Jaded? I am happy. Im not against surgery or anything either. I think people should be happy with who they are. If they arent then go get surgery. But dont do it on account of another person. I personally want to feel sexy at all times. I have my eyeliner tattooed, because my eyes tend to water a lot, and I know my eyes are grey so they are very light and my skin is light, I know I feel sexier when I have my eye make-up on. Personal preferences I guess.

Who dat say dey don't lub dem some BBW wimmens ... ? Ah lub ALL y'all li'l wimmens, BBW or not ...

And chicks wonder why dorks go for sluts. It's cause they are the only ones who will not touch your PS3, 360, PSP, and other assorted gadgets. Just have to hide the porn from them.

But she gave us DollyWood! Oh the Horror!!!

I used to love that game! I always won...are you gonna give me a run for my money lol

I totally agree with u, the cartoons nowadays DO suck, that's why i had to turn to anime like Bleach and Naruto, but if you're looking for something ur age, then i would say check out Gantz, its sophisticated with an intrinsic storyline with a ton of gore

That's cause we can play Connect Four like no other.

So second date a total bust. We went out, but not really anywhere. the restaurant we wanted to go to was closed on mondays and turns out the movie i rented was also a duplicate of which he just saw. Hung out for a few hours talking to get to know each other, had a great time. walked me to my car, (no sex) we did kiss goodnight. He asked me out again today because we both have kids and have a break today from them, so I agreed. Told me to call him today which I did and let him know I made reservations for that same resturaunt which is open today and he has yet to return my phone call, or 2 of my text. Oh well. I dont appreciate being strung a long, or hanging out with men who maybe dont have the balls to say we arent compatible, although I dont think that is the case. perhaps for whatever reason, I'm guessing he chose someone else to spend his time with today. all I can say is F-OFF you're a lousy kisser and I got laid two days ago anyways. Thanks for wasting my time. Im not a convenience store. I am a beautiful woman.

No one ever said that dating would be easy. It is not like you can walk into a store and pick out the right one.

If it was that easy to find the one we wanted to be with no one would be single that did not want to be......

Didn't know Jettas came in diesel, interesting fact. People always think my cars were diesel, becuase they were volvos, but I never got the diesel ones.

I wonder if Plastic is counting the words in everyone's sentences?

When the horror movie stops making money.

But that's part of the fun, which is why I love slasher films- especially on the big screen and hearing everyone in the audience yelling at the idiots to not go in there!

Well, I have been accused of over thinkin' chit, haha!! But that's right, to each their own...

Fear and Stupidity are the tag-team of horror movies. Some horror films would only be 10 minute long had teens not made those stupid decisions.

I hesitate to call them all posers… or even say that they’re not being honest. While I think that some people who want to date casually are often presenting themselves as looking for a serious relationship is common...(and it kinda confuses people who are focusing on finding a life partner)... it’s more about them not taking time in their lives to doing some introspection.
Some do it on purpose, no doubt... but some are just kinda' dancin' their way through life not realizing that they can confuse... they aren't being mean or manipulative. They’re generally looking for a LTR but casual dating until something more serious if it comes along. It's up to you/us to differentiate those people. Dancing through life is great... I love those people and wouldn’t want them to change. Yeah it would be great if they all looked at themselves a bit more but that’s their decision… I cross ‘em off my “list” when I finally understand. I like thinkers and a life well examined… a playful spirit is a must too.
That you’re searching for a partner in life... and see it all as a more serious thing doesn’t make them posers. Yeah, if they out and out lie to ya’, nuke ‘em! I realize that playa’s abound.

I think it's important to realize the "poser/real peeps" ratio... if it's 10:1, that means you'll prolly date/interact with 10 less serious folks and 1 potential mate. (And yeah, if you advertise that you’re a sensual person… you gotta expect horny fellas are gonna be contacting you…that’s just biology… it might not be right, but it’s so) Whatever the number actually is… the point is, that you’re going to have more interaction with folks that aren’t gonna be right for you. So given that, we need to know how to handle those people... have a game plan for weeding people out. Learn to spot it sooner and with less heart-felt connection. The responsibility is ours. Some go about it with a pass/fail mindset… I’d call that serial-dating. Some go about it just trying to get to know others… I’d call that living. Most do something in between and w/o a plan. Regardless of your own style… have a plan to simply see the person for who they really are and moving on when they don’t match up to your life-style.

You can get angry and upset about it all, because it really does suck sometimes... but also understand that it simply is what it is. It’s a sifting and sorting process… the best we can do is to know ourselves and know what we’re looking for. Don’t put expectations on people that don’t belong there… don’t fantasize about “wouldn’t it be great if he/she had qualities that I adore and they loved me too” when you haven’t learned anything about them YET. And that’s what these sites are for… learning other people.
Sometimes just watching people in the forums can be part of the game plan... saves on all the dating expenses and plane fare… js. GL.