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Thu 06/06/19 02:26 PM




A woman is a mystery a man just can't understand
Sometimes all it takes to please her is a touch of your hand
And other times you've gotta take it slow and hold her all night long
Heaven knows there's so many ways a man can go wrong


Try listening to a song for the answer to your question. bigsmile


The only way for a man to go wrong is to make no effort at all tongue2


Au contraire mon ami......sometimes all the effort a person can muster isn't enough to sustain a relationship. whoa

Maybe it'd help you to let go of thoughts and beliefs that are based on old experiences.
Women have the exact same problem with men, and most women at a certain age -let's say above 40- have had at least one relationship that went wrong.
For every guy who's whinging about women there's a woman who's equally hurt by that man.
The thing that matters is to get over it, heal, accept & let go AND learn from the relationship. Treasure the good you had, learn from the rest so you can have a better/good relationship in the future.
That's what I see most women do, it's always men who keep whinging about how bad women are, how bad their ex is, blablabla.
I don't mean this as a rant, it's just that by doing that you keep yourself stuck.
I can also go on and on and on about my abusive ex, but what good will that do me? He's moved on, had 2 relationships after me, and then I'd still be sulking over it??
See my point?

Women aren't difficult to understand, no more than men are difficult to understand for women. You think you are easy, so do we about us. That's just because you know how men are wired like women know how women are wired.
All it takes it a bit of effort to understand the differences. They're not obstacles you know, they make us perfect complements for one another. All you have to do is shift out of your limiting beliefs and begin to understand that. Take some time to learn.


YES YES YES! Men hang on and on to old hurt. I finally told my bf to get over it and move on. As if I want to hear about his exes......unfortunately I had to meet 2 of them. I handled it like a rock star.

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Thu 06/06/19 02:14 PM
Thinking I should have bought a house with a smaller yard......mowing forever.

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Thu 05/30/19 08:10 PM
Because we need to be compensated for wasting our time!

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Thu 05/30/19 08:04 PM
Thinking I should just go to bed, I'm bored.

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Tue 05/28/19 06:02 PM


Wow, it's 6 months already!!!

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Tue 05/28/19 06:01 PM


Has many many secrets including kinky stuff.

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Tue 05/28/19 05:52 PM
Mojo is good!

laugh

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Tue 05/28/19 05:46 PM


I am having fun. You people need to stop trying to get more than you should.

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Sun 04/28/19 11:59 AM


Recuperating! Lousy weekend.

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Sun 04/28/19 11:52 AM
In August 2000 the Irish Catholic Church proposed dropping seven texts from a proposed new Lectionary because they "give an undesirably negative impression regarding women.

The New Testament is a collection of early Christian literature, which together with the Old Testament forms the Holy Scriptures of the Christian churches.

The origin of the New Testament was a multi-stage process. Much of the New Testament is anonymous and was written by unknown authors. Reliable? NO.

Many of the New Testament’s forgeries were manufactured by early Christian leaders trying to settle theological feuds.Consider a few more statistics. Of the 27 books and letters forming the New Testament, 21 quote the Old.

Colossians 3:18:
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
Corinthians 11:3-10

A man ought not cover his head, since he is in the image and the glory of God; but woman is the glory of man.
For man did not come from woman, but woman from man.
Neither was man created for women, but women for man.
For this reason, a woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head, because of the angels.


HOW can you say the bible doesn’t degrade women?

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Sun 04/28/19 06:45 AM

It is a good question for which there may be no answer that our language can define or explain, other than HE created all. And some of his creation made a language, through which they named him many things, where his only explanation was "I am". How does one define what is the very source allowing for definitions to start with. I am.

It is like explaining how something came from nothing, or how it could be that there NEVER was nothing. We believe what we believe, even if there are not yet the words to define it, or not words that satisfy everyone as an 'exact' answer.

The only things I need to define God is 'intelligent' 'creator' and 'Father'. I am not one, I guess, that needs anymore than to know those things to define what he 'is', to me.



The universe and what we are seeing is all a naturalistic process. One of the theories about how the universe came to be, the big bang theory, is that it happened naturally in a quantum vacuum. That undercuts religion right there. People say, “You can’t get a universe from nothing. You’ve gotta have God.” But you can, if you conceive of nothing as the quantum vacuum of outer space.

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Sun 04/28/19 06:39 AM
There is clear evidence that prayer does not work despite the Bible promising prayers will be answered.
There is clear evidence that humans invent gods. Humans have invented so many gods that the default assumption should be that a god is a supernatural entity invented by humans. Christianity would need solid evidence that the Jewish god is an exception to this rule but there is no such evidence.
There is clear evidence that religions and gods are propagated through culture by infecting children, and no evidence that they are propagated by gods.
There is clear evidence that Christianity has evolved as human understanding of the world has changed whilst a real, God-given religion, should never need to change.
There is clear evidence that humans on this planet have unequal access to Christianity so, if Christianity were true, billions would be condemned to hell for no fault of their own. This contradicts the Christian notion that God is omnibenevolent.
There is clear evidence that the Bible, supposedly inspired by God, is liberally sprinkled with the type of errors we would expect from its Iron Age authors but would not expect from the creator of the universe.
Christian theology is incoherent to the point of absurdity. God killing his son so he can forgive our future sin is like me breaking my son’s legs so I can forgive my neighbor in case she ever parks her car on my drive. It is quite ridiculous.
There is clear evidence that the arguments presented for the existence of the Jewish God are logically flawed—all of them have been shown to be unreliable. If this were not the case, all honest and intelligent people would accept that God exists, just as all honest and intelligent people accept that black holes exist.
All that is left for Christians is faith and their feelings. We know that faith and feelings can be used to believe in any god at all—including non-existent gods. So faith and feelings cannot help us determine if Christianity is true.

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Sun 04/28/19 06:25 AM


Writes all reports improperly, then blames Pumpi

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Sat 04/27/19 06:33 PM


Spent 36 hours at the hospital with the boyfriend. Now I need to catch up on all that sleep.

yawn yawn yawn yawn

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Sat 04/27/19 06:32 PM


Religion is delusion! The bible is not reliable as a source of information and it certainly isn’t accurate. It was written by many and edited many times. There are many contradictions as well.

Without the bible, would anyone believe there is a god? I doubt it. One book fools so many.

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Sat 04/27/19 06:24 PM


Well 36 hrs without sleep didn’t help how I felt. yawn

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Fri 04/26/19 10:06 AM

1. Some animals eat each other, it does not make it less 'wrong' for humans do. Differences exist between expectations and abilities among species of life.

2. Christianity does not treat women 'second class'. Anymore than the right hand treats the left hand 'second class'. Christianity lays out how males and females work TOGETHER. That this difference is a matter of inferior or superior is a modern construct of the ego.

3. Many religions do consider sex with same sex a sin, just like sex with family. Love is love, that is not a justification for all types of sex.


4. No matter how much we push evolution, the same question exists, where did whatever we 'evolved' from, come from then? and where did THAT come from? Neither evolution or creation have an adequate and definitive 'beginning' from which everything starts.

5. IT is a shame that many push things that are nowhere in their scriptures. The Bible, for instance, mentions nothing about sex ONLY being for 'procreation'. The Bible describes sex as a pleasure to be enjoyed between husband and wife.



Ephesians 5:22-24 ESV /

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.

1 Timothy 2:11-12

Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.

If a man sells his daughter as a servant, she is not to go free as male servants do. Exodus 21:7

If, however the charge is true and no proof of the girl’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. Deuteronomy 22:20-21.

Behold now, I have two daughters which have not known man; let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes: only unto these men do nothing; for therefore came they under the shadow of my roof. Genesis 19:8

The bible thinks women are 2nd class.

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Thu 04/25/19 02:49 PM


I think I let myself over stress, my body is telling me to rest and sleep way more than usual

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Thu 04/25/19 02:45 PM



B52’s....... the shooter

Sweet and salty popcorn

Looking at the river from my couch

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Thu 04/25/19 02:39 PM


For now, I can help Queenie look for her virginity,

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