Community > Posts By > single_mommy_b
drugs inhance bad tempers too .... oh ill leave it at that....ill just say this.... and not go into detail... once the kids are bruised that is where u draw the line..... im sure when u reject him u will hear the spew of no one will want u cause u have a baby... and then the emotional beat down will start happening first..... that u are fat or whatever.... my gawd i was 5'4 and 120 lbs i was fat..... funny how i beleived it for 20 yrs later the sad part is i can just picture him doing the same... and it takes a strong person to go through that and im not ready for that i just dont know how to keep him away, well he can still visit his son if he wants... supervised... but he thinks because i have his child that im his or whatever and he is a nice guy at times but my son deserves better so how do i tell him i dnt want to be with him without him going off the hook?? |
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Edited by
single_mommy_b
on
Wed 12/12/07 08:16 AM
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maybe he needs a place to live too? thats not it... he has a place with his cousin. so yeah... |
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he says he works construction but i havent seen anything from it he hasnt even bought him diapers or helped out with medical bills or anything! i am thinking about having a talk with him he just has a really bad temper and i dont know how he will react to this expecially if hes high... so IDK!
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well he keeps telling me that he dosent have a reason to change rite now but if i get back with him hed have a family and a reason to change but i just cant chance it! and as for the visits i dont trust him to be alone with him yet so yes i told him he can come to my house whenever he wants but our son is 6 months old and he has chose to see him 3 times... i just dont believe a word he says but my family and friends are pressuring me to give him a chance, yes i still have feelings for him but im thinkin of my sons future! thanks for the advice everyone
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ok when i was with my sons father i was more of the partier type but once i got prego i changed and broke up with his dad because i didnt think he could change. well we didnt talk practically the whole pregnancy and he didnt see our son till he was 3 mos old, but now he is coming around a little more and keeps asking me to give him another chance but he is still on the same level as he was with the drugs and stuff so i just dont know what i should do because i know that it would be good for my son if his parents were together but it would be terrible for him to grow up with his dads lifestyle... any advice???
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Topic:
Kiss Or Run - part 2
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yay me lolz
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Topic:
Kiss Or Run - part 2
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hug
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o my gosh what a cutie! i totally want a girl next lolz
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uhh... scotty lolz
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i am my own normal lolz deal with it ha ha jk
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Topic:
Condom Sizing
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thats funny
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its me lolz!
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good luck finding a man... or even a female that doesn't go by looks but we all have our own opinion on what attractive is!
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take
shopping... and mayb the spa lolz |
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hug!!
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Topic:
the person above is sexy
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10 lolz we are milfs lolz hell yeah
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Topic:
the person above is sexy
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um.... 5? idk lolz
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Topic:
THE DAM GAME.........
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damn my son is teething... but hes soooo cute its ok
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most likely tease neanderthalDave lolz or so you think ha ha... |
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most likely tease neanderthalDave lolz
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