LOL both of u ladies are funny and I agree with ya both that's just hilarious

me so sorry

Yes there is but u gotta admitt they can put a smile on ur face

Its all about training and the funny thing is is most cats dnt need trainging they automatically use the litter box ... there's dogs that use the bathroom inside as well.. just sayin!!
neither is smartter its all about the person's preference.. A dog person is gonna say a dog is smartter and vice versa

Thank u everyone 4 the warm welcomes

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Howdy & Thank u

Bipolar is a mental disease that autmatically ppl wanna lable as "CRAZY" and over half of the population (women especially) suffer from it. But just like in all situations, we're all diff ppl and we all react to things diff.!! Just sayin no two ppl are gonna act, react or be the same at ANYTHING!!! Just know that u are deff not crazy although it can honestly make u feel as if u are and if ur not too careful and don't get the proper treatment it can mess things up in ur life such as relationships with friends, family, ect.
There are diff forms of it... I know it's alot to read but I figure this may be helpful for ya;



From the time Tracy was in early adolescence, she had “hyper” spells for several days at a time. She would read two or three books at once, cook large quantities of food even though she normally did not like to cook, and go on buying sprees. At first, Tracy’s family thought this was normal adolescent behavior. But after awhile they began to notice that Tracy had low spells after her hyper periods. She stayed in her room for several days and refuse to talk to anyone. Her cycles became more intense and frequent until Tracy was finally hospitalized for a suicide attempt during one of her depressed periods.

In another case, John started displaying an extremely high level of energy, began sleeping less than three hours nightly, and started talking excitedly about some big plans and ideas with nearly everyone he met. One night he started running at 1:00 A.M. and ran until he was so exhausted that he fell down and injured himself. Then he stayed up the rest of the night writing 100 pages of fiction that he was convinced would be published. The next morning he did not feel tired.

Tracy and John were both suffering from bipolar disorder—one of the most perplexing and severe psychiatric adjustment conditions, and one that can cause incredible suffering for the individual and his friends and family.

Formerly known as manic depression, bipolar disorder gets its name from the unpredictable mood swings ranging from the pole of extreme highs (mania) to the pole of deep lows (depression).

Imagine the emotional high you feel after a very positive event—like receiving an award at work, falling in love, or reaching the top of a mountain you’ve climbed. Then multiply the intensity of that feeling three or four times, speed it up to “fast forward,” triple your energy level, and imagine feeling that way around the clock for days, weeks, or even months until you collapse from exhaustion. This is a little of what mania feels like.

"At least one person of every one hundred suffers from bipolar disorder."

What’s the problem with having so much energy? here’s the problem: First, you are probably doing a lot of exaggerated, unwise things during your manic state. Many of your ideas are unrealistic and your perpetual motion and excited, exaggerated talking tend to alienate even the best of friends. Second, your high to end. When it does, you come crashing into deep depression. Ten to fifteen percent of people with bipolar disorder end up committing suicide. Tracy, for example, whom we introduced at the beginning of this booklet, became suicidally depressed after she came down from a manic episode. “There’s no hope,” she said. “My mood swings just get worse and worse, and I’ll never have a normal life.” She lost interest in most things and slept through of the day, finally trying to “end it all.”

At least one person of every one hundred suffers from bipolar disorder. The illness typically begins in the late teens or early twenties with men most likely to first have an episode of mania, and women more likely to first experience a depressive phase. The earlier bipolar disorder begins, the more severe the course of the disorder tends to be.
Unmanaged bipolar disorder wreaks havoc in one’s personal, vocational, and family life, and the symptoms recur throughout a person’s life. Over a ten-year period, people with bipolar disorder experience an average of four episodes and five hospitalizations. Even those who have few repeated crises can experience significant ongoing problems between full-blown episodes.

The good news is that bipolar disorder is one of the most treatable of mental disturbances and not all people suffering serious mood swings fall into the extreme disturbances of bipolar disorder. Some suffer from cyclothymic disorder, a less severe problem with fluctuating moods that last for shorter periods and are much less debilitating.

Although bipolar disorder causes significant disruption in the sufferer’s life, many people with mild to moderate forms of the disorder are exceptionally creative and forceful leaders. In fact, some of history’s most influential figures have been retrospectively judged to have suffered from bipolar disorder or some other closely related emotional disorder. Among them are political figures like Winston Churchill, Daniel Webster and Benito Mussolini. Religious leaders like Joseph Smith (founder of Mormonism), William Cowper (poet and hymnwriter), and C.T. Studd (founder of the student missionary movement) all seem to have suffered from bipolar disorder.

MANIA:

People in a “manic episode” are excessively elated, irritable, moody, and energetic. They have little need for sleep (two to three hours per night is common), have rapid and pressured speech, racing thoughts, and may jump abruptly to unrelated topics without transitions. They are also distractible and impulsive. Some drive recklessly. Others go on wild spending sprees, running up thousands of dollars on credit cards or bouncing check after check. Many have an exaggerated sense of their importance and abilities.

In milder manic episodes, the increased energy, rapid thinking, and limited need for sleep can temporarily lead to incredible productivity. People can also become extremely outgoing and sociable and may be convinced that they are brilliant conversationalists or the life of the party.

In severe manic episodes, people with bipolar disorder become psychotic; that is, their thought processes and ability to judge reality are radically impaired. They may begin by being slightly overconfident about their abilities, eventually becoming convinced that they can predict the future or run the country. Sometimes Christians in a manic phase may stop their regular responsibilities and intensely read the Bible or talk to one person after another about God for hours and hours.

Jerry, for example, ran a small but successful shoe store for nearly ten years. Then he entered a manic state and started making grandiose plans for expanding his business. He was convinced he had a plan that would corner the market in his entire state, and probably the entire United States. He rented space for two dozen more stores and ordered tens of thousands of pairs of shoes before his family could stop him. Fortunately, his wife was able to make arrangements to nullify the new building leases and return the shoes to the manufacturer before the family and the business went completely bankrupt!

The elevated, expansive mood that is part of bipolar disorder is often difficult to diagnose at first. Many people think a manic person is simply a very happy, high-energy, elated person. They do not recognize that the mania may also cause the person to be paranoid, irritable, and excessively intense. Mild mania is easily confused with normal mood fluctuations.

Like Tracy, some people with the disorder have to see many different doctors over a period of several years before someone diagnoses the real cause of their problems.
Depression

Depressive episodes of bipolar illness are characterized by the opposite of the manic pole of the emotional continuum. People in depressive episodes feel sad and depressed. They have low energy levels, an increase or decrease in sleep, loss of interest in enjoyable activities, feelings of worthlessness, difficulty concentrating, and suicidal thoughts. Christians in a depressed state typically feel incredibly guilty and self-condemning and may be convinced that God couldn’t love them or that they have lost their salvation.

"Some people with the disorder have to see many different doctors over a period of several years before someone diagnoses the real cause."

Some typically alternate between the extreme moods of mania, depression and normality. Occasionally, however, both the mania and depression are experienced at the same time. This is referred to as a “mixed episode.” Such an episode is characterized by irritability, anxiety, feelings of worthlessness, and sometimes suicidal thoughts accompanied by high energy and activity levels, decreased sleep, and impulsive behavior. Mixed episodes can be extremely dangerous if the person is suicidal, because the manic symptoms may give a person enough energy to carry out the suicide plans which the depression has triggered.

FAMILY STRESS:

Both manic and depressive episodes place incredible stress on friends and family. Since people in a manic state can be unreasonable, emotional, and impulsive, family members fear they will do something hurtful or disastrous. They may get the family into serious debt, have several affairs, quit their jobs, and engage in other foolish behavior. Family members of those in a depressed state can become extremely frustrated when, time after time, their efforts to support and encourage them are rejected and rebuffed.

CAUSES:

Currently, we do not have a clear understanding of precisely what causes bipolar disorder. The higher frequency of bipolar disorder among first degree relatives, however, strongly suggests a genetic basis as a major, if not the major factor in causing the disorder. Coupled with this genetic predisposition may be other physiological factors, as well as long-standing emotional conflicts.

From a spiritual perspective, while all human problems ultimately stem from the disobedience of Adam and Eve which brought sin and evil into society and into individual’s lives, there does not appear to be any particular sin problems in the lives most of people suffering from bipolar disorder. Many fine Christians struggle for much of their lives with this distressing difficulty.

When Christians suffer from bipolar illness, they usually experience major shifts in their spiritual life. During manic states they can be excited and extra visionary, throwing themselves into Bible study, witnessing, or ministry with nearly superhuman effort. They are sure that God has given them a special plan. Then, during depressed states, they become lethargic, guilt-ridden, and even hopeless about having a relationship with God at all.

MEDICAL TREATMENT:

One of the most difficult things about treating bipolar disorder is that there is no complete “cure.” However, while bipolar disorder is difficult to deal with, it is also true that this problem can usually be effectively managed with proper professional care over the long term. Medication, psychotherapy, and lifestyle changes minimize and overcome the most devastating effects of this disorder and enable the sufferers to generally live normal lives at home, work, school, and church. Treatment, however, must be planned for the rest of a person’s life, and it nearly always involves taking medication for many years. Although this can be difficult for bipolar patients and their family members to accept, it is absolutely essential.

The current drug treatments for bipolar disorder typically include what are referred to as mood stabilizers—usually lithium carbonate, divalproex sodium (Depakote), or carbamazepine (Tegretol). Depending on a number of factors such as the specifics of the person’s symptoms and the stage of the disorder, the physician may also prescribe antipsychotic, antidepressant, or antianxiety medication.

While medications do not work perfectly, they help a substantial percentage of people. Approximately 50 to 70 percent of people in a manic state are helped by lithium. Unfortunately, many bipolar patients don’t stay on their medications. Some miss the “high” they experienced during manic episodes and want to return to a state in which they felt on top of the world. Others are bothered by unpleasant side effects like weight gain, memory or concentration problems, and tremors. Others who begin to feel better assume they do not need to continue with medication, and quit without consulting their physician.

One of the most helpful things family members can do for a person suffering from a bipolar disorder is to help him keep taking his medication. If you are close to someone with this disorder, encourage him or her to begin or continue psychotherapy and learn to deal with these issues. This will help the person accept dependence on medication and treatment—which could be life-saving.

One of the critical issues at the beginning of treatment is to address any drug abuse. Fifty to sixty-five percent of people with bipolar disorder abuse drugs—usually stimulants like cocaine or amphetamines, or depressants such as alcohol. They use these drugs for several reasons—especially to recreate the “high” of a manic episode, or to relieve their depression. Drug use may also be caused by the impulsive pleasure-seeking of a manic episode. Good treatment always includes attention to drug abuse because it will sabotage any efforts to manage the disorder.

"Medication, psychotherapy and lifestyle changes minimize and overcome the most devastating effects of this disorder and generally enable the sufferers to live normal lives at home, work, school."

PSYCHOTHERAPY:

Psychotherapy is an essential complement to medical treatment for people with bipolar disorder. Professional counseling helps patients deal with the emotional problems and stressors that trigger the onset of manic or depressive episodes. It can also resolve many of the unstable relational problems, internal struggles, and depressive moods that accompany acute phases of the disorder. Medication alone does not have nearly the positive effect as medication combined with good, long-term, ongoing psychotherapy.

LIFESTYLE CHANGES:

In addition to working closely with a psychiatrist, being faithful in taking prescribed medication and receiving psychotherapy, there are several lifestyle changes that can help people manage their bipolar disorder:

Abstain from the use of all drugs or alcohol. Stimulants can trigger a depressed bipolar person to flip into a manic episode, while sedatives can trigger a depressive phase.

Get regular sleep. Bipolar disorder is closely tied to a person’s core body rhythms. While a manic episode can change a person’s sleep patterns, changes in sleep can also trigger a manic episode.

Minimize caffeine intake. This can also indirectly trigger a manic episode.

Educate oneself and one’s family about the disorder. Then work together to prevent stresses that trigger recurrences.

Discuss with family members ahead of time a plan of action. It helps to deal with future episodes ahead of time. This is done most effectively when the bipolar person’s insight and judgment are not impaired during the middle of an acute manic episode.

Join a support group. This should include both close Christian friends who can offer regular spiritual support, and a support group with other individuals with bipolar disorders along with and their family members. Since people with bipolar disorders often feel that no one understands their mood swings and erratic behavior, support from others who have had similar experiences can be very helpful.
People suffering from bipolar disorders can go through periods of incredible suffering, as can their families. With competent, thorough, and consistent counseling, medication, and practical lifestyle choices, however, they can lead very successful and meaningful lives.

Frequently Asked Questions About Bipolar Disorder

1. What causes it? Physiological factors appear to play the most important role in causing bipolar disorder. There is some evidence of a genetic link. Emotional factors, however, such as excessive stress and loss of close relationships, can trigger the disorder.

2. Can it be cured? There is no absolute cure for bipolar illness. Most sufferers, however, can remain relatively symptom free if they comply rigidly with their medical regime, receive competent, ongoing psychotherapy by a therapist who understands the depth issues of the disorder, and adjust their lifestyle (e.g. absolutely no alcohol or non-prescription drugs).

3. Can a person with bipolar disorder keep his/her job? By all means. People who are compliant with medications, continue psychotherapy, and adjust their lifestyle are able to live normally for most of their lives. If or when they do have recurrences, family understanding and proper medication can generally restabilize them in a relatively short period of time.

4. Does bipolar illness involve demon possession? No. Many committed Christians suffer from bipolar disorder and, like non-Christians, they respond to medications like lithium carbonate. When a person responds to medications, that is clear evidence that the problem is physical or emotional—not a matter of demon possession.

5. Are there any side effects of the medical treatments for bipolar disorder? Yes, there often are. But the consequences of not taking medication may literally be death by suicide or impulsive, dangerous behavior. The person must stay on his or her medication.

6. How long does it take for medication to work? Often within one week of beginning treatment. On lithium carbonate, however, as with many medications, it may take much longer to find precisely the correct dosage. The correct dosage is the one that provides optimal relief of symptoms with a minimum of side effects.

7. How can psychotherapy help? First, by helping patients understand the disorder and learn the importance of taking medication regularly. Second, by helping patients accept themselves with their disorder. Illnesses such as bipolar disorder can tear at one’s self-esteem and make one feel lonely, isolated, and cut off from others. Third, by helping patients grow stronger emotionally, and learn to regulate their moods and handle the conflicts and stresses that can precipitate an acute phase of the disorder. Psychotherapy can also assist patients and their families to deal with family struggles better and to work together to control the patients’ illnesses.

"People suffering from bipolar illnesses and their family members can receive great strength from their faith in Christ as well as their dependence on the Word of God. Christian fellowship also provides much-needed support."

8. How can I help a family member with bipolar illness? Get professional help for that person as soon as you see a manic or depressive episode coming on. Help him or her comply with medical treatment. Be patient and encourage that person to accept him/herself with the disorder. Pray for him. If your family member becomes suicidal or a danger to himself or others, get help immediately from the police or other crisis team.

9. Can’t God heal bipolar illness? Yes, He can. But He rarely does that apart from medication and the counseling and personal growth that comes from facing one’s suffering. People suffering from bipolar illnesses and their family members can receive great strength from their faith in Christ as well as their dependence on the Word of God.

Christian fellowship also provides much-needed support. The result is that patients can grow incredibly by learning to accept and face their suffering as part of living in a fallen, sinful world. They can also learn to help others as a result of out of their own suffering. And they can have lasting hope that the best of life is yet to come—life in eternity with our Heavenly Father. Faith, in other words, can help people live well with their disorder.

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Neither is actually smarter than the other, it's all about the person's preferrence!
Ecah of these creatures are very intellegent! The thing to keep in mind is that cat's are very finicky and choose who they want to allow themselves to get close to and when they want to do it where dogs are more open to be people lover's all the way around.
Neither animal is dumb, they're just like us humans; they have their own personalities

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Never have been on this site.. Kinda wondering if it's really ligit. If ya wanna talk hit me up