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Tue 11/18/08 04:40 AM

Love is it truly about you or them?

Is loving someone about how they make You feel about Yourself, or is it about loving that person for who they are?


It is about both of you. Love is never one sided. It should be mutual and definitely about loving them for who they are, not about how they make you feel. Feelings fade, love is a roller coaster of ups and downs. It is when it withstands those roller coasters that you know it is true and will last. You should be confident in who you are as a person on your own and not depend on another for happiness.

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Tue 11/18/08 04:37 AM


ask him politely to sep off your headnoway
how long has it been since you sorta told him how you feel? maybe he hasnt talked to you yet because he is torn between you and the woman he is on and off yet and isnt sure what he wants.
i would call him or text him and just ask him how he is doing.


I told him a few days ago, and I've text him and asked if he was ok with what I told him etc. He said he doesn't know what to do..so I think he's torn also. It's probably a shock to have your best friend tell you they want to be with you. If it's meant to be it'll happen...if not I'll be here crying to you guys laugh

I don't want to call and come across all clingy and pathetic. I'm kinda leaving the actual phone call to him


I went through the same situation with my best friend. It is not easy at all. I watched him go through girl after girl while I pined away. I finally told him and he rejected me. Unfortunately it put a damper on our relationship after that. I wish for you, the best of luck!flowerforyou

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Tue 11/18/08 04:28 AM

How many of you have actually considered yourself in a relationship with someone you haven't met in person?

I myself couldn't consider it because often people aren't what you expect when you finally meet face to face.


I did it a few times. One time was exactly what I needed at that time. He made me smile and truly melted my heart with every word that he wrote. In the end, I needed something I could touch. It just wasn't enough. Makes me sad, because his heart touched mine greatly and I will always have a place for him deep down.flowerforyou

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Tue 11/18/08 04:25 AM
Very sweet hon! Good luck on your search for that girl!flowerforyou

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Tue 11/18/08 04:20 AM
I am soo sorry that I fell asleep last night! I hate when I miss out on talking to you! Makes me quite unhappy! Miss you sweetie and can't wait to talk to you today!flowerforyou

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Tue 11/18/08 04:19 AM

good morning ((buffy)) hope you start feeling better :smile: flowerforyou


Thanks grammy! Good morning to you! And I hope everyone has a great day!:heart:

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Tue 11/18/08 04:10 AM
I find it easier to find someone new to focus on, lol. But that's just me!flowerforyou

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Tue 11/18/08 04:06 AM


Good morning sweetie! I'm sick as a dog, so I feel ya on needing more sleep!flowerforyou
Sorry to hear that you are sick I hope that oyu feel better soonflowerforyou


Thanks...hope so too. I start the phones this week and have a sore throat. Sucky ass timing, I tell ya!grumble

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Tue 11/18/08 03:59 AM
Good morning sweetie! I'm sick as a dog, so I feel ya on needing more sleep!flowerforyou

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Tue 11/18/08 03:56 AM


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Mon 11/17/08 05:47 PM


Hey everybody! How are ya?flowerforyou



good now that you are here....how was your test?????


Awesome...got a 87%...not too bad!

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Mon 11/17/08 05:38 PM
Hey everybody! How are ya?flowerforyou

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Mon 11/17/08 10:54 AM
Thanks baby!love

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Mon 11/17/08 09:52 AM




For some people on here, they seem to believe in their own minds that they are "PERFECT" and this place revolves them....

I am here to say it DOES NOT!!!!!!!

For those of you that know me, you all know that I am "THE PERFECT ONE" and you should be proud to be in my presence and post where I post.....waving waving waving waving

So please come on in and say hello!!!!

And for my fellow QUACKERS "QUACK QUACK":thumbsup: :thumbsup:




I am perfect.smokin

As are those who have posted thus far.smokin

We are perfect.smokin


You know Fear has a point. I mean what is a perfect human? Are we all not perfect in our own way? I mean there is nobody else like us, so there for we are a perfect image of ourselves.


But...I am perfect!rofl rofl


That you are baby!

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Mon 11/17/08 09:22 AM
Quack, quack, quack...and one more perfect quack!flowerforyou

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Mon 11/17/08 09:20 AM








I don't think I'm da chit...LOL.. maybe full of it but definately not da chit...LMAO


Oh honey...any lover of mine is da chit!!lol


oh my gosh.. I am touched.. your such a sweety and your the chit too... flowers


She is a sweetheart isn't she!love love


She is.. you know I'm gonna steal her from you and make her my own... LOL


lol...nobodies stealin me from my babay!


Yay! I win!rofl rofl


tears tears tears its okay.. I understand...


Awe dont cry hon...you'll always be my baby too!

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Mon 11/17/08 09:11 AM




Yup,yup! It is a good day!



It is a good day,,,,,I just hope it stays that way:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:


Quakity quack quack! I hope so too!flowerforyou


A VERY SPECIAL quack quack to you as well!!!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


flowerforyou laugh

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Mon 11/17/08 09:08 AM


Yup,yup! It is a good day!



It is a good day,,,,,I just hope it stays that way:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:


Quakity quack quack! I hope so too!flowerforyou

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Mon 11/17/08 09:04 AM
Yup,yup! It is a good day!

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Mon 11/17/08 08:53 AM






Hello bonnie! How are ya today?


I'm great, looking forward to my cup of tea, and you?


At work...very relaxed review day for me! I'm liking it

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