...WELL its a good pointer..he does that to ensure either
1)a continued sex relation with his wife.(lest she runs away)lol and also to ensure his family's growth.
2)a secret sex relation at office with a younger girl.
3)a secret mistress hidden somewhere
4)If not marriage..then perhaps many women.

please point out other areas where u feel ive been erroneous -sailorboy4u
to : Winx
Success in a career is a personal success. That success is not about having sex with his wife. A husband and wife love each other and sex is part of that and not about "success in a career".
(NOW thats what we all like to believe as the essense of a relationship..but most of the time its sadly untrue...especially as time goes by )
Mistress? Younger girl? That's just wrong when you're married.
(i know that ...my topic of discussion is indeed pertaining to it)
(as for it being wrong when married..sadly its also really happening.)
What about women who go to college and become successful?
(dont most of them wind up somewhere in the 1-4 list?)

My ultimate reward was when I had my child. (how touching)

Also, here's some internet etiquette advise. Typing in all caps means that you're hollering at us. (TFTT- thks for the tip)


They're called lesbians (how clever)

'Pfft they should know about the many other things that get it long before they do. Like bike riding, horseback riding, tampons, or I think the stand-up roller coaster at Canada's Wonderland did the trick. '

All I can say is lucky girls ..u always have an excuse...guys no such thing except the real thing

To:SunnyMcleod
Hi, for the sake of conversation......No insult intended..virginity is generally mistakenly thought of as a girlie related thing...but factually also is a related guy thing...though im sure u know that?

To:Dick8
watch the movie basic instinct ..to prove my point. and what about this cannibalistic trait./ caveman talk/ are u living the life of a recluse or is it just that u r lost in time in the dark ages.
Dude If Im a layman ..then you must be a caveman..something funny too about ur name here..does it ring a bell? cannibal

To:FearandLoathing
Firstly my apology if you felt insulted.
What I said was meant to be taken as a joke. I hope it can be undone. (its not like the loss of virginity..u know)!!
Now considering your statements,:
1)Not every1 uses sex to reproduce -they being a 'minority'.....to me ,thats a laugh....look at the number of porn sites among other thing..what about the high divorce rates..what about polygamic convenience (although denied).
2)I have roamed all over the world asia /middle-east/europe/south america /mexico/ venezuela and many more..your country too... having seen the plight of many young women /many divorced women, the world over (due to the irresponsible / selfish lustful attributes of men)..So its my first hand knowledge, experiences and really nothing to do with the teaching techniques / newness as you wrongly surmise. (if u really get out of your nutshell and travel the world over..around ur own country too..or the south americas at least..u will have an entirely different viewpoint of females,sex and its relation to man )..Its truly a mans world (and his lust for sex in its many forms) .While we cannot really change that (and find it hard to even admit it)..the least one can do is acknowledge the facts and remember to treat the womenfolk with respect ..we owe our very existance to them and they are the reason why the world moves.
3)As for intelligence factor quoted by you ..Im really happy to be a citizen of a country that forms the major brain power for most advancements in your country. Considering ur statements made ...well I never cried when a lollipop was taken ..I always had more in stock.
WHAT ABOUT YOU?
4)Majority acceptance and agreeance on a topic need not necessarily be deemed right.(most geniuses would agree) .
5)As for survival of the fittest prevailing and we being the unfortunate ones, I was in your country and saw the 24/11 area pit just a few days after the dastardly act..and also heard of the various attacks in India... believe me I WAS NOT LAUGHING then ....afteral we all live under the same sun and sleep under the same moon ..Surely with evolution comes advancement of the fittest, but MANS own advancement could bring about his destruction...THIS WE MUST COLLECTIVELY BE AWARE OF...not have the last laugh..Look what hes done to SEX.

To:Dict8
-and a male succeeds and invents things for ones better survival and ones better life and that of his offspring (if any) .
-AND THEN better survival ensures procreation of the species ...and procreation is through sex ...(which may be just a placid necessity to some and then to others a unfathomable delight)...It still is SEX and done with a female.

I had a lovely doggy named suzie for almost '17' years. Her ability to understand spoken words (sometimes only mimiced without sound) truly amazed me then and that too 'without an education'..The ability of an animal to understand another i.e.(me) over a period of time and then respond in a manner convenient with the available attributes of a canine,(eg. YES -with her tongue wholly darting in and out of her mouth & NO- with her tongue very slightly darting in and out of her mouth) together with the other numerous examples of interactual interspeceial abilities has me thinking:
1)Considering
Darwins big Bang theory of evolution.."the possibilities of animals being categoritically the superior species on other planets variably (yet unknown to us) in the vast universe."
2)Considering
-the theory that energy can neither be created nor destroyed..and
-that the soul is a form of energy ..and
-that we have not yet mastered /conquered the dying phenomenon
"is it possible that besides re-incarnation..(as confirmed by nat.geo & discovery),souls also transcends into other lifeforms" and coexist without the ability to reveal their past identity?
........Opinions Welcome.............

To:Dict8
How do u really know..perhaps it was invented with the idea to roll faster to his female mate..or roll 'still faster' in search of other female mates..LOL

To:FearandLoathing
dude ,if insects had their say..they would agree with me (DESPITE U BEING THEIR LOVER) that u r truly a rare specimen of MAN-KIND.
-When u say sex does not follow after marriage to a female...I DO NOT follow.
-When u say that u r not interested in marriage ..I CAN understand this,...but when u say u r not interested in many women then..We both know that u r either being hypocritical (as many men)..or need a serious evaluation of ur xual preferences..LOL

To :Ruth34611,
(They why would he continue to work towards greater and greater success in his career or his studies or his goals and accomplishments? Why does he continue to progress, to invent, to think and do more?)
...WELL its a good pointer..he does that to ensure either
1)a continued sex relation with his wife.(lest she runs away)lol and also to ensure his family's growth.
2)a secret sex relation at office with a younger girl.
3)a secret mistress hidden somewhere
4)If not marriage..then perhaps many women.

please point out other areas where u feel ive been erroneous

To Melody,n other allies,
The definition or touting of an opinion is basically of little relevance here.. What matters is the realistic, practical context of that opinion in connection to the topic of discussion.
Hypothetical or rather hastily drawn 'side-tracked' opinions and their subsequent defence of being right or wrong {especially when unrelated to the core topic and furthermore unable to be backed with substantial proof in a debate (as being done by you)}..while well accepted ..need not necessarily mean agreed with.

To: FearandLoathing
just curious...do you get hypnotised reading this font...LOL

To CYPOET.
TRULY a pic speaks a thousand words indeed..but i was referring to MAN..Its only natural women are the fairer ( n more beautiful)lot.

IndnPrncs n Melody
dont think too much of it, these are just my reflections / ponderings of a general life cycle. ...Im breaking it down further as an attempt to enable u to see light and possible justification of my statements:
1)A man is born of female (true?)
2)Its mainly the mother (female) who guides /cares/influential factor for him (true?)
3)At varying stages in school/college/careers a man generally tries relating/impressing/ courting a female by varying means available at his disposal... and when he attains a SUCCESSFUL status in life (a prime criteria sought by most females -although varying in degrees of acceptance SINCE SUCCESS MEANS SECURITY), he finally winds up with the woman of his dreams . (true?)
4)Sex follows (true?).
5)If its not marriage and a single female..then its many females then..and for what? (surely not for decoration)..sex.(true?)
(The truth is sometimes chosen to be ignored and not accepted readily ....but it is the wheel of life).
AND THEN WHERE AM I WRONG?

jlove43..thks..did not realise this n shall try not to do it again

( INTENDED FOR MELODYS SUPPORTER) just curious..why do you think ..and say 'unfortunately' i have not experienced western life...(what is the comparative factor that says western life is better)..please tell me.
Furthermore your analysis of Melody's perceptions is still ur perception...status of my belief of it stands
As for roaming the world, and experiences... lady..your conclusion is erroneous...still its well received...(ur right to standby ur opinion is what makes ur individual identity)..be happy and smile a little.

now i know..thks

got it n thanks