It's up to you! Only you can tell if he's worth the effort.

Think about those days you decided to not talk. Did you keep thinking about him? Or did you find it hard to go through the day knowing you won't be having your little chat with him.

All I know is, only you know for sure. And that it doesn't hurt to try something that you think will make you happy.

Based on what I have read, seems that frustration has settled in and you are now wondering if this is worth it. Here is the thing, and hopefully with the few days to think without talking to him, you will get an idea on what you want to do. Right now, do you feel it is worth it to meet him? Has the conversations you have had led you to believe that he is someone that you are feeling a small connection with? Do both of you feel the same about meeting, and based on the convos, are you close to being sure that he is being honest? Like someone mentioned, you can't tell what can or will be with someone until you meet them in person. Once you see them, and observe them, and get to know them in person, then you can start to guage where you are at with him and he can guage where he is at with you. I think that should you guys decide to meet, and since you live so far away, that maybe meeting at a neutral spot would be in order. Put you guys on a level playing field, so to speak.

i know that sometimes the distance can be a problem for some people. i have traveled half way around the world but that is me. if you both agreed to not talk for a few days and both of yall miss talking then maybe you should meet. but meet in a safe open public place. talk and learn more about each other because things really are different online than in real life. be ready for happiness and sorrow. in the end the decision is yours alone but caution is always a good thing. i hope that helps