Having a washing machine, it is a real pain not being able to have one

What it is to think.....thinking on that one lol!

Thinking about my 40th birthday celebrations....no big party. Going out over the weekend ....have food, beer and friends for later.

hi,

It is a good start that he doesn't critize you as this can be a real problem in any relationship ....ie having friends who always tell you that you don't look good or always bite when you express your opinion.

One thing is though that you shouldn't be pressurised into saying something just to please him, it does sound as though he could be a bit of a control freak.

A bit of advice is to talk with him and ask him how he really feels ...preferably when he is not drinking. Try and find out why he is not in love with you....something is holding him back maybe?

Take care

Good morning to all newbies from not so sunny England

hi there all newbies from a new member

hi there gang,

I would move to be with someone who treated me well wouldn't you?

Depends on our circumstances though, some of us have children to bear in mind when up rooting but again it is about how much you think that the relationship is worth moving more come what may and whatever situation you are in.

So a YES from me...

How is it that sometimes we deem to have no respect for one another, are we too quick to judge? Is there a lack of interest in being with a woman or a man, do we have to do disrepctful things that hurt one another?

My answer is NO.....if we all took time out to respect one another wishes or opinions then we would get the respect we deserve. Do you think it is something that should be earned or given freely?

I mean does a man lose interest in himself also before he loses interest in the relationship, or do you think men/man can be self righteous?

I think that man can be dis-respectful, self righteous and respect should be given freely in terms of dating.

How quick does a man lose interest? How do you sustain and keep him interested? Do you keep him by giving him what he wants all the time...no I don't think this is a good idea, what about what us women want? or better still talking about things....

What does it for me via websites is fake pictures, quick to ask for email details.

So next time you see your significant other....give them the respect they deserve.

Hi guys and gals,

Don't you just hate it when someone puts up fake id?

No picture of me at the mo....working on it...but please guys and gals be honest with each other....fake pictures are distasteful and should be removed instantly...why lie about who you are? As real photos have to be produced in the end.

So all those hunky male photos that make me blush are normally ones downloaded from the internet....mmmm, doesn't anyone anymomre want to be honest?

Not living in your neck of the woods guys in America but likewise here in England I would have to communicate with him for ages before I even thought about a date ...probably by then he would have walked away ...but then guys who do that aint worth it and likewise for you guys.

Or do we just go for the kill...and cut the chase? No need to beat around the bush is there?

I believe that we are all special in our own unique way, what makes me special is that I spend most of my time out in the community looking after the sick.

Why do we make mistakes, I thought we were all perfect human beings ?

I can remember from school days always making mistakes but unless I understood what was being said I might have made the same one over and over again. Isn't that a bit like us humans today to make mistakes over and over again, do we really learn from them too! I suppose it depends on what situation we are relating to. Do we always make the mistake of meeting the wrong man or woman? I think that sometimes we do meet the wrong person. It is how we deal and cope with our wrong doings that really counts!

One thing is for sure I loathe dishonesty in anyone, I mean can you trust them if they are going to constantly tell you falsehoods(lies), see now I have a big mansion and a large mercedes convertible (if you knew me that is not true) but see how easy it is to be something your not.

Best to be just yourself....and no lies!

One who talks is good for me, being a gemini, for me hot is cold and cool is hot, well they do say opposites attract?

3 things for a man to have in qualities, communicates at all levels, has good understanding and knowledge and not to be self righteous.

well here goes ....saying hello to all those that are new here as I am a newbie too!
Not new to the internet though and have had my fair share of experiences to say the least....good and ugly ones.

Not really here to find love, just to make friends.

Having to read a lot of info at the moment...lots to read should keep me from getting bored?

So hello, is it me your looking for, I can see it in your eyes, see it in your smile, not here to be scammed either so keep those eyes and smile away from me