If you were given a control with a big red button on that would instantly transport you into a different dimension would you p...,..............

the bungee is too short; that's why.

Humm myself men/women are only scumbags if you let them be that way towards you..

Men/Women have their faults~~~

No matter what we all have issues..

If one tolerates it they will continue... funny how some treat others bad till they find out that they will not tolerate it..

One needs to walk away when it happens and not let it eat them up inside thinking that all are that way~~~jmo

Humm myself men/women are only scumbags if you let them be that way towards you..

Men/Women have their faults~~~

No matter what we all have issues..

If one tolerates it they will continue... funny how some treat others bad till they find out that they will not tolerate it..

One needs to walk away when it happens and not let it eat them up inside thinking that all are that way~~~jmo

I've found that lots of people who behave "boorishly," (as I learned to call it in England) is that they never make it to the end-of-childhood recognition that not everyone assumes exactly the same things about everything.

So they think, for example, that if a woman signs up for a dating site, or goes to a party by herself, or walks down the street while dressed nicely, that it could ONLY mean that she is desperate for any guy to show serious interest. So they do so, in the only way they learned how (often without any redesign since elementary school), and if the woman fails to respond positively, they lash out angrily and accuse her of purposeful deception.

Often, this kind of guy is actually shy, but in a not-at-all charming way. They become angry upon being rejected, because they are EMBARRASSED, and as with many embarrassed people, their first urge is to blame the other person, not themselves. So they'll attack the individual if they can, and if they still have energy left, they'll often latch onto whatever popular "whipping boy" concept they see lying around. They'll declare that Women's Rights caused all women to be devious shrews and gold diggers; that Me Too is an insidious plot to keep them alone and lonely; and so on.

And yes, women aren't immune to the same general conditions. But no one person's bad behavior or maladjustment to adulthood excuses any other person's failures or errors.

I said..*if* they have their partner's supposed permission to fool around..then it should be OK for someone who is going to engage in sex with them to verify that fact with said partner....and, if they don't allow you to do that, then the other partner has no clue and there is something shady going on..
Sorry you misunderstood....

Well, there are women, who beat up their partner as well, humiliate him, verbally abuse him, etc. I know what I am talking about.

Well, if it is due to their partner's health or some such..and their partner has truly given them "permission"..then here should be no problem with me speaking to her to verify this, right?
Just to make sure everything is on the level/ above board..

Otherwise, you are clearly hiding something, and THAT is dishonest.

I was married to some evil witch, I learnt my lesson. Being evil and nasty is part of human life, and not confined to a gender.

Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more

it depends on the previous exchange.

...thank goodness guys don't usually have to put up with women harassing us for sex instead of really really serious relationships.

I know this is redundant to say but watch some meditation videos on youtube plug in some earphones and drift to sleep... helps doesn't do the job but it is soothing none the less and truth is finding that small amount of peace to get through life...