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453. NEVER say the words "I've had better"
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9. Communication is key. If you aren't sure what your woman wants ASK THEM. And ladies, your man can't read your mind!
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8. What works for one couple may not work for another. The next one may just LOVE your tinfoil hat and addiction to stale cheetos and XBOX Live..
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6. Don't let their friends sleep with you.
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2 1/2. ALWAYS buy them something that YOU want. Its a win-win!
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I see the problem is if men and women could just learn to be honest with each other there would never be cheating if its over its over just be upfront. If you treat them right, and love them truly they wont need to cheat. 
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Topic:
Lets all move to Missouri!
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Lake St. Louis on the border of O'Fallon here.....
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Edited by
VacantDreamer
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Mon 06/14/10 08:47 PM
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Thanks guys, for all of your input. Much love to you all.
My apologies for sounding a bit whiny. Trust me when I say that is NOT usually a part of my personality, and will be gone....NOW! 
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I read somewhere that FWB quite often came to a sad ending for the reason that one or the other parties ended up wanting something more from the relationship; and the friendship suffered because of it. My guess is that he possibly got to that point 
I hope for our friendship's sake that isn't the case...we have always been very close friends. It would suck to lose that. Yes. Yes it does. |
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Have you tried analyzing the situation over and over? I have the perfect response for this, but sadly, I do not want my posting abilities revoked.
(Slides Vacant a $20) You can tell us. 
*psst* *whispers to Goof* I'm fairly certain the mods are always watching
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I read somewhere that FWB quite often came to a sad ending for the reason that one or the other parties ended up wanting something more from the relationship; and the friendship suffered because of it. My guess is that he possibly got to that point
I hope for our friendship's sake that isn't the case...we have always been very close friends. It would suck to lose that. |
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Vacant, I will be honest here. I know you stated that you guys have been open and honest in the past. But even so, with the way he responded to the no sex, he is either being overly dramatic or he just did tell a lie. Something happened to him. Maybe he has decided that he doesn't want the NSA anymore and he just couldn't be honest. Or, maybe that is why he was dramatic with his response and was thinking you would just ask him "What's going on? Why are you evasive?". Sometimes, people who don't normally lie to each other will tell a lie. And, they normally do it when they don't even have to. Silly? Yes, it is but it is also true. But hey, I might be wrong. Just throwing in my opinion here.
Thank you for a different perspective. I don't really know which is the correct one, but honestly, at this point, I'm not going to torture myself about it anymore. It is what it is, and probably about time for us both to move on past that part of our friendship, anyway. Word! Now go out and pimp on the chicks. Oh wait! You mean I have to compete with you? Damn it Vacant. "Kicks dirt". I will lose.
LOL I am sure you will have more luck in that department than I, love. |
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Have you tried analyzing the situation over and over? I have the perfect response for this, but sadly, I do not want my posting abilities revoked.
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Edited by
VacantDreamer
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Mon 06/14/10 08:32 PM
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1. he is interested in you romantically or 2. he is interested in someone else romantically are you interested in him romantically? 
No  that ship sailed for me a long time ago.
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Vacant, I will be honest here. I know you stated that you guys have been open and honest in the past. But even so, with the way he responded to the no sex, he is either being overly dramatic or he just did tell a lie. Something happened to him. Maybe he has decided that he doesn't want the NSA anymore and he just couldn't be honest. Or, maybe that is why he was dramatic with his response and was thinking you would just ask him "What's going on? Why are you evasive?". Sometimes, people who don't normally lie to each other will tell a lie. And, they normally do it when they don't even have to. Silly? Yes, it is but it is also true. But hey, I might be wrong. Just throwing in my opinion here.
Thank you for a different perspective. I don't really know which is the correct one, but honestly, at this point, I'm not going to torture myself about it anymore. It is what it is, and probably about time for us both to move on past that part of our friendship, anyway. |
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Topic:
Too much vampire stuff
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oh no watch out the glittering vamps are loose. run for your life. All you gotta do is tell em their hair looks somewhat normal.....they will be sidetracked... or just kick them in the face. Yes because they wouldn't want their sparkling to be marred by bruising... |
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Aren't you looking for a woman now? Is he not aware that you have switched as far as that ... I don't mean that disrespectfully. Maybe he isn't aware that your interests are now with women and he still cares and wants another chance with you. He knows. That is part of the reason we decided to call it quits 4 years ago. But he also knows that he's always been my exception, if that makes sense. And no, I haven't been "using" him. The NSA sex has been a mutual thing, both of us wanted it each time it happened. I don't expect him to give me reasons to make me feel better. I'm a bigger person than that. I am just confused on what he DID say, and why things are different now. And the sex was fantastic for both of us, thank you very much. ok...i didn't say anything about you using him.... No that was directed to one of the other posters, same with the boring sex comment....sorry I'm still trying to figure out the quote thing lol |
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Topic:
Too much vampire stuff
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oh no watch out the glittering vamps are loose. run for your life. All you gotta do is tell em their hair looks somewhat normal.....they will be sidetracked... |
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Topic:
Seat Belt Laws
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I feel naked without mine 
I do as well. |
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Aren't you looking for a woman now? Is he not aware that you have switched as far as that ... I don't mean that disrespectfully. Maybe he isn't aware that your interests are now with women and he still cares and wants another chance with you. He knows. That is part of the reason we decided to call it quits 4 years ago. But he also knows that he's always been my exception, if that makes sense. And no, I haven't been "using" him. The NSA sex has been a mutual thing, both of us wanted it each time it happened. I don't expect him to give me reasons to make me feel better. I'm a bigger person than that. I am just confused on what he DID say, and why things are different now. And the sex was fantastic for both of us, thank you very much. |
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