaugh
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Your forgiven..i guessgrumble

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Sun 06/15/08 10:59 PM
Have sweet dreams.....nite

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Sun 06/15/08 10:58 PM






or boyfriend does that make them off limits?

stupid question


not really


You need to clear this up, you talking about datting or a relationship?


You notice how she never answered your question, Shadow?
you gotta forgive her , she's a blonde laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

UUmmmmm HULLO...BLONDE HERE...nothing like her...thankyou

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Sun 06/15/08 10:57 PM


or boyfriend does that make them off limits?


If he did leave his girlfriend for you, he would think every day "What if she finds another guy she likes more". Not a good way to start a relationship.

And if he did leave his gf for you...then he will probebly leave you for another girl.....

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Sun 06/15/08 10:55 PM





You know, personally, I think I have a highly refined sense of spirituality...capable of encompassing people of all religions without judging them or damning them only because their faith differs from mine. I think it makes one more "Godly" (for lack of a better word or phrase) to be able to listen with an open mind, realize that the other's faith/opinion isn't wrong...only different...and accepting the fact that I don't know everything...will never know everything...and some things are supposed to remain a mystery. Questions without answers. Unless you look at the answer from the most simplest of views.

When I asked my 7 year old son what the meaning of life was, he responded: "Meaning of life? You mean...why there is life? Or what our life means?" I told him either, he said: "There's life because there's supposed to be life." I asked him why. He said, "Because there just is." He said it so matter of factly, like I should already know that. When I asked him about the other, he said: "Our life means being good to each other and loving everybody and just..living." I couldn't have said it better myself. drinker

I think as adults we over-analyze everything...there is only "one" answer to any equation...and some answers arn't acceptable, so we spend our lives trying to prove them wrong. If only we were all 7 year olds again. How much simpler and happier the world would be...oh wait...except when it comes to sharing the toys. laugh

Very nicely put and so agree with youdrinker


Thank you hon :) But truely, the credit goes to my son lol Were it not for my children, I would never be able to keep things in perspective. laugh

I have to tell you i have been reading all of this..and it makes me kind of sad how some people feel that what they say should be the "right "way...all people have different beliefs about there god....and everyone has the right to how they feel and think...
I beleive in "my god" and i believe in Jesus but i also am very spiritual....i believe that god is everywhere...and everything...i am a good person and i teach my children about him....but i also feel my children should make there own decision about how they want to feel about about there own religion....my kids started to go to a youth group every week and my one son loves it the other not really for him...i respect that in him...he is like me..believes in god and prays to him...and that to me makes me happy enough right now....
i do have to say i was brought up catholic...when i was pregnant with my son becasue i wasnt married to the father i was told by the church that if i wasnt marrioed to the dad then i was going to go to hell and that i was living in sin...i was so shocked that, that day i stopped being a catholic...i dont think anyone on this earth had the right to judge others becasue they dont believe in anothers religion....i believe and this is only my belief that only god has the right to judge you and i think that is how you live your life and whether you were a good peron on this earth...but that is just my opinion...


Precisely! Nail on the head! drinker drinker I was raised Mormon, given no choice in it what-so-ever, and the day I turned 18 and was finally granted my own choice I left and never went back. Now, mind you, I started learning and reading about other religions secretly through books in the library and the internet when I was 13. But I don't think religion is something you can force on someone, it's a highly personal experience and only that person can really be intune and recognize what it is. For some it's one religion, for others it's another...and I don't think it's right or wrong. It simply is. :)

And same here, all 3 of my children were born out of wedlock, and people can point and judge all they like. But they don't know the circumstances, they don't know my life and they don't know why I've made the choices I have. What they should know, though...is that when I found out I was pregnant with all 3 of my children. I had 3 choices each time. Abortion. Adoption. Responsibility.

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