crytonic how can you say wham bam thank you mam.. sorry to say sex is never about wham bam thank you mam.. or shouldnt be.. not being critical but think that should be a sentiment we should not value or create


sorry if i offended you, not meaning to.. just expressing an idea as you have.



If i were but a fat man.. i would never be hungry


Wesley

I dont like Wow but i like EQ2.. PVP baby.. only way to go.!!!!
Laugh! not addicted but like it alot.. rates alot lower than a relationship that is for sure though.. cant imagine lossing a relationship over a game.. but i hear it happening all the time... Game like a drug addiction.. wow.. that scars me!


If I were but a 70 guardian gnome. Then the Dark elf women would love me! laugh


Wesley

You make my heart alive
You're so kind
Your hugs must be filled with passion
I can't get you off my mind
You're an innocent addiction

You're so lovable
You're like a child on Christmas day
The way you have so much energy and excitement
I love you in every single way

You're becoming my best friend
Nothing will ever change that
You're with me till the end
And that is why I care for you so

I will forgive you for stealing from me
But I forgave from the start
Because what you stole, are stealing from me is
my heart

You, came into my life
like a morning breeze after a rain in the dusk of
yesterday
You made me feel
like no one in my past has ever made me feel
You believed in me
when no one else does
You are there for me
when no one else is
You gave me strength
when i felt weak
You gave me hope
when i lose faith in love
You made me live my life with meaning
not just by existing
And now am taking my chances in love again
all because of you are YOU

(from personal journal) 2006 aka me! him! I! myself! That guy!

I think it had nothing to do with not finding anyone..Think she is looking for something a bit more spicy that normal every day dating.. laugh... something tells me by her loggon name she may be currently in ..Letthatmanwhipyou.com haha sorry...

If i were a mad man maybe i wouldnt be so crazy!

Wesley

Sex on the first date?

Absolutely not.! No offense to anyone that does. However for me no. Many reasons. I am an antique, Need to be polished up first..laugh! no seriously. Better to become a friend to your possible mate first, Get to know theme before you commit to anything more.. Sure get to matches together and they want to make fire. But if you dont take time to gather kindling.. matches will just burn out in a few sec. ok poor analogy...

Everyone is different every situation has it own merrits. I just think if people spent more time becomeing friends first. then lovers instead of lovers then work at becoming friends.. our relationships would last longer.

where my body goes, there goes my heart.. Where my heart goes there goes my body. Cant seperate Sex, love, mind and the body.. all one package or no package at all


My favorite comedian of all time!!! "George Bush"


Wesley

No ive never used the HTDIY guide to breaking up.. Posted that becausei found it funny they actually have a guide you can buy to learn how to break up! hahahhah Thank God Ive only had two relationships in my Life.. hate to go though what you all are talking about...


One day I was feeling like a nut! was ok actualy but then some lady came along with a nut cracker and ruined my day! sigh



Wesley

The Ultimate HTDIY Break up Guide (How to do it yourself)

How to Break Up
Like the song says, "Breaking Up is Hard to Do." Sooner or later, you may find that you want to leave a relationship, and you'll need to let the other person know. This article gives some suggestions to help you through the breakup.

[edit] Steps
Have things turned around in your relationship?Know for sure that you really do want to break up. If you are simply upset with your partner, you should consider talking about what upset you rather than ending the relationship.
Before having "the talk" that ends the relationship, think about the reasons you are breaking up. Your partner will ask you why you want out, and you should be prepared with answers. If you have trouble remembering examples during emotional discussions or arguments, write your reasons down in advance.
Plan out how long you are willing to spend "breaking up" and stick to your schedule. You may even want to arrange an appointment with a friend in a neutral location so that you can say "I'm supposed to meet John at the restaurant in fifteen minutes, so I have to go now."
Sit down with your partner and let him or her know that you need to have a serious talk. When asked "why?" or "about what?", simply respond that you've decided to end the relationship.
Expect your partner to do any or all of the following:
Question -- He or she will want to know why, and whether there was anything he or she could have done to prevent the breakup. Answer the questions as honestly as possible.
Cry -- The other person will likely be upset, and it will show. It is okay to comfort him or her, but don't allow yourself to be manipulated into changing your decision.
Argue -- He or she may dispute anything you've said during the breakup, including examples you used in your reasons for breaking up. Don't get dragged into a fight, and don't split hairs. Let your partner know that arguing isn't going to change your decision.
Bargain/Beg -- He or she may offer to change, or to do things differently in order to preserve the relationship. If the person didn't change when you've discussed your problems in the past, it is too late to expect him or her to truly change now.
Lash Out -- Whether it's as simple as saying "You'll never find anyone as good as me" or as scary as saying "I'll make you regret this", he or she is usually just trying to make himself or herself feel better.



[edit] TipsExpect to spend at least one hour "breaking up", and longer if the relationship lasted a year or more.
If at all possible, break the news "on their turf," i.e. at his/her home. At least be somewhere that they feel comfortable. They'll want to feel safe enough to cry/get angry/make a scene in general. While they might be willing to do these things at your place, making someone go home after getting news like that will make them more bitter. If you both live together, breaking-up will be particularly problematic and stressful.
Many people feel that it is poor etiquette to break up by phone, e-mail, or through an instant messenger system. It is easier to break up with someone if you don't have to look the person in the eye, but you may lose the respect of your mutual friends if you take the easy way out.
If you are sure you want to break up with somebody, it is best done sooner rather than later. However, if your partner has had a particularly bad day already, you may want to consider waiting for a better moment. Breaking up with them when they are already down will make them feel awful.
While honesty is the best policy, you may want to soften the blow by avoiding sensitive issues (for example, most don't want to hear "I'm breaking up with you because your breath smells" ). However, being too vague can cause the other person to become even more upset.
If at all possible, don't disappear as a method of ending a relationship. It shows a lack of respect both for the person and the relationship you had.
Break up with him/her somewhere other than your house, workplace (etc.), because if you are over at their house, it is easy for you to leave, however if they are at your house, it could be tough to get rid of them.



[edit] WarningsNever threaten that you will break up with your partner. If you have problems or concerns, work through them or break up. Threats will only make a relationship worse and their impact tends to diminish with repeated use.
Threats of physical harm are serious and should not be ignored. If you feel that your safety is at risk, contact the police as soon as it is safe to do so and request a restraining order, but do use your judgment before doing so.
There will be a period of time, often 2 days to a week, during which your ex partner will attempt to revenge for the break-up. Don't be excessively angry with, lash out at or disown him/her. Breaking up is painful and certain people respond to pain with revenge. Let the time pass, let your ex get all their anger and frustration out, before you try to talk to them. However, if it gets out of hand, violent, disruptive or abusive, contact the police when safe.
Keep your distance from your ex for a minimum of two weeks, it will only make it harder for them with you sticking around. You may also consider getting back into the relationship and that is the last thing you should do.

Well from what ive seen the cute ones like
"nurjoyce" and Fade2Black"all live in Texas..!! and Colorado. An sigh that is a whole hour and two away "zone" difference laugh!


If i had a last name. i would want it to be O.. S....C... A.... R....

Wesley

Point to remember for relationships.


Never treat someone as a "priority" that isnt even an option!!

Never treat someone as a "option" that should be a "priority!!


"If i was to be reincarnated? I want to come back as a thorn!"

Wesley

Nice guys are everywhere... there in every household.. every home,apartment.. There found on ships, submarines, They can be found in a store, shopping mall, junkyards and sewer plants..

"I had a monkey once in South Africa" "Name was Beligerence"

Wesley

P. S Oh i am sorry.. There called brooms, laugh sorry coudnt resist..

hehehe just a joke

Older women younger men! Older men Younger women?
I was married 17 years to a lady almost 11 years older than I. (Sadly widowed now) I was 17 she was almost 28. Dating someone older and younger has its complications by any means. But the real key to success is the same as any relationship... Communication.. But with the age spread gettting bigger.. a few more things come to bear... The most important is communication.. communication.. laugh! also .. being able to comprimise, Listening not just hearing.

Appreciation for your mate and expressing it. There are the same things for normal age commited relationships.. One may just find in the age spread difference relationships.. There more doomed to failure if dont really love and commit to making it work.. There are social pressures, familiy and friends pressures.. society pressures. Why most these relationships fail.. Simple.. reason... (NO Commitment, no dedication, no perseverance.)

What Is A Mother ?
When the good Lord was creating mothers, he was into his sixth day of overtime when the angel appeared and said, "You are doing a lot of fiddling around on this one."

And the Lord said, "Have you read the specs on this order ?"

"She has to be completely washable, not plastic, have moveable parts, all replaceable, run on black coffee and leftovers, have a lap that disappears when she stands up, a kiss that can cure anything from a broken leg to a disappointed love affair, and six pairs of hands."

The angel shook her head slowly and said, "Six pairs of hands, no way !"

"It's not the hands that cause the problems, said the Lord. It is the three pairs of eyes that mothers have to have."

"That's the standard model," the angel asked?

The Lord nodded. "One pair that sees through closed doors, when she asks, "What are you kids doing in there, " when she already knows. Another in the back of her head that sees what she shouldn't but what she has to know, and of course the ones here in the front so that she can look at a child when he goofs and says, "I understand and I love you," without so much as uttering a word.

"Lord," said the angel, " Go to bed .."

"I can't," said the Lord. "I am so close to creating something so close to myself. Already, I have one who heals herself when she is sick, can feed a family of six on one pound of hamburger and can get a nine year old to stand under a shower."

The angel circled the model of a mother. "It's too soft," she sighed.

"But tough," said the Lord excitedly. "You cannot imagine what this mother can do or endure !"

"Can it think ?"

"Not only can she think, but it can reason and compromise," said the Creator.

Finally the angel bent over and ran her fingers across the cheek. "There's a leak," she pronounced. "I told you that you were trying to put too much into this model."

"It's not a leak," said the Lord. "It is a tear."

"What's it for ?"

"It's for joy, sadness, disappointment, pain, loneliness, and pride."

"You are a genius," said the angel.

The Lord looked somber. "I didn't put it there," he said.



I had a monkey once in South Africa...."Name was Beligerence"

Wesley

In My humble opionion, we, the nice good guys are the guys that no one notices. There the quite ones that dont proclaim to the world. How good we are, we just are.. we work in Silence, Hidden, Quite, Obscure. we go about our daily lives with purpose, dedication, vigor. and with a plan. One of them lives next door to me now,.. 66 years old.. a nice guy.. sweet. respectufull ect... "Alone".

"I had a monkey once in South Africa." Name was
"Beligerence"

Wesley