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Wed 12/12/07 09:51 AM
To me it sounds as if you were both into the same things until you got pregnant. Maybe or maybe not you changed your lifestyle as far as "partying" goes that's not the issue I think though. Having children takes two not so adults, and is the not a good enough reason to stay in a bad relationship. In fact trying to force the issue may make things worse between the two of you. But it is good that he wants to be a part of your child's life in whatever capacity he's thinking, but make sure it's not just to get back into your life but the child's.

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Wed 12/12/07 09:45 AM

ok... i'm 18 years old and still in high school, well i met someone on myspace, she is 26, divorced, and has 2 kids. Well, last night i met her and went to her house, we didnt do anything we just sat there and watched t.v. and talked a little, we werent even cuddling or ne thing. Well, i ended up sleeping in her bed, but nothing happened, i woke up a few times and i eventually just put my arm around her and went back to sleep. I think i was intimidated by her, b/c of the age difference, and the fact that she already has 2 kids. I've never really been with someone that much older than I, and i'm wondering if last night she was expecting something out of me, b/c i dont really know her that well, but yet, she was willing to drive 45 min to meet me, and let me stay at her house, and sleep in her bed. Should i be intimidated by the age? How should i treat her, should i treat her like i would any girl my age, or differently? I really like this girl..well.. woman, but for some reason i feel like i may have left her unsatisfied?
I don't think you were really that intimidated by her age, I think you were subconsciensly waiting for her to make the first move because you aren't as experienced as she is. And she wouldn't let you anywhere near those kids if she didn't like you, so treat her like a lady and if you don't know how to do that you're in trouble bro.

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Wed 12/12/07 09:38 AM
Knights of the Old Republic -n-Mass Effect is pretty tight too.

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Wed 12/12/07 09:36 AM


Because just like boys, girls from the age of say 16 to 23 are still exploring their bodies and are mostly looking for experiences with different partners. As for maturity, it depends on the individual. But in my experience girls are usually still playing their games until about 25 or they've been screwed over so many times they either turn lesbian or settle down.


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Funny but aint I right though?:wink:

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Wed 12/12/07 09:29 AM
Because just like boys, girls from the age of say 16 to 23 are still exploring their bodies and are mostly looking for experiences with different partners. As for maturity, it depends on the individual. But in my experience girls are usually still playing their games until about 25 or they've been screwed over so many times they either turn lesbian or settle down.

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Tue 12/11/07 09:00 PM
This is serious biz right here.. I have an older brother who pays child support and his B.M. can't stand him so she won't let any of my family see the kids, also from Pa. The way I see it is if you really want and deserve to see your children than you'll need to go to court for set visitation from the door so that there is no confusing the monetary and the visitation issues. If the court orders that he or she is responsible enough with or without supervision than that person has every legal right to see their children. Just my opinion.

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Tue 12/11/07 08:14 PM
I think most people who do run when they hear those words are intimidated by the prospects of facing their feelings one way or the other. Some people who are not interested in going in that deep just back off when confronted by such up front honesty.Man or woman. Me personally, I like to hear it if it's true, but all too often it's just something people say to get you to drop your guard, then take advantage of the situation.

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Tue 12/11/07 11:48 AM
The Rebel INS

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