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Lost love....
Edited by
Randy350R
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Mon 01/31/11 01:19 AM
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Very talented! Reminds me of my hatred for this existence though. Sure we can have good times, happy times, have as many as you bloody well can because in the end it all comes down to a life-line of loss, pain and death. I lost the only woman I've EVER had. She's not dead but she's F***ed right up. God damn drugs & alcohol!
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Topic:
missing your child?
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I miss my daughter but I get to see her tomorrow. We're gonna go to the wild life sanctuary, yay! And I also get to take her bowling as much as I want! She's on a local team.
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Topic:
Am I attractive enough?
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So many people are not real at all. They're all detached from reality, everyones f**kin crazy!
A wise man once said "we're made to believe that we're consumers when really we are the products" Thats getting into a whole new can of worms though and will slide off topic.. |
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Topic:
Am I attractive enough?
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I thought lots of girls liked the hip hop look. Try being a metal head that doesn't feel comfortable in any color but black. Its pretty difficult to find someone who gives a **** beyond whats on the outside. I came across a saying a couple years back that I though rang pretty true... the ones that mind don't matter, and the ones that matter...don't mind. Very true. |
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Topic:
Am I attractive enough?
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True. Thats why I won't sell myself out.
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Topic:
DEATH METAL RULES
Edited by
Randy350R
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Mon 01/31/11 12:06 AM
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Last time I checked this thread was called death metal rules. And it does watch Cannibal play live or their studio recording clip of Frantic Disembowlment on you tube and then tell me they are not skilled musicians. There are **** bands in any genre though. But for the most part this one has the best guitarists and drummers for sure. You think it sucks because its too complicated for you to understand. Enjoy your slow novice level crap.
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Topic:
Am I attractive enough?
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I thought lots of girls liked the hip hop look. Try being a metal head that doesn't feel comfortable in any color but black. Its pretty difficult to find someone who gives a **** beyond whats on the outside.
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Abuse me
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If I could connect mentally and emotionally with someone 10 years younger and our outlooks on life complimented one another I would definitely chance it.
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Topic:
trust in early stages
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Actions speak louder than words... Okay....so blowing a guy off after he sucked up some pride to make a phone call and tell the truth speaks volumes too. It shows there is no forgiveness. It shows an unwillingness to communicate. It shows that one would rather bear a grudge. It shows that one would rather see the negative than search for the positive. It shows that one would rather play the victim than the victor. Well, if that works for some people, so be it. They are ones that have to live with it, not me. I couldn't help but notice how the story about the cat named Ugly seemed to fit this discussion though. Man, if you make plans with a girl and then screw it up to go out drinking with your X, it's your own damn fault if it looks bad no matter how much you try to sugar coat or justify it. I know if I had a first date friday and then made plans for sunday on the basis that we really liked each other. I'm smart enough to make it happen rather than get caught up in a moment. I you care enough to make a second date, you'll care enough to follow through and make a good impression. People who live in the moment without regards to the future tend to be the same kind of people that get caught with their pants down. The decision was a wise one. |
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Topic:
trust in early stages
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I take it then that the issue here is that men and women can not be friends after sex. Its simply not possible in your view? Sure they can, weather or not they cancel out the benefits or not is another story. There is a difference between an x girlfriend and a "homey". Intimacy can happen much easier between people who have done it before. And drinking together and blowing off a new date? Come on! |
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trust in early stages
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Yes. He probably drank too much and got poor. Sometimes the truth is not what we want to hear. Nonetheless. Your initial instincts were that you wanted to see him again. There could be many worse things. No call. No show. Instead, he told you what (seemingly) is the truth. Can't fault a truth-teller. I have to agree with Soufie on this one. I mean the guy was honest with you and due to that he is getting the cold shoulder. Things do not always go the way we planned on them but....he could have just blew you off or not even called or told ya some lie.... Heck I have went out with friends and had no intentions of over doing it but it happened and caused me to change my plans the next day... Just saying you just met the guy give him break if you really like him. If you don't then move on.. (to soufie and txsgal) what happened to this ese? That went out the window when you enlightened the situation. |
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Topic:
trust in early stages
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You need to decide weather or not this situation will interfere with your trust. My experience would tell me not to. But thats just me.
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trust in early stages
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Hummm well JMO they don't go out and get drunk with their ex without the possibility of something happening. Just a very bad combination.... I have worked with and ex for 6 years after we broke up and he was my boss. But we keep it to work only we would even eat lunch together. But...........after work he went his way I went mine. I feel once they are an ex work is work and it is best to keep all contact within that time only. but the creative process is enmeshed with the personal and if they cant understand each other they wont accomplish the best stuff. Its like bein in a band....'dont take this the wrong way, but i hate you man....and see you tomorrow' kinda thing. Ok, but just remember you're playing russian rulet with your trust and feelings. Don't be surpised if you end up biting the bullet. |
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trust in early stages
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Hummm well JMO they don't go out and get drunk with their ex without the possibility of something happening. Just a very bad combination.... I have worked with and ex for 6 years after we broke up and he was my boss. But we keep it to work only we would even eat lunch together. But...........after work he went his way I went mine. I feel once they are an ex work is work and it is best to keep all contact within that time only. Exactly why I bet they're not done yet. Even if they want to be, even if they think they are thats not always the case. And if they're drinking together, something could happen that you won't want to deal with. I would quit while I was ahead. I know wafflers all to well. |
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Topic:
trust in early stages
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His coworker is also his ex-girlfriend, who, as he told me, he slept with about 3 weeks ago...before we ever even spoke to each other. This is who he was with last nite. They work on video production together and I have some experience there myself. I know its a creative process and very rewarding if you can work out obstacles and get things to edit together while keeping your ideas true to plan. They got a lot of work done and were psyched about it so they went to a pub and talked about it all. OOHHH SNAP. well well well, the old she is just a co-worker who slipped and fell on my penis (several times at that). and he got too drunk to drunk text you at three in the morning. i smell a rat Exactly. And remember this will be a relationship thats born of a situation that will keep you on your gaurd. If your gaurd is always up, thats not trust. You NEED to be able to trust who you're with or else its only a matter of time. Considering you don't really know him, thats not gonna be allowed to happen just by circumstance. Don't waste your time and feelings. Give them to someone who undoubtedly deserves them. |
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Topic:
trust in early stages
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They probably aren't done yet. Get the **** outa there! He sounds like a waffler to me!
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Topic:
trust in early stages
Edited by
Randy350R
on
Sun 01/30/11 10:18 AM
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Yeah I agree. If I really liked a girl I wouldn't pull something like that.
If I were you I might give him another chance just to confirm your intuitions. You never know.. |
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Topic:
Do I dare...
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I just realized I probably need more pics... oh well. Thanks though :)
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Topic:
Do I dare...
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I can't fight the curiosity.
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