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he just texted me, saying he fell asleep last night.
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well, havent heard from him since last night...
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So, for his birthday, I'm gonna bake a cake, and I got him a movie that will finish his collection, and I'm taking him to a museum I know he wants to go to. Does that sound good? Is it not personal enough?
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Wow, red_lace, that was pretty cool. Thank you.
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Topic:
havent been rated in a while
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hi there!!!!! Ive never been rated!!!!!! 
Nice, that is what these threads are for, post a new thread for yourself, this is my thread |
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Topic:
havent been rated in a while
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I deleted some pix, and added some new ones.
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Wow KC, that was awesome. Thank you for that, I've never had anyone write anything like that for me to help me. I appreciate it. :) I never thought a man could feel that way about me. <3
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Life was so much easier without texting! Anybody agree or am I just an old fart! lol, your not old! And yes, much, you either called, or you didn't, that simple. Now we have the middle man! Kill him with a spoon! |
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Well, we've been texting for a while tonight. He started off talking to me about food that he was making. (he is a great cook and is thinking about going to college for it) He said that he could maybe make some for me when I get back. I mentioned him looking into going into culinary school, then I was driving through Palm beach and a song that he likes came on, couldn't remember the name so I told him who sang it, and some of the lyrics, and he instantly knew who I was talking about, then it turned into a game, when a song on the radio came on, I would text him a quote and he would guess it. He even got ones that were crazy hard, like Pink Floyde. Anyways, I gave him a quote but he hasn't answered in almost 2 hours, but thats ok cuz it's late, lol.
I know now that I over reacted, and I cannot promise that it wont happen again, but I will give him more of a chance next time. Thank you everyone for your support, and even if I don't answer your comments, I listen to everyone of them. And to chelsea466, I dont think he has a chance with Eminem either. But don't tell him that, you might break his heart. |
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Thank you all. He just texted me. He said:
"Great!" Thats it, now what? |
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And where I touched on 'too personal' was when I asked how he was.
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ok, so I am guessing he is pretty much done with me. This was our convo: Me: Made it to miami, leavn for palm beach tonight. Watch any of the movies yet? What about that game? Mike: Cool. What game? Me: Shadow of the Colossus, so that answers my question, lol. Mike: Yep Me: So how are you? That last text was 30 mins ago, and he still has yet to respond. I tried to go personal a little bit, and that back fired! Now I'm going to go cry myself to sleep. Is this the best friend or guy that loves you. Maybe he just got busy? How did you get too personal because you asked if he watched any of the movies yet? or the game?? THAT IS REDICULOUS... If that's too personal how are you suppose to have a relationship? Jessica dear, my best friend is in a similar situation and she has finally stopped molding to his liking and being who she really is. It gets you nowhere changing for someone or making excuses as to why they are right all the time. Be true to yourself and stick to your guns. I live by my moto when it comes to a man. I REFUSE to cry over a man who won't cry over me. I REFUSE to go out of my way for a man who won't do the same. I REFUSE to make excuses for a man when I know I need to be true to myself first and foremost! I hope this helps you and all will work out for the best. If he isn't your one then that just means there is a better guy out there for you waiting. Keep smiling guys like that. Or so I'm told.. 
Not the best friend. lol. And with him I can be myself, that is why I'm so upset. |
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Thank you all for your help, but I think he's done.
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BTW: the ball's in his court, I will not text him again!
We were supposed to celebrate his birthday together. We were gonna go to a museum he was talking about wanting to go to. G0D Dam IT!!!! I screw everything up!!! |
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ok, so I am guessing he is pretty much done with me. This was our convo:
Me: Made it to miami, leavn for palm beach tonight. Watch any of the movies yet? What about that game? Mike: Cool. What game? Me: Shadow of the Colossus, so that answers my question, lol. Mike: Yep Me: So how are you? That last text was 30 mins ago, and he still has yet to respond. I tried to go personal a little bit, and that back fired! Now I'm going to go cry myself to sleep. |
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k, just sent it, lets see how long it will take for him to respond, if at all.
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you do realize you are asking relationship advice from many people who are not in relationships? that being said, what you plan to send sounds very casual, if that is the kind of relationship you have and want with this guy, then you are spot on. I made it casual so that if he doesn't reply, it wont hurt as bad, you know, if he texts me back and we chat, then I'll go from there. |
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Thats up to you, just something so he's not sitting there trying to get over you. This is what I'm going to send him, tell me what you think. "Made it to Miami, leaving for palm beach tonight. Watch any of the movies yet? What about that game?" We exchange movies and games. |
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That might be effective if he wasn't already under the impression that you're not interested because of that night. The way he backed off from contact with you tells me he's trying to save himself from heartache. I think it would be wise to tell him something reassuring. What should I say? |
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