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<<<Softtail>>>
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Just stepping in to say hi all....from the frozen tundra....
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body. But rather to skid in sideways, chocolate, cigarette or and an adult beverage in hand, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO-HOO what a ride!" From a Newbie.... |
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All men are pervs
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I would like to stand up for the women who are perves WOOT!! I'm in! |
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God I need help
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Hon...
you better toughen up your heart....step up to the plate and be a Daddy (not just a Father)and fight with all your might, to be a part of that child's life. To hell with the mother, sounds like she is a low-life anyway. Don't let her have full control...she did'nt make that baby herself. You got rights too. My son went thru the same thing... Your child will thank you someday. |
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All men are pervs
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I think it is a guy thing...They are all proud of thier tool. Is that why so many of us build sheds over it? Too funny |
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All men are pervs
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I think it is a guy thing...They are all proud of thier tool.
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I don't agree with most of the opinions here. I dated a recovering alcoholic for awhile, and although he said it would not bother him if I had a few drinks, I just didn't feel right about doing so when I was with him. And to me, it just wasn't a big deal to abstain because I enjoyed being with him. I think that is different from what was said here. You did what you did out of respect for this person and his disease and not because he had told you not to. Come on people...let me have it here...lol..I can take it...he has mentioned many times how these things are not good for my health...like I did'nt know.... I didn't read that he has asked her not to. I read that he admitted to not liking bars, or the smell of alcohol. And that she likes to have a few with friends. I just meant that love/relationships are about compromise, and we need to pick our battles. Is having a few drinks so important that you would pass up the opportunity for something amazing? Oops...did that wrong sorry...newbie here |
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I don't agree with most of the opinions here. I dated a recovering alcoholic for awhile, and although he said it would not bother him if I had a few drinks, I just didn't feel right about doing so when I was with him. And to me, it just wasn't a big deal to abstain because I enjoyed being with him. I think that is different from what was said here. You did what you did out of respect for this person and his disease and not because he had told you not to. Come on people...let me have it here...lol..I can take it...he has mentioned many times how these things are not good for my health...like I did'nt know.... I didn't read that he has asked her not to. I read that he admitted to not liking bars, or the smell of alcohol. And that she likes to have a few with friends. I just meant that love/relationships are about compromise, and we need to pick our battles. Is having a few drinks so important that you would pass up the opportunity for something amazing? |
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you have to be your self, more than likely wont work with him. you know it. But he might be really good in bedLOL Too funny..... |
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I met a wonderful guy out here...talked for hours on yahoo and a few times on the phone over the last month or so. Now, he gave up alot of things in the past to better himself. This is cool and is a very respected person in society. He gave up drinking for his own reasons...cool...and before he wants to meet me ..he is gonna quit smoking. Well, I enjoy a social drink every now and then and I smoke. I have told him this. He says he has no problem with what my habits are, and he will never judge me for that. My problem here is...we got to talking on the phone the other night and he mentioned his last lady friend...He said they had gone out and she had a few drinks...which started a dialogue of him stateing his dislike for bars, the smell of alcohol on someone's breathe...etc. Well, I am not a barfly...and have a wide circle of friends...and sometimes...it is the bar scene that sometimes we socialize over an adult beverage and a few games of pool. Now, I have spent a considerable amount of time talking to him...and am torn...for I really in my heart want to meet this guy...but the red lights are now flashing and the bells are going off...My question here is simple...some of you that have given up this or that...is it possiable to have a normal relationship with someone who has given up some of the things I do? Am I under the threat of being judged too? I have come too far in my life...to change the things I like to do...and if I do change any of it...it will be because I want to. Let's see where this goes....... <<<Softtail>>>
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Hey Metalman,
I love it...I'll bet you are alot of fun. <<<Softtail>>> |
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What's wrong with you, hold your head up there , girl. I have 3 sons...and they could have brought you home...lol
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Well Hon....
You did'nt make that baby yourself...I think they should make every father step up to the plate...Hon...there may be a time when it could come in handy. Sorry, if I am out of line here...been there, done that. I never had a problem, as I see so many young single mothers today, getting child support and it sure came in handy. My son pays support for his daughter, even though the mother took off with her to a different state. He has only seen her a few times, distance is the only factor here. There is a difference between the word..father and daddy. If this is an issue of not wanting the father to be part of the child's life....There are ways to protect you and your baby. Lol...they are all babies to me, no matter what age they are. <<<Softtail>>> |
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