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Tue 09/15/15 10:04 AM

Hello Debbie! Nice thread:)

Do I hear a sound of hopelessness and desperation in this post? I have never suffered from chronic illness but I went through a lot of pains in my life and I understand how it feels because once in my life I have come to a point that I asked the Lord to take my life so I wouldn't feel the pain anymore. But I thought of how precious life is to waste or give up.......NO, I wouldn't trade my beautiful soul for anything. But rather I will use my illness or suffering to be an inspiration to everyone who keeps on struggling in life. Let my beautiful soul be shared to everyone who are losing hope. I will be thankful enough to live the remainings of my life here on earth with purpose. The pain may not go away, but with faith and hope and a steadfast prayer for a miracle will give you strenght to go on living.


I was simply curious to know if people would trade their best qualities to live a life free of pain and suffering.

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Copied from your post dolphin.
I wouldn't trade my beautiful soul for anything. But rather I will use my illness or suffering to be an inspiration to everyone who keeps on struggling in life.

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That's exactly what I try to do ^^^^ and people tell me all the time how much they love that about me and im such a inspiration to them. The people who know me well, will know I always put them first over myself, even on the hardest days. Thats why I wouldn't trade my soul for myself.

I remember a member saying I was like Florence in nature, I think you saw that, because you quoted her if I recall correctly.

Other people inspire me too. flowerforyou

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Tue 09/15/15 09:53 AM

Does Lakanuki count, cause I sold everything trying to cure that?



yes, any chronic debilitating illness, or injury etc. Nothing specific. flowerforyou

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Tue 09/15/15 08:46 AM

Good to know...!!!.. because you have such a precious soul.. it's worth quite a bit..flowerforyou flowerforyou


Thank you. So do you. flowerforyou

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Tue 09/15/15 08:45 AM

I used to have Irritable Bowel Syndrome, and yes it got quite debilitating when it got to It's worst. It sort of felt like I was about to explode with extreme pain. Some days, I could hardly stay away from the toilet. Luckily, you feel better after three days of discomfort. I would have given a lot to never be such pain anymore. It cleared up though. Not sure how. I haven't had it again since summer last year.


Im glad that got better for you.flowerforyou

I suffer with that myself, but its not all the time, so its bearable.

Every case is different, some people get it very severe and constantly and that must be hard. Im lucky I only get flare ups every now and then.

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Tue 09/15/15 08:42 AM

Sounds like selling your soul to the devil..op..Hmm I wonder how many times a person can do that because I sold mine a few timespitchfork


No im not. I wouldn't give up my soul for anything for myself.

If I had children, then I don't know what I would do there, knowing what its like.

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Tue 09/15/15 06:36 AM


Im thinking 'Under the Dome' as finally ended. :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

I really enjoyed watching that. happy


sssshhhhhhhhhh.......I'm not quite caught up, 2 or 3 eps behind!


The last 2 episodes were on last night in the uk. Thats the end of 'under the dome' no more apparently.

I want to tell you what happens, pleassssssssssse laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 09/15/15 05:25 AM
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: ^^^^

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Tue 09/15/15 04:48 AM
Im thinking 'Under the Dome' as finally ended. :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

I really enjoyed watching that. happy

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Mon 09/14/15 03:46 PM



My ability to PUSH doors that say PULL...

Oh WHATEVER! Youve done it too!*giggling*


yup I have. laugh laugh


((( Debbie ))) flowerforyou

*gigglesnorting*


(((storm))) flowerforyou

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Mon 09/14/15 03:38 PM

Prayers for healing and strength,((Debbie))flowerforyou


Thank you. flowerforyou

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Mon 09/14/15 03:29 PM
up and down, like a roller coaster.

smile2 then sad2 then smile2 then sad2 then...... you got it. slaphead

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Mon 09/14/15 03:09 PM
Im sure I have saw mods posts that say this is a international site and the forums are open to all.

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Mon 09/14/15 02:33 PM

(((Debbie)))
flowerforyou


Thanks (((crystal)))flowerforyou


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Mon 09/14/15 02:11 PM





but that hasn't happened for years now.




Well honey you live in the uk, you folks hardly see much sun....it must a haven for vampires there laugh noway drinks


I know, but after twilight, I love vampires. drool drool drool :laughing:



After twilight i wondered why bella usually had a constipated look on her face pitchfork drinks


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 09/14/15 02:03 PM

It's always nice riding in a lady, i mean riding with a lady oops


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Mon 09/14/15 01:59 PM



but that hasn't happened for years now.




Well honey you live in the uk, you folks hardly see much sun....it must a haven for vampires there laugh noway drinks


I know, but after twilight, I love vampires. drool drool drool :laughing:

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Mon 09/14/15 01:52 PM
Edited by debbie1980 on Mon 09/14/15 01:53 PM



Erm. This is a kinda hard decision to make i think... but I think I'd ave to go with a YES Debbie. But probably won't know until it happens to us


It is hard, On my worst days, If I could pick, I could think sod everyone else, someone else can give others compassion, I just want this suffering to end, that thought has never happened yet, but ive never been give the opportunity to trade my compassion in. But like ive said, if that day comes where I lost it, I think my time would be over on earth. flowerforyou flowerforyou


Well, it's not a possible trade though, is it?


No its not, I was just asking out of curiosity if people would trade their best qualities to be cured from a horrible chronic illness. It would never happen, just out of interest. flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 09/14/15 01:47 PM

now wait a minute there mel. debbie is from across the pond so she would be a smart biscuttongue2 :laughing:


laugh laugh :wink: tongue2 :angel:

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Mon 09/14/15 01:44 PM
Edited by debbie1980 on Mon 09/14/15 01:45 PM
oops :laughing:

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Mon 09/14/15 01:42 PM


PacificStar.....for me it's the opposite....I hated coffee, never drank it. Late hubby had an issue (similar to Isaac, above :wink: )with too much. A year after He died, I kept smelling coffee brewing when I was in grief-mode. I had thrown out all coffee pots and such, since neither I or our children drank it. I went to starbucks and got hooked. grumble laugh



That does not surprise me. The sense of smell is a pervasive marker in the mind emotionally as well as physically.


offtopic but so true. I cant use the yankee fragrance 'fresh cut roses' anymore. I just cant.