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I know many arent from the same culture but its known as a 'spanking' nothing to be executed over,,,, 20 whacks is about right for breaking the law when your dad is a judge,,,,but all the pausing made it worse that is not spanking, he did not use his hand once. A spanking is giving you're kid a swat on the *** to get them moving. not a beating with weapons. well, we were 'spanked' with belts on our well padded behind, that we fell on much more often than we got swatted never felt 'abused' and turned out fine,,, of course, we werent still getting 'spanked' at that age, at that age, we had learned about consequences and choices,,, daddy putting you over the knew and giving you the belt and giving a "normal" "spanking" is still a lot different from this. daddy getting his belt is all through history since belt were made. this was not that this was brutal. The things the parents said while beating her, that was not a spanking of any kind. |
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Driving while high on pot nearly doubles the chance of getting into a crash, say researchers from Halifax's Dalhousie University. The authors of the paper, which is published in the online edition of the British Medical Journal, reviewed nine previous studies involving 49,411 people. They say previous research didn't take into account the consumption of alcohol or other drugs, and so didn't provide a clear picture of the effect of smoking marijuana alone. One such study published in October, the Cross Canada Report on Student Alcohol and Drug Use, reported that more Canadian teens than ever before are drinking and smoking pot and then getting behind the wheel, often within an hour of indulging. The Dalhousie researchers, isolating marijuana consumption, found that drivers who smoke within three hours of driving are nearly twice as likely to cause a crash. The risk is even higher for those aged 35 and under. More than 10% of adults in Canada and about a third of young people 16-25 report using pot in the past year, according to the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health in Toronto. -------------------------------------------------------------------- My comments: Since alcohol is a factor they can not say that it is the pot that causes this effect. If doing a study on a substance you can not toss in another substance and judge the results of the 1st. Alcohol is well known to cause adverse affect, so they can not say that it is the pot, the could say pot and alcohol cause this effect but that is not what they are saying. The are saying that you could not properly judge the effects of pot with out the addition of alcohol. They say previous research didn't take into account the consumption of alcohol or other drugs, and so didn't provide a clear picture of the effect of smoking marijuana alone.
I could see testing drinkers against smokers but not mixing the 2 together for the testing, as then the affect of the alcohol could give false results. That said i have driven with a lot of smokers and not once had any fears, I have been afraid many times getting in car's with drunks. It is good that they are finally getting data on weed smoking and driving. It has been needed for a long time and using the data that had both alcohol and weed can't be accurate. So it is good that they are starting to get the data of weed alone now. they did not test weed alone at all, they tested weed with alcohol that's why i say their results are null. |
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I know many arent from the same culture but its known as a 'spanking' nothing to be executed over,,,, 20 whacks is about right for breaking the law when your dad is a judge,,,,but all the pausing made it worse that is not spanking, he did not use his hand once. A spanking is giving you're kid a swat on the *** to get them moving. not a beating with weapons. |
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Anyway I think I'm done with this silly subject. Spoiled brats, angry parents.... ho hum.... actually pretty boring and really none of our business. No it just gives us something to talk about and kill the boredom. the judge thing though everyone should know about and they should be executed. |
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I agree 100% DaddyTime... children should be allowed to express themselves. We don't always have to like it, they do have that right. People say they encourage their children to move away from the herd, be free thinkers...seems only when they express themselves in a way WE want them to. If they express themselves and we disagree with the message or the tactic, then we condemn them, tell them their wrong, punish them. This girl maybe is a brat...ok, fine. She is also unhappy and resentful. She posted to her friends because she couldn't talk to these wonderful adults in her life. Instead of a caring concerned response, she gets punished. I can't wrap my mind around this being ok with anyone. But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so 
ahh so many quotes but can you please link me to that story, i am interested in seeing what my opinion will be. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0drbwtv6c-w this will disturb you DaddyTime... and some say the swearing is the only thing offensive 
ok I misread you're post thought you said you agreed with the judge, so I wanted to see why. I wish I had not misread it as that is something I never want to see. I wonder if this father will let me borrow his gun and $1 bullets so I can go visit the judge and his wife sick fing power perverts. The beat the **** out of that poor girl for downloading a video game. I thought for a second that the mother was trying to calm the father then she got in on the beating. I can't even comprehend this to comment properly |
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I agree 100% DaddyTime... children should be allowed to express themselves. We don't always have to like it, they do have that right. People say they encourage their children to move away from the herd, be free thinkers...seems only when they express themselves in a way WE want them to. If they express themselves and we disagree with the message or the tactic, then we condemn them, tell them their wrong, punish them. This girl maybe is a brat...ok, fine. She is also unhappy and resentful. She posted to her friends because she couldn't talk to these wonderful adults in her life. Instead of a caring concerned response, she gets punished. I can't wrap my mind around this being ok with anyone. But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so
ahh so many quotes but can you please link me to that story, i am interested in seeing what my opinion will be. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0drbwtv6c-w this will disturb you DaddyTime... and some say the swearing is the only thing offensive
Hmm brb and i will let you know. |
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But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so
I remember that video. That was so shocking that I thought it was a set up. link please lol to see this story sounds interesting |
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There is nothing wrong with how he is
raising his daughter and this will in no way harm her. I simply disagree with his methods and beliefs in certain things. In no why will what he did harm his child she may be pissed at him for being a d!ck but that is all. just wanted to make that clear in case anyone thought I was saying otherwise. She will grow up to be a normal dysfunctional adult like the rest of us. We all have parents lol |
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I agree 100% DaddyTime... children should be allowed to express themselves. We don't always have to like it, they do have that right. People say they encourage their children to move away from the herd, be free thinkers...seems only when they express themselves in a way WE want them to. If they express themselves and we disagree with the message or the tactic, then we condemn them, tell them their wrong, punish them. This girl maybe is a brat...ok, fine. She is also unhappy and resentful. She posted to her friends because she couldn't talk to these wonderful adults in her life. Instead of a caring concerned response, she gets punished. I can't wrap my mind around this being ok with anyone. But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so
ahh so many quotes but can you please link me to that story, i am interested in seeing what my opinion will be. |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I agree. IN a healthy home they dont. IN a healthy home, children learn an attitude of GRATEFULNESS instead of entitlement and they WANT to contribute in return instead of just asking for more and more,,,,,, Must not be many healthy homes as I know few adults who ever learned this themselves. I think most mistake a child's excitement in wanting a new thing as a sense of entitlement. We all want things as adult we whine for raises as children we ask our parents. there is a difference between being excited and being disrespectful,,, if a child who is provided all their needs and even some of their wants thinks it happens because the parents are doing 'nothing' they are either disrespectful or uneducated about reality,, in either case clarification is justified on the parents part,,,, the issue, in my opinion, wasnt what she wanted, it was how she went about it and the disrespect shown to her parents the only thing she wanted in this case equality in how chores are distributed. they have talked about it many time's. Obviously her parents never listened and she needed to do something extreme to get there attention. |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. Children do not ask to be born 
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I have seriously known kids whose parents were totally irresponsible and neglectful, even abusive! There are so many! That is why it bugs me when I see kids who have all they need and have good parents who work and provide for them and yet they feel oppressed and whine on facebook if they have chores. Give me a break. Once my mom was worried whether or not she had been a good parent. I told her that I thank God they were not abusive or drunks or drug addicts like so many parents are. I am and always have been thankful for my parents. Having good parents is not a privilege it's a right, and what other kids have or don't have is no concern of you're child's. You love them because you're suppose to, it's bad for children who don't and we should all feel for them but. children should not feel privileged if the do as it's something they should have. |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I agree. IN a healthy home they dont. IN a healthy home, children learn an attitude of GRATEFULNESS instead of entitlement and they WANT to contribute in return instead of just asking for more and more,,,,,, Must not be many healthy homes as I know few adults who ever learned this themselves. I think most mistake a child's excitement in wanting a new thing as a sense of entitlement. We all want things as adult we whine for raises as children we ask our parents. |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em.
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the family probably could use counsel on how to 'talk' with each other and find better ways to resolve things I think they tried that the first time she did it. Lol they point is the parents did not listen and start doing things equally. parents who are WORKING TO PROVIDE are not 'relaxing' , children need to learn a family is a unit where everyone CONTRIBUTES for the household to run smoothly
if the parents are WORKING to pay the bills, the children(and by this I mean TEENS who EXPECT Everything handed to them) should be WORKING to maintain the other responsibilities in the home,,, The point is the parents were not contributing, they have work she has school, and it's their duty to support her. she should do no more then them. have you ever worked to provide for a household and children before? lol I doubt she is doing 'more than them' I am a single father of 2 who works very hard to provide for his children. Her parents relax while she cleans and fetches coffee, do they bring her coffee? does she take them to their functions? pay for the gas? work to earn the money to pay for the gas? work to earn the money to pay to be warm and to eat? does she prepare meals? does she budget the books so they can keep their home? in a tit for tat, most kids (including her most likely) are coming up really short on the 'work' part of the equation,,, they deserve time to 'relax' if they are making sure she has those things, and she deserves to be contributing as well beyond getting the education that is for HER OWN BENEFIT, but doing things that likewise benefit the HOUSEHOLD She does not need to do any of that she is their child, it is their job to go to work and provide for her. She Will do all that when she is older and has children. She needs to focus on school which is just as stressful as any job, plus she has homework and studying. If they did not want to provide her with an education and these things they should not have had children. She owes them nothing for the things they provide her as they brought her in to this world. She is doing what she needs to with school, them with work, the things they have should all benefit them equally such as the maid. No need for her to do chores and these things if they don't. Gas and bills are not even a factor as these are things that should have before children with out the expectation of them helping with those things. we will agree to disagree Love goes both ways, it isnt a freeby just because you are a child a family is a UNIT and all must contribute something, typically that contribution from the parents is the home , the needs, and often times many of the wants of the children children need to learn they arent ENTITLED to it just because they were born just my opinion Still if a child expresses feelings of inequality, they do not deserved to be punished for it. You should never be punished for expressing yourself. She did nothing wrong with that post in my opinion. |
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the family probably could use counsel on how to 'talk' with each other and find better ways to resolve things I think they tried that the first time she did it. Lol they point is the parents did not listen and start doing things equally. parents who are WORKING TO PROVIDE are not 'relaxing' , children need to learn a family is a unit where everyone CONTRIBUTES for the household to run smoothly
if the parents are WORKING to pay the bills, the children(and by this I mean TEENS who EXPECT Everything handed to them) should be WORKING to maintain the other responsibilities in the home,,, The point is the parents were not contributing, they have work she has school, and it's their duty to support her. she should do no more then them. have you ever worked to provide for a household and children before? lol I doubt she is doing 'more than them' I am a single father of 2 who works very hard to provide for his children. Her parents relax while she cleans and fetches coffee, do they bring her coffee? does she take them to their functions? pay for the gas? work to earn the money to pay for the gas? work to earn the money to pay to be warm and to eat? does she prepare meals? does she budget the books so they can keep their home? in a tit for tat, most kids (including her most likely) are coming up really short on the 'work' part of the equation,,, they deserve time to 'relax' if they are making sure she has those things, and she deserves to be contributing as well beyond getting the education that is for HER OWN BENEFIT, but doing things that likewise benefit the HOUSEHOLD She does not need to do any of that she is their child, it is their job to go to work and provide for her. She Will do all that when she is older and has children. She needs to focus on school which is just as stressful as any job, plus she has homework and studying. If they did not want to provide her with an education and these things they should not have had children. She owes them nothing for the things they provide her as they brought her in to this world. She is doing what she needs to with school, them with work, the things they have should all benefit them equally such as the maid. No need for her to do chores and these things if they don't. Gas and bills are not even a factor as these are things that should have before children with out the expectation of them helping with those things. |
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the family probably could use counsel on how to 'talk' with each other and find better ways to resolve things I think they tried that the first time she did it. Lol they point is the parents did not listen and start doing things equally. parents who are WORKING TO PROVIDE are not 'relaxing' , children need to learn a family is a unit where everyone CONTRIBUTES for the household to run smoothly
if the parents are WORKING to pay the bills, the children(and by this I mean TEENS who EXPECT Everything handed to them) should be WORKING to maintain the other responsibilities in the home,,, The point is the parents were not contributing, they have work she has school, and it's their duty to support her. she should do no more then them. have you ever worked to provide for a household and children before? lol I doubt she is doing 'more than them' I am a single father of 2 who works very hard to provide for his children. Her parents relax while she cleans and fetches coffee, do they bring her coffee? |
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the family probably could use counsel on how to 'talk' with each other and find better ways to resolve things I think they tried that the first time she did it. Lol they point is the parents did not listen and start doing things equally. parents who are WORKING TO PROVIDE are not 'relaxing' , children need to learn a family is a unit where everyone CONTRIBUTES for the household to run smoothly
if the parents are WORKING to pay the bills, the children(and by this I mean TEENS who EXPECT Everything handed to them) should be WORKING to maintain the other responsibilities in the home,,, The point is the parents were not contributing, they have work she has school, and it's their duty to support her. she should do no more then them. |
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I tell my kids all the time that I'm keeping a running tab for them and they have to pay me back for everything when they grow up.
hat is a parents right, we don't want to be put in homes after all lol Sponge baths and beatings are kinda kinky but not when their from a guy named Bruno lol. well ok that can be kinky too. |
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He spends $130 on a laptop that is worth $$$ and then shoots it 
That tells a story on its own. yeah tells me He has no respect for money, and is kinda immature. But he wants the daughter to pay him back for his ridiculous actions. Are we alone here in thinking like this?? I must add here that the daughter is not free of bad actions but when you see the reaction of the Father one has to ask a lot of Questions The daughter is not perfect no, I am sure she is like any other girl her age. if i was his son, I might have given him his bullets back in his computer. |
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