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Fri 05/18/18 04:58 AM

I as a woman?? :bride_with_veil:️, I say again that dating is just a waste of money. Better to marry and the money can be saved to buy a house. Right?? We can build marital relationships with trust and mutual respect, not with dating in a long time.. You are just wasting money for nothing. Better to donate and get good things from god.
How much do I spend for dating then? No idea, I just ask him to get married, if he's ready. Dont be too sinful before marriage. Like making sweet coffee but you are diabetic??. There is no hope then


So right off the bat you ask the guy to get married?.. no dating.. no " getting to know each other".. just get married and figure all that little stuff out later?

Not only would that not be appealing to me. it would scare the hell out of me.. I would be out of that relationship.. before it even started.



Not only you, even I was very scared in the beginning :joy::joy::joy:️ and wait 2 years to think if this is good or not. But what can I do? Changed following you? Or looking for something better like think win-win?
I have 2 years preparing for this decision. This cant be changed just because you dont want to. It is about trust and God. All I have to do is explain and make this man understand, if he wants to learn about this, I will teach him and convince him. Why should be difficult? Learning is fun.

This is new for you. I know, I appreciate your thoughts:innocent:️, this is normal, so what I do is normal too.
Greetings from us here, you find new friends like me with different cultures and beliefs.

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Fri 05/18/18 04:49 AM

I as a woman?? :bride_with_veil:️, I say again that dating is just a waste of money. Better to marry and the money can be saved to buy a house. Right?? We can build marital relationships with trust and mutual respect, not with dating in a long time.. You are just wasting money for nothing. Better to donate and get good things from god.
How much do I spend for dating then? No idea, I just ask him to get married, if he's ready. Dont be too sinful before marriage. Like making sweet coffee but you are diabetic??. There is no hope then

Wow... Do you even enjoy life? Do you know life is meant to be good and fun and joyful?
We're not here to live from the head and only think and plan and strategize. You can do that, it is also part of life, but it is supposed to be balanced out by feeling good, by being happy & joyful.
Money is meant to be exchanged, not to be carefully and fearfully tucked away under the mattress out of fear of lack. When you live in fear of lack and lack of joy, you will attract just that.


True, I hope to live like you:joy::joy:️. Its fun. Live only once and this should be fun.
The fun version for you is good for you. But our families, cultures and beliefs are very different. Right?
You know? Im still better, can see the man and ask for his opinion. In fact there are women here married without ever knowing the man or have never met him. Its just about our different beliefs and our perspective on life.

How will you live? We can plan as much as we want, but the decision is in god.
We are not as good as your life. But this is the best in our lives.

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Fri 05/18/18 02:56 AM
I as a woman?? :bride_with_veil:️, I say again that dating is just a waste of money. Better to marry and the money can be saved to buy a house. Right?? We can build marital relationships with trust and mutual respect, not with dating in a long time.. You are just wasting money for nothing. Better to donate and get good things from god.
How much do I spend for dating then? No idea, I just ask him to get married, if he's ready. Dont be too sinful before marriage. Like making sweet coffee but you are diabetic??. There is no hope then

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Fri 05/18/18 02:48 AM
i guess you'll be going to any concerts alone then...

Cant stop laughing :joy::joy::joy:

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Fri 05/18/18 02:26 AM
I want an Asian girlfriend.If you are between 20-40 and live in the Midwest....I am interested! This is not a joke.

Change the filter location and find them... Spirit sir :muscle::muscle::muscle:

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Thu 05/17/18 06:32 PM
Yeah that's life!
so amazing that we cant guess it.
We want this, but it doesnt happen.
We dont like this, but it happens.
Or something we dont realize? Love? Or fake?
Complicated!!

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Thu 05/17/18 06:21 PM
Husband! Who is ready to get married july this year?

No sin before marriage .. Do a marriage to keep your life. Ahahahaha why I keep doing this. :joy::joy::joy::joy:

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Thu 05/17/18 05:58 PM

Well least the OP didn't wait as long as I did. Took me 3 years before I found someone to meet. ohwell

Really 3 years? :scream::scream::scream::scream:
Oh my god. Then why are you here now? :rolling_eyes:

The relationship didn't materialize.

Hmmmmm... Im not that kind of woman actually.. But i just ask them to help me gt visa. If I get a visa, I can stay with him. Do you think it will materialize?

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Thu 05/17/18 05:53 PM
Like everyone is saying, you gotta give it some time. Just be careful of scammers. Report anyone who asks you to send them money.

Yeeaaahhhh thts true. Thanks for reminding

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Thu 05/17/18 04:51 PM
Well least the OP didn't wait as long as I did. Took me 3 years before I found someone to meet. ohwell

Really 3 years? :scream::scream::scream::scream:
Oh my god. Then why are you here now? :rolling_eyes:

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Thu 05/17/18 04:26 PM
Since you impatiently deactivated already, date a scammer until you find a good match. It's only money...

Money talk today

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Thu 05/17/18 04:25 PM
Looks like it's over for him. He deactivated.

Oh its he.. I thought she :joy::joy:

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Thu 05/17/18 04:24 PM
two days is nothing this isn't the home shopping network lol


Cant stop laughing :joy::joy:

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Thu 05/17/18 12:41 PM
the missing piece to my puzzle

Yeeaaahhhh good one as quote

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Thu 05/17/18 12:16 PM
Come here, Indonesian

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Thu 05/17/18 11:21 AM
Does anyone like civet coffee/luwak coffee? Come to me ahahahaa I have the most expensive coffee in the world. Coffee from poop animals. I dont understand why this is becoming expensive in international :joy::joy:

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Thu 05/17/18 11:14 AM
When both can respect each other.
Having good communication will not get better without mutual respect.

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Thu 05/17/18 10:49 AM
I have a son whose just 1.5 years Would you date me


Oh daddy, this is not the right way to find a mother for your child.
You should find a woman not for your sexual satisfaction but for your son's future..

#nooffense

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Thu 05/17/18 10:47 AM
Setting specific standards such as

*no kids and I would date you

is pretty harsh. What If you were that kid? Or What if you had kids? A lot of single parents mistreat their kids because of these common issues, I have seen that happen. We are greedy by nature


Thats right, I think the same thing. We must take care of the children well. Dont let them think badly that they become a burden for their parents to have partner... :pray::pray:

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Thu 05/17/18 10:31 AM
I am just a normal woman ahahahaha. I have a good education, but my culture is very strong than that. Especially about caring for children.
Children are a reflection of the family success here. So I cant keep quiet about the kids... Thats why :pray: I really like children