Thanks indn.
Hard candy. You want some truth.


I must tell you. I would be more turned off by your smoking than I would be by the way you look.
Not being nasty, but trying to show you some real priorities people have.

Hardcandy, I found my wife over 15 years ago. She was far more beautiful inside and out that I could have ever hoped for. I was never sure what she saw in me but she saw something. We had a wonderful love affair for many years. She was the center of my universe and gave a son who is incredible. i thank god every day that I see her when I look at him.
I was never bored. She kept me on my toes!! I loved her more each day.

Unfortuantely some drunk killed her 33 months ago.
She will always be my one true love and she made me the man I am today. You must stop concentrating so much on looks. If a man feels that you are more worried about your looks, than anything else, it will turn him off quicker than a light switch. Confidence and self assuredness.

It's much more important how a woman sees herself than how a man sees her. A woman who is not rail thin (not my taste) and not pageant contestent (not my taste) but who carries herself with confidence an air of self sufficience is extremely attactive.

I'm sure I'll get jeers from guys who say she has to be beautiful or sexy or hot!!
Who determines these factors?

How does a blind man fall in love? or a blind woman? Simplistic but to the point.

I dare any man to tell me that a confident, caring woman isn't a turn on. Not everyone is a model. Especially most of us men. A relatively clean appearance and if a person cares about the impression they make (overall) is important. Some are heavier than others. A larger woman in baggy non-descript camouflage clothing is not attractive. A larger woman who dresses appropriately (guys too) and pays attention to appearance is much more noticable than someone who just throws clothes on without any care.

It is abour perception. A smile instead of a dour frown. A pleasant greeting instead of a gruff "please don't notice me" hi, makes a world of difference.
I could go on but who the hell asked me!

My condolences. I'm sure you'll "bounce back" from this terrible tragedy. The "elasticity" of the human spirit is unrivaled. For a while you may need to "tread" lightly, but your life will be "inflated" with joy and happiness again!

well if you're only interested in having the Bacardi in you.....

well not like it was the good stuff... well that's not true either. It was a great afternoon when they canned that STERNO!!!!

I beg your forgiveness oh mighty and exhalted wearer of the bikinis!!

AHA!! you said it was TWINS!!!!
I spent all night looking for the OTHER GUY!!!!!

I drank so much I forgot where I was going and wound up in east Bumphuque oregon!

Old one: I drink to forget!
Forget what?
That I drink!

F--- 'EM!! If they can't take a joke!!

Hey storm!! If you feel the overwhelming desire to sit with my son for 2 cross country flights in a 52 hour period just let me know!!!!

I'm sure you'll just love oregon!!

redhead you're too young to be that bored. I'm finishing packing. That way I don't have to argue with an 11 year what clothing he is taking for our weekend getaway!! LOL

so you're looking at anywhere between 8 to 10 inches of the white stuff!!! Lucky girl!!!!

figured you might have some ideas for customization of either car

I can give you a choice. I have a 1964 pontiac tempest Lemans. It has a straight 215 and a convertible top. Same body as the GTO, but the suspension is lighter. of course there's also the difference in engine and drivetrain. Engine has been redone now working on the rest of the car. Also just picked up a 2007 Kia Spectra ST. Nice little thing. first one was totaled by a drunk who hit me in december. think this one neeeds to be tricked out!

short of inventing the perpetual motion vibrator, I believe Allen has achieved the nirvana of service to human beings!

That sir, is a most noble vocation!

had no idea. never seen canine semen before

madam x