why sign up if u were not wanting to meet someone!

we talked tonight
and discussed things we are good to go

the moon alice

i like it but have'nt watched it in weeks.

aim is for the kiddies

my turn offs are smoking. its huge and lieing about doing hard core drugs. posting pics of u ten yrs prior or 200lbs lighter. i mean come on.

yes i have met 2 so far

i think u just need different wives for different things.

its perfectly ok

i would say 80% of the relationships i have had were normal.

whats a committed relationship consist on . alot of people have different thoughts

jistme. ty u for ur post . sometimes examples are good to read and to learn. I think alot of us run into new experiences everyday.
well i decided after losing sleep the past few days over this just to end it before it goes any futher. If she needs any help in away down the road. as a friend of course i will help.
i just need a more normal relationship. hey we all need different things here.



theres a ton of people here who are selfish about how much money there living standards are. or what car they should drive. or how tall someone should be. or the xfactor how much someone should way. now none of those things are important to me. i like to see people from the inside. but I just need a normal relationship.

best post of the day. u are right on most things. smother god no. not even close . well i like to talk to her atleast once a day. anywhere from just a hi or a convo. its not like i call her all day or anything i call and if she does'nt answer i leave a message. i don't call back till that message is returned. so one day i called and did'nt hear from her for 2 days then i get a message from her asking why i'm not talking to her?

now i'm defending myself alot of ur opinions are way off based. I'm not going to list everything in the relationship. or lack of. I just believe in principles. i will give u an example.


when i was 18 i told my gf at the time i would pick her up at work. i went to my car and it would'nt start it was dead. so she lived 5 miles away. i walked in a snowstorm borrowed her parents car and picked her up.mind u i had to walk the 5 miles to get there. but i told her i would pick her up. when u tell someone u will call them u call them. reliability is huge for me. so u can say what ever u want saying i'm shallow etc bla bla bla. thats fine.


now once in while a miss call i'll let slide but a common occurences is just rude.

i did alot of thinking last night. i been making alot of exceptions of planning my time schedule for her. where as i had plans before. then to be blown off by her. I decided life is to short. I need to find someone else. this relationship reminds me of someone dating in another state far away. and this is not.

thats what i think she doesn't have time for one.

hey thats pretty good. I like that. now that won't sound selfish right?

thats what I'm stumbled on what to say to her. I don't want to sound selfish at all so what should I say?

Im man enough to see other people's point of view I'm not narrowminded. I figured I would ask u nice fine people for some advice. Now If i asked my guy friends . their response is alot different.

I had to look up empathy

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empathy


I think u ladies are correct I can admit i can be selfish and thats why i posted before I made any rash and stupid actions.