cougar is an older person that is out to get someone younger

Unfortunately those selfish people think they can have their cake and eat it too. they cheat in hopes of getting away with it. If they cared even a little about the hearts of the person they were cheating on they wouldn't cheat in the first place

I would imagine the 10 ten reason women cheat are pretty similair to the top 10 reasons men cheat. A cheater is gonna cheat no matter what, ony real question is what was their excuse this time...

Don't push things, it will happen when it is erady to happen and you can't force it to happen any sooner. unfortunately in todays society you are gonna find alot of superficial people. Just try to hold your own and weed them out in the meantime.

If you realize you can't stand superficial people try looking for the early warning signs right from the get go and if you see them don't let yourself start growing attached... even if they are hot you know it is only gonna end one way.

Whatever you do don't try to think you can change someone... it doesnt work and I am still not sure why people put in so much effort to try.

Look your still young you have plenty of time to meet Mr. right and chances are unless you have een dating older men, the guys you have loved so far are still children. Give it some time you will find the right one

It's not that it is weird to be innocent it is just getting to be very uncommon in today's society.

If it is somehting you feel strongly about just let your friends know that this is who you are and it is not going to change. I have had friends try to corrupt other friends (I have tried corrupting some as well). For us the most common reason we pushed was not because they had strong moral objections, it was just that they were scared, so we pushed to help them overcome their fears (A little corruption is usually a good thing for most).

So if you have good reasons for wanting to stay innocent explain them and your friends should back off, if they don't after you have explained everything... take a step back and try to see why they are really pushing it... maybe they have a point you havent noticed or maybe they just don't see your point. either way being open and honest is the only way to stop them from pushing you, that or giving in and being corrupted but the latter doesnt seem to fit you.

That would depend on alot of things.
1) how far away are they, we talking a couple hours or a plane ride?

2)Have we just been exchanging messages and they said something like, hey you should come down? or has this been going on for awhile you have been talking on the phone and thigns are really going well?

3)Am I traveling down for a visit to just hang out and enjoy or is their a serious chance at a relationship if we hit it off in person?

I would also like to clarify just a little from the multiple post I have seen about guys being a "one woman guy" I consider myself a one woman man myself and have never cheated on anyone.

I was just saying that if you go on one date with someone there is no commitment at that point, there should be nothign stopping you from taking someone else out later. Once you start seeing someone and things get a little more serious then talk about commitment and never stray.

They key thing is sometimes its hard to meet the right person and if you go on one date and refuse to see anyone else until that one "ends" you could be missing out on oppertunities.

I say give it a shot. Not everyone dates three people but in the beggining stages of dating you are just trying to get to know each other. There really isn't any commitment at that point yet so there is no real reason you shouldn't be open to dating other people.

The thing is you can't date three people for very long. as things develope past the getting to know each other stage you will see things working better with some than others and will usually narrow themselves down naturally. As long as you are upfront with the guys you are dating and they know you aren't committed to just them for now have at it meet some people and enjoy. Thats why its just dating and not a relationship.

Be warned it sounds like alot of fun but at least from personal experience it is not all its cracked up to be. Most people have trouble dealing with a single relationship, you start trying to make 3 of them work and things get really difficuilt, but it can be a fun rewarding way to see what you like about each guy and compare to find the one who is really right for you.

Ahh sorry never saw those most of the ones I saw were fairly mild or encouraging so i thought she was referring to me. If they were nasty I am glad they are gone now you should enver put someone down for asking for help.

Given honest criticism isn't really being mean. What I feel is worse is lying to someone and not offering the help they asked for. Since MrGRuff had the courage to ask for help in a public forum he is recieving it and I am sure his profile will be pulling in the ladies in no time.

McGruff sorry if you took anything I said personally just trying to help, meant nothing against it.

I am not attacking you but I have read at least 4 or 5 post about people who hate when you type like a 5 year old with "I am looking '4' some advice on whaat '2' do" your an adult and women tend to respect when you act like one, if you talk like an adolescent there are going to assume you are, which is mostly likely an unfait impression but when there are this many profiles to read through most people are quick to blow you off and move onto the next one if they see anythnig at all they dislike.

The problem for some (or at least me) is that all of us aren't gifted with their use of words. I am an engineer, I like math and science and logic. Writing has never been easy for me and I am sure my profile is just blah. This is there is so much to a person thats it hard what you want to highlight about yourself. No one is any one way or the other. take me I am a computer geek, I love watching movies and dvds and sitting around at home playing video games. On the other side I love to get out and do exciting things, I have been bungee jumping, cliff diving and sky diving and I am on a Gaelic football team. When you try and list everything most people sound like a contradiction but when you only focus on one side of your life you miss out on those that enjoy the other side. It really comes down to what kind of mood your in when you write the profile I guess.

Well like Mossop said if the drinks are free then you have more to spend on a cab assuming its not a rediculous cab ride to get there. Anyway don't force it, if you force yourself to you won't have as much fun. If you want to go and its not too much work have at it, if not there is always next time. I personally have not slept in 36 hours and spent 16 straight working on a research paper so I need a drink if my body can stay awake long enough

We live in a civilized society there is no longer any reason mother nature should get in the way of our fun. I say grab a couple of friends together, make sure one of them is driving then you don't even have to worry about it. You should never turn down a chance for some good fun with good friends.... expecially when there is free drinks invloved :)

This week could not have been over soon enough. I can wait until next weekend though when everything starts to calm down a little and I have time to enjoy the holidays with friends and family. Hope everyones week is going better than mine and a Merry Christmas/late Chanakha/ and any other pc religion I may have misssed, and for the atheist out there just have a good weekend.

If you're not sure how much to see her try feeling her out (not in that way). Invite her out a few times a week see if she likes it, see if she starts making excuses, and if she does don't freak out sometimes people are just busy. There really aren't any rules in love. As long as you are seeing her enough that you both feel appreceated and not so often you lose touch with all your other friends thats fine.

If you think you are trying to see her too much, try backing off just a little bit and see if she initiates a date with you. Everyone likes to be pursued but it should be give and take, you shouldn't be the one initiaiting dates all the time.

I know how it can be when you like someone and want to be with them all the time but everyone needs time without. Its the absense of someone we care about that helps us realize how much we really care.

Then last of all after a bunch of strangers give you advice (even if its good advice) talk to your girl. Open communication is the key to a great relationship. You don't have to come out and pour your heart out all at once and scare the girl but next time your hanging out tell her you like spending time with her and you would like to do it more. If shes a good girl and you're honest about it she should tell you how she feels and you won't have to spend your time worrying about it. Trust me I have been there and there is nothing worse then questioning your every move so relax I am sure things are better than you think.

Sounds like the volume up button is stuck. that would explain why if you tried to turn it down it went back up and why the vaolume evel is always on display. that can be as simple as the button is jammed in, and if wiggled may come up, or it could be more serious like a loose wire in which case you will have to get a professional to take a look at it. hope that helps.